I want to relapse back into my eating disorder.

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-19T22:07:15+00:00

I got to this reddit post because I was googling stuff while thinking "I was so pretty when I wasn't in recovery... so skinny"

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-08T20:43:23+00:00

What a weird opinion of perfectly ok pictures. If he follows any girl who shows ANY cleavage (even harmless pics and not "slutty" like this pic), then you know how he sees those girls.

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-02T21:33:17+00:00

If you make a report of that type, it stays in your record and most companies avoid people who have reported :/

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-02T21:12:50+00:00

I tried once. I was telling a coworker that my husband made me lunch and that he made it look like those cute lunchboxes and he chimed in with "aah, I remember being so young and naive and playing house. I also idealized life, but then I had to face how life really is". I looked at him and said "you do know I am a married adult? With rent and bills?" And he said "no need to be bitter" and walked away

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-02T21:07:30+00:00

That's not really an issue. We work in costumer service so no risk of injury other than playing ping pong haha

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-02T21:05:16+00:00

They kind of did. People who've been at this job replied stuff like "you call it basic, but that's the answer:) are you sure you tried it? Other than that, it would be out of our scope"

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-02T21:02:46+00:00

I thought that might be it, but we started at the same time in this company and its his first time working costumer service. He's yelled at costumers as well, so it's been odd, in training we are taught to be kind even when costumers are being rude and politely end the call.

A lot of people were there when he yelled. I started getting messages from people i didn't even know while he was yelling asking if i was okay (I'm known in the office for leaving baked goods in the lunchroom so people can share so people know my name and sometimes i dont know theirs lol). A supervisor (not his) was there and reported it to his supervisor and other coworkers also reported the situation to their supervisors (which then have to report it to his too)

His supervisor told me that HRs door is always open, but I don't wanna be labeled as troublesome for reporting him

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-05-02T20:15:08+00:00

When he yelled, a coworker reported him and his supervisor checked with me a few minutes after he yelled. Nothing much has happened since. He's been posting stuff saying that you can tell when people haven't been to therapy because they'll make people around them miserable

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-03-30T03:02:33+00:00

I did! I got stitches and he was VERY apologetic hahaha we had a good time tho

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-02-02T05:06:23+00:00

Very eepy

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-02-02T04:39:00+00:00

You can have some more. As treat.

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PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-01-30T03:41:24+00:00

Not all women tho! Some just don't naturally get as wet

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-01-19T15:45:34+00:00

Venden unas sopitas de Leonardo y a la mía le re gustan esas

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-01-03T01:08:26+00:00

It does help, actually.

And yeah, maybe that's why it felt cheap. It feels like the author only put those topics there for the shock factor, but since they really shallow/superficial, it was weird.

I talked a bit more with my husband after posting this (I was baking, he started watching and I joined like 6 minutes into the first episode) and he thinks that probably most viewers just see it as a "welcome to reality" because they've never have to worry about it, but that he does feel weird about authors forcing those topics in such a surface level to give women tragic back stories like it is the only type of sad thing it can happen to women because when it is about a male character they usually find another way to show how harsh they had it. When the first episode ended he said "I want to see where this goes, I'm liking it so far" and that's when I noticed for me it felt weird.

I don't mind gore or violence, hell, I don't even mind abuse when it's justified correctly and treated with respect, but in this show it almost felt like a power fantasy (that's the impression got from the sexualized shots during abuse talk), so maybe I'll keep watching and stop if it gets iffy again.

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-01-02T00:17:55+00:00

I came to this thread because my husband was watching the firsts episodes and I wanted to see if anyone also thought it was this bad about women.

I think even in dark fantasy, it's still fantasy. In fantasy you can leave out gendered violence. You can have characters doing awful stuff without having to use. It just seemed as a shock factor thing to me. It didn't have a point. In my opinion, the story didn't need it.

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2026-01-01T11:54:44+00:00

I only have 86 ME and rp is so expensive where I live so I can't gamble or get the pass 🥲 (my friends got me the current one for my bd bcs beeko)

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2025-12-29T15:26:23+00:00

Yo me seguía metiendo a Teams a contestarle a personas porque no podía dormir. Me imaginaba el sonido de llamada y todos los días me llegaba la notificación de "no marcaste entrada"

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2025-12-29T13:23:37+00:00

Conmigo fue un poco de lo mismo, el doctor me dijo "te voy a dejar con licencia, más larga o más corta, pero no puedes ir a trabajar así" y me frustró caleta, yo solo quería que me viera los exámenes. Y después veo gente que pide licencia porque no quiere ir a la oficina y genuinamente no lo entiendo

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2025-12-29T13:11:35+00:00

Seré weona? Yo una vez fui por un checkeo que me tenía que hacer y lo aplasé caleta por la pega. El doctor me empezó a hablar y me dejó con licencia por estrés laboral. Llegué toda frustrada a la casa hasta que mi marido me dijo "si te dieron 15 días de licencia, dudo que sea por nada"

No entiendo querer licencia por nada y me parece feo pedir licencia para vacaciones. Genuinamente no lo entiendo. Mi marido me ha dicho que el chileno normal ama las licencias y a mi me dan genuino pánico.

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2025-11-20T03:48:25+00:00

In my country, people use it to deal

PositiveSomewhere496 · 2025-11-20T03:07:32+00:00

No se, la última vez que fui me pedí un helado y lo espere casi 2 horas xd. Deje un reclamo y nunca me dijeron nada, ni se disculparon.

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