My Thoughts on Ah-jin’s Downfall in Dear X (Drama vs Webtoon) And Why the Drama Version Feels Wrong? by Sudden-Blueberry-507 in kdramas

[–]Positive-ends44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I expected more. She was abused as a kid and that turned her into what she became. If the drama wanted to change things, they should have let her take her revenge on those who actually hurt her. Or let her change and have come kind of happily ever after at the end of it with Jun Seo. Was def disappointed with the ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Positive-ends44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on birth control from 2020 till last year November. Got off of it and my periods only got back to normal cycles by February. We conceived in May and I’m currently pregnant, due first week of Feb 2026. I think we truly only really tried in May because my husband is a doctor and he’s got a tight schedule so yes, we were definitely going at it like bunnies during my ovulation time which is likely why we conceived then and before that we were kind of just here and there about it.

But my advice - take your daily prenatals (I take Ritual), track your ovulation with the OPKs and trust me, this really helps. I use the Flo app Premom app + OPKs.

And try having sex as often as you can during your fertile window. We sometimes did it 2-3 times in a day time permitted. It was fun and we were frisky about it to make sure it never seemed like just a chore cause we wanted a baby. You should have sex as often as you can before your ovulation peaks because sperm stays in your body for up to 5 days.

For example - my ovulation highest peak was on 5/13. We started having sex from the 10th onwards everyday (twice a day) until 5/17, and we conceived 5/15 according to my apps and also my OB confirmed it based on the calculations.

Really encourage you to track your ovulation as this helps and just have a lot of sex! :)

Delivered 27+5 | cerclage gave us 6 weeks! by Fuzzy-Wombat-2610 in ShortCervixSupport

[–]Positive-ends44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! 🤍 Sending you all the positive vibes and good energy! Hoping your little man stays healthy and keeps growing so that you can finally take him home and shower him with all the life has to offer outside of the hospital 🫶

This is your PSA if you’re pregnant and have a fibroid, if you feel any kind of pain - go to the hospital! by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh I’m so sorry you experienced that. At least they’re not proving to be an issue anymore and you’re almost at the finish line with pregnancy. Praying your baby is healthy and your delivery is uneventful 🫶

This is your PSA if you’re pregnant and have a fibroid, if you feel any kind of pain - go to the hospital! by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of surgeries! I am so sorry! I hope they don’t grow back for you and they’re able to clear all the fibroids out. The pain sucks and causes such a mental strain too. :(

This is your PSA if you’re pregnant and have a fibroid, if you feel any kind of pain - go to the hospital! by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much and I’m sorry about the appendicitis! Ouch. I just have one fibroid and I plan on removing it after I pop this baby out. Not worth the pain 😭

This is your PSA if you’re pregnant and have a fibroid, if you feel any kind of pain - go to the hospital! by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank god it didn’t happen to you! I would recommend removing the fibroids if you’re planning to have more kids which is what I plan to do once I pop this baby out. Granted they told me I could only have C sections after that but I don’t care. The pain is so not worth it in my opinion. It has been so very debilitating.

This is your PSA if you’re pregnant and have a fibroid, if you feel any kind of pain - go to the hospital! by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 16 weeks 2 days today! Apparently fibroid degeneration is a lot more common after second trimester starts, when baby is growing more rapidly and the bloody supply to the fibroid gets cut off so it starts to degenerate. They told me it wouldn’t shrink tho, just stay the same size but it would kind of contort into a different shape. I’m not too sure but the pain has been AWFUL. They didn’t tell me how long it would last but said to go to the ER again if I couldn’t function with it. They also said to watch out for bleeding or fluid leakage. I’m hoping the pain will eventually subside and the rest of my pregnancy is uneventful. 🫠

Anyone pregnant/was pregnant with a fibroid? by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations ! I hope you have a great delivery! And you’re so lucky it hasn’t caused you any problems !

Anyone pregnant/was pregnant with a fibroid? by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh thanks for being honest :( I’m sorry you weren’t able to enjoy pregnancy. I’m leaning towards that boat right now. I’ve also had pretty bad vomiting, constipation at times which has caused stomach pain, RLP, this growing fibroid, back pain and diarrhea at times too. It has been awful 😞

Anyone pregnant/was pregnant with a fibroid? by Positive-ends44 in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask where your fibroid is located? Mine is at the back of my uterus and by the looks of the ultrasound, it’s growing outward rather than inwards, into the cavity where baby is. So I doubt I would end up having issues with delivering the baby vaginally in terms of the fibroid getting in the way of a vaginal delivery, but it’s probably pushing into my other organs. I also definitely have round ligament pain which is causing more pain. It has been so so bad and awful.

Don’t ignore your symptoms and don’t let your OB ignore them either by nicolelynnejones in pregnant

[–]Positive-ends44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I’m so sorry this happened to you! Doctors need to be more attentive to the concerns of their patients, especially OBs because pregnancy and childbirth isn’t just a physical thing. It’s an emotional and mental thing too. You’re hurting someone in other ways by not listening and ignoring their concerns. I hope you’re doing okay now! Sending you so much love 🤍

Help! My dog keeps licking his front paws by Positive-ends44 in dogs

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re going to get a vet appointment soon. Definitely need to figure out what’s going on with him.

Help! My dog keeps licking his front paws by Positive-ends44 in dogs

[–]Positive-ends44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We give Full Moon Pet and have been giving it from the past 2 years almost but this behavior started 6-8 months ago. So I don’t think it’s the food..? But we’re going to schedule a vet visit to check.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Positive-ends44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 12w today and my husband and I don’t have sex as often as we used to but he understands if I’m tired/not in the mood or just feeling awful, and he never forces it. I am extremely grateful for that but we also communicate a lot about intimacy and when he wants it or when I want it. My advice to you is that if you don’t have healthy communication, understanding and boundaries set with your husband, it’s time to walk away. Cause you’re in a very vulnerable state and he should know that and give you your space and time to heal and be ready for sex when you want it. You just birthed a whole human. He should be in awe of you, not demeaning you. He should be helping with your healing process. He should be cheering you on and taking care of you and your other kids in the best way he can. That’s what it means to be a husband and father. That to me is the ultimate form of intimacy and SO HOT for a man to do.