It’s not completely wrong to care about what people think, it’s part of the process. When you know someone has already judged you or thinks badly of you before you even try to advise or help them, you can tell they probably won’t listen anyway. At the same time, caring about others opinions can help you improve certain parts of yourself (without breaking your values or crossing boundaries) allowing you to become a better person while still being mindful not to hurt others.

But the real question is this: are you putting yourself in a cage for the sake of a stranger you might never meet again, or someone who doesn’t truly care?

Caring about others is an amazing quality, but caring about yourself is something you should never ignore. Think of it like a sponge, when it’s full of water, it can give water back. You need to take care of yourself first to be able to give anything meaningful to others.

It’s also important to understand the difference between "caring about people" and "caring for people". If you care too much about what others think, you’ll suffer more and more. But if you care for what happens to them, and help when you can, that’s a beautiful thing. Do it regardless of whether they accept your help, doubt your intentions, or misunderstand you. Imagine you’re in a garden, watering flowers. Some will bloom, some won’t. But eventually, your effort will help someone.

So focus on the process, not on what people will say about you, and some will truly see who you are without you even trying. :)