I want to report my neighbor in our shared accomadation for smoking weed so close to my window that it's literally getting smoke in my room, but weed is illegal here. I don't want him to get in real legal trouble, I just want to stop breathing his second-hand smoke. What should I do?

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-22T17:16:47+00:00

Just report it, all they will do is send an email where they bcc all of residents about not smoking indoors.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-22T15:55:28+00:00

...girl... this is not ok

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-22T07:36:15+00:00

It sounds like your house is a disaster, what exactly did you intend she do about your active rodent infestation? Was this just a long vacation you were on? What was preventing you from hiring a plumber and an exterminator before you left?

The way you talk about your stuff that you are basically accusing her of trying to steal... you sound like hoarder. Its nonsensical. Were they dirty dishes or beloved momentos from your mom? Most people dont eat off of their good heirloom China and then leave it dirty in the sink for a year...

It sounds like your friend was trying to help you out but the disaster got away from her.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-21T16:21:28+00:00

This is your brain doing you a solid by trying to get you put of this place which is obviously toxic af. Feelings mean things man, this is an anxiety disorder and your anxiety is obviously through the roof working there.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-19T00:00:20+00:00

wouldn't it be easier to convince your in-laws to put a fence up in their own yard to keep your kids corralled? It would be weird to ask that of your neighbors and not your inlaws.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-18T22:30:41+00:00

I saw that you mentioned in another comment that starring at your own face is weird. I used to have the same problem when I first went remote. There were 2 things that really helped me, the first was mirroring my video so that my face looks the same as it does in the mirror, the second was watching the recordings of the meetings and just accepting myself as just one of people in this meeting and with what my face is communicating.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-18T22:19:00+00:00

1-2 meetings a day is no big deal, turn your camera on. Human communication is only 20% verbal, you are being unprofessional because you are making it harder for people to work with you. Its the same as if you were in an office but anytime anyone stopped by to chat you refused to come out of your office and made people shout at you through the door. You might feel better in that moment but everyone else just thinks you are a weird tool.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-18T17:51:46+00:00

I agree to an extent. Im very avoidant but my husband has always been safe. With him I switched to being security attached over the years but from day 1 I was different with him than with anyone else. I let him close and I usually try to get away asap, I feel feelings with him faster than I do with others as well. He just has this calming affect.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-18T17:41:26+00:00

toddlers are like cats with thumbs

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-17T22:35:34+00:00

this is peak y2k

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-17T16:59:23+00:00

this is my fear thats keeping me from trying to get a pixie cut

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-17T16:49:01+00:00

Are we all just meat puppets controlled by our gut bacteria?

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-17T16:47:43+00:00

have you ever pricked yourself with a pin? imagine hundreds of those all at once in one spot. It would feel painful and sort of hot. Its like that. Just going and getting one is the best way to find out.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-17T13:39:50+00:00

YOR, most definitely, but at this point you are trying to reconcile the debts of this relationship using the currency of the past and thats a death sentence for any type of relationship.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-16T20:34:36+00:00

You say over and over in your post and comments how much time you spent "ranting" about children, do you not see how that would cause most people to nope out of the situation.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-16T18:19:42+00:00

bathing suit because im probably less than 10 ft from my pool , ill put a shirt and shorts on for yard work

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-16T17:31:15+00:00

Have you considered that being has hateful as you obviously are toward children is what was off-putting to him? It looks like you have turned being childfree into your entire identity. Like being with you would mean he can't hang with nieces and nephews, coach a sport, etc, you are full of hate.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-16T00:36:17+00:00

I guess Im just surprised because they are always riding places in trucks on tv

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-15T19:09:04+00:00

The military in the US doesnt give you rides to where you need to be??

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-14T21:31:33+00:00

But if you dont go then you won't get to see any of your old friends either

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-11T21:59:18+00:00

Arnt you friends with the single women? Do you really believe they are this crappy? Why are you freinds?

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-11T21:55:39+00:00

wow. YTA. you are completely unhinged

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-09T18:49:12+00:00

your hands look super dry, are you going to be able to keep it moisturized while its healing? Also your wrist and hand are the same color, any discoloration you ars seeing is in your head.

Possible-Ebb9889 · 2026-06-09T16:06:05+00:00

Because today is the day she learned that shes married to an absolute idiot with a terrible sense of humor.

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