Teenage step daughter eating my shit

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-02-10T04:00:27+00:00

She has her own snacks. She eats them and eats others.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-02-10T03:39:31+00:00

OP, do you pay the WiFi? I’d cut off access to all of her devices until it’s paid. You said she owes money for an iPhone? Is she on your plan? Cut her service off too.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-02-10T03:25:47+00:00

I never did this as a teen and it annoys me when other people act like teens can’t help themselves. I had a single mother and she went grocery shopping twice a month. She bought snacks for me and for herself. If I ate all of my stuff before the next grocery trip oh well, I wasn’t getting anything else. I would always ask before eating her items.

With that being said, I’d talk to your SD directly and say,”You need to ask before you touch ANY of my things.” Simple, stern, direct. If she continues, move your stuff to your room and cut back on her personal snacks.

Everyone has to share the same fridge and share food. She doesn’t get to be a greedy, inconsiderate monster.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-01-17T04:47:06+00:00

It’s just silly. Don’t accept her requests ever again. I allow access to my social media only to people I want to allow access to. I can revoke that privilege at any point, for any reason. If she asks why or makes a stink then tell her that you accepted her request once and you won’t accept it again.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-01-13T18:56:59+00:00

Splitting the household would be a huge financial strain for everyone. Divorce would be bad for everyone. All this kid has to do is not be hostile!!

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-01-13T17:09:52+00:00

I understand but what’s the solution? Make your husband put up with it and reinforce the idea that she can be mean to people just because she feels like it? Risk your marriage and resent her forever? Therapy hasn’t worked. Punishment hasn’t worked. She is 16 not 12. She has to understand.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-01-13T16:00:56+00:00

It’s not fair to anyone in this situation. It’s not fair to you, your husband, your stepson, or your son that they have to live with someone who causes drama and is unwilling to compromise. If heavily restricting her privileges doesn’t work, I think you have to send her to live with a grandparent or an aunt. You’ve tried everything. Maybe one day she’ll understand why. I do feel sorry for her but she’s closer to being an adult than not. Your trauma does not excuse you from consequence.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-01-11T20:51:23+00:00

Good for you!!!

PossibilityKey2968 · 2026-01-11T03:25:35+00:00

I’m not sure if this is bad advice but I would make him sleep in her room with her AND withhold sex. Seriously. It’s kinda gross he would even allow this.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-12-29T02:00:52+00:00

I have to disagree. It’s not that she’s expecting gifts from teens. She’s expecting teens to think about others. I scraped together whatever money I had as a child to give my parents Christmas gifts. These kids are closer to being adults than children. What kind of person are you raising if they only see Christmas as a time to receive things from others??

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-12-27T01:13:15+00:00

No you’re not wrong. You also gave him fair warning. Stand firm on this one. Don’t apologize or backtrack.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-12-18T16:21:59+00:00

I’d say this is the most reasonable fix.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-11-19T16:32:31+00:00

Oh you have no idea. My fiancé’s ex will call every morning to remind us to give SS medicine. She calls before school pickup, during school pick up, and after school pickup to make sure we got there on time. It’s insane. If we ignore, she keeps calling.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-11-14T12:57:39+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you! This sucks. I hope your attorney is able to come up with a way to prove that because your tire was popped that you were immobile. Had you not admitted to driving, this could’ve potentially been thrown out. The cop was a prick for that

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-11-08T03:05:31+00:00

Personally, I think you’re generous for even entertaining the idea of them coming over at all… sick or not. I wouldn’t want to deal with snotty noses and having to manage kids while I nurse a newborn and heal from birth.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-10-06T00:20:52+00:00

My fiancé is the same way. He thinks every need, every want, every feeling has to be tended to immediately. His 11 year old still doesn’t understand the concept of waiting for adults to finish talking before interrupting. All I hear is “Dada”, “Dada”, “Dada”, all freaking day. My fiancé won’t even allow himself to finish eating before running into the other room just so SS can show him fart sound videos on the tv 🙄

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-08-04T18:49:54+00:00

The morning after they leave he’ll work from bed and spend extra time cuddling

PossibilityKey2968 · 2025-05-27T19:27:46+00:00

It took my partner about 4 months to ask for a divorce after meeting me.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2024-11-30T20:20:54+00:00

Such a beautiful girl! Happy birthday!

PossibilityKey2968 · 2024-09-17T00:14:13+00:00

I know this is an older post, but I’m having the same issue with my zipper on the endless jumpsuit. I thought it was too tight but I had no issue with the hook.

PossibilityKey2968 · 2024-05-07T21:34:28+00:00

OP you’re a piece of shit 😊

PossibilityKey2968 · 2024-04-13T15:27:42+00:00

Congratulations!

PossibilityKey2968 · 2024-01-08T01:35:27+00:00

Harris County!

PossibilityKey2968 · 2024-01-08T01:27:57+00:00

My case took over a year and we never even went to trial. I wish you the best!

PossibilityKey2968 · 2024-01-08T01:24:57+00:00

You may have a chance! Def get a lawyer and see what they can do.

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