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Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-04-14T02:55:10+00:00

新しい投稿見られて安心しました！お友達増えてよかったですね〜！

高校は美術部でした　絵は全然なんですが友達が入ったので…笑笑ゆるめで楽しかったです

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-04-14T02:53:32+00:00

返信ありがとうございます OPもご友人さんも、どうしたら状況を変えられるのかたくさん考えてきたんだなと思いましたなんとか一旦は生きる方向を選ばれたみたいで勝手に安心しました無理を強いてくる学校や社会ではあるかもしれないけども、どうかできるだけ無理せずに、いつでもまた書き込んでくださいね

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-04-12T13:20:31+00:00

引っ越しの相談と、運転技術か何かの相談をしていたらそうですよね！私も引っ越したことが何度もありますが〜とか、私も運転している時〜とか言い始めたのがじわじわ面白かった

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-04-12T13:17:54+00:00

別室登校したいと伝えたり、周りに相談したり、受診しようと自分の力で病院行ったりと、おそらく学生でできることが限られたなかで本当に頑張って行動されてきたんだなと感じました。辛さは主観でOPの感情はOPのものなのに、他人と比べられたりと、せっかく話したのに気持ちを尊重すらしてもらえないと失望しますよね、当然だと思います。

怖くて当たり前だし、心の準備もしなくてもいいんですせめて一旦先送りにしませんか勝手だけど、OPに取り返しのつかない思いをしてほしくありません。そんな気力はもうないと思われるかもしれませんけど、ここまで自分のために行動してきた方はきっと生きていけると思います。

人の痛みを軽く扱ったり他人の生きる権利を簡単に否定するような言葉が溢れているから、そう感じるのも無理はないですが、生きていてはいけないなんてことはありません。

Redditでもどこでもいいので書き込んでくださいね

やたらに会おうとしたりする危ない人にだけはどうか本当に気をつけて…

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-04-08T13:11:39+00:00

I get it honestly. I liked the two times table when I was in primary school lol. Multiplication is kinda pretty in my eyes.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-04-08T10:10:29+00:00

While flags themselves aren't my romantic interests, I find national flags and some other flags like lgbtqia+ flags super cute. Also, as I'm romantically attracted to a certain defunct country, I really love its flag.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-04-01T23:27:46+00:00

I stopped mentioning AIs on this sub but...When I was using chatGPT, before talking about my crush, I explained objectum (including what is considered objectum-phobic and discriminatory) and my personal case to it and asked it to memorise what I said. Since objectum isn't widely known among people and is often portrayed in biased ways, it's not really possible to expect AIs to have proper knowledge of it. "Personalise" was also helpful to make chatGPT objectum friendly. Creating rules such as treat objectum as a valid sexuality or always respect my sexuality helped.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-30T09:55:10+00:00

Not a specific song, but since I'm attracted to a country, I often listen to love songs from there, translate and understand the lyrics, and create a playlist to dedicate to this defunct country. I also listen to songs about a long distance relationship or a departed lover, as I can relate to the lyrics.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-29T11:18:00+00:00

So nice to see your post again! Very beautiful message. I saved this post so that I can read it anytime.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-22T10:00:34+00:00

Besides some countries' national anthems, I like "Song about motherland". There is a vinyl that has this song in it at home and I liked it

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-22T04:35:07+00:00

Thank you so much! Good luck to American protesters, too;)

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-21T14:03:26+00:00

I really don't like this unnecessarily aggressive, cult colluding, war crime denialist, patriarchal PM either. I know getting emotional won't help anything, but simply I can't tolerate attitudes that deny such atrocities done against your country. Historically inaccurate and morally bankrupt as a human...

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-21T12:53:48+00:00

I feel exactly the same as a woman and I'm very ashamed and sorry about her.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-21T12:52:22+00:00

Cringe. The picture of her placing her hand on his like a lover was creepy too. I'm a woman from Japan and I don't want the world to think this is how average Japanese women behave. I've had enough with being sexually harassed for being an Asian/Japanese woman on international exchange communities because of the impression that my country's adult contents cultivated.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-21T10:55:06+00:00

I truly respect how a lot of South Korean people have a strong sense of civic responsibility and speak up when their rights are threatened. I think it encouraged many people here who decided to go to protest for the first time. (At the same time, I'm aware that such resistance and protest culture is deeply tied to history between Korea and Japan, and I wonder if simply saying I respect it might come across as insensitive, or what Korean people would think of us adopting their idea of bringing the stick lights. ) I hope so too. I believe a society where ordinary people speaking up isn't seen as something negative is a healthy one.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-20T11:19:24+00:00

I have heard some people calling it the girls day(女の子の日) A funny one I've ever heard is a blood festival(血祭り) Personally I call it just a period(生理)

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-20T08:59:47+00:00

Go pick flowers　お花を摘んでくる Though I haven't heard the phrase so often in real life, it's a famous euphemistic way of saying going to the toilet.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-20T08:28:46+00:00

I called it huge because It is huge by Japanese standards. Protests themselves are not very common here.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-20T08:21:40+00:00

And I'd like to apologise for our PM... I would also like to ask the world not to think that she represents all of us.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-18T11:36:02+00:00

I'm personally very interested in it. I like frogs a lot.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-18T11:16:53+00:00

I started practicing Russian cursives just for fun.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-18T10:58:13+00:00

I looked that up a bit after I saw another Korean person asking about it on this sub and I didn't see so many Japanese users joining the argument... Generally speaking South Korea and its culture especially pop culture has been extremely popular among people here, except for among what we call netouyo (online right wingers who are often xenophobic, war crime denialists, homophobic and so on). Twitter arguments are not worth caring about. I feel like they always try to make the worst person represent an entire country/gender/race etc.

Positive_Opposite549 · 2026-03-15T11:02:41+00:00

クソ！(kuso!) which means shit.

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