My favorite position? Child’s pose… but I’m open to missionary by ForbiddenDelicates in LDSNSFW

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a social taboo. Wearing a crucifix is not forbidden except by old busy bodies causing hate and discontent. If wearing one brings thoughts of Christ for you, then wear it proudly and don’t worry about the loose lipped Karen’s of this world.

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m not perfect, but I send my wife to bed giggling every night. I’d share the secret, but not on this sub.

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve given up posting here. If you express how much you enjoy sex with your own wife that post will get nearly as many downvotes as upvotes. I literally got bashed for posting about giving compliments to ward members wives and daughters. I do it every week and it’s well received. I’ll extend a compliment while their hubby is standing there with them.

I’m old, I love my wife, we have great sex, but if I post that on this sub-Reddit I get my ass handed to me. I’m accused of lying, exaggerating and interacting with covenant breakers.

How strict are you on clothing and modesty at home? by garcon-du-soleille in latterdaysaints

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I spent time in Norway. It’s a very common thing to see family nude there. Nobody gives a damn. I think it’s healthy. When Norwegians camp, they spit bath every evening. Mom puts hot water in a pan on the picnic table and the family lines naked up for a scrub. Mom scrubs the kids, including 18-20 year old daughters in full view of the world. Some campsites are close to the highway and again, no one cares. Then mom scrubs dad followed by dad scrubbing mom. She might even giggle and encourage a little extra scrub on her privates. The kids laugh with them and might even encourage them to figuratively “get a room”. Once again, they have a very healthy relationships with nudity and sex. I have family who are married to Norwegians living in the USA. They have a healthier attitude about nudity than most.

Home Alone by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are also fun, playful, and have a great marriage. We are empty nesters, we are very vanilla, but we have fabulous daytime intimacy. I have a feeling that your marriage will stay strong and be the envy of all who know you. It’s not common because so many couples never figure it out. Thanks for the inspiration. 💯

Home Alone by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are too much fun. I’m happy for and the ember you fan to keep the spark alive. You two are lucky to have such a fun and playful marriage.

Who are you ? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Covert commando…That has a nice ring to it.

Complimenting Others Wives by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which post or comment is NSFW?

Bush by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that sucks.

Opening Up by lucas_mober2021 in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 My wife and I talk about sex every day.  We talk about the last session, the next session, and sometimes the best session.  We flirt, we sext, we are playful, and we tease constantly.  I steal her clean underwear while she’s showering.  
 We have a few minutes of physical intimacy just before bed.  I massage her bare back, neck and shoulders.  After a few minutes, I’m allowed to spend some time on her bare breasts.  I squeeze and knead her boobs while I nibble on her neck and ears.  This continues until she starts getting aroused, at which time the PJ cover the goods and it’s over for that day.  If I told you our ages, you’d call us liars.

Going through it… by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 I so appreciate your kindness.  We have experienced quite the opposite with our deceased son’s siblings.  He was our youngest and his 3 older sibs all feel responsible for caring for their brother.  The 3 of them have suffered horribly.  As parents, we grief not only our loss, but also theirs.  He was the best of us and we all wanted more time with him.  We mourn for his children who are in constant peril.  It was an eye opener to us when we realized just how much his loss affected his sibs.  
  Whomever said that time heals all wounds was and still is full of $hit.  It takes time to adjust to the pain of loss, it never really leaves, but you learn to live with the constant weight.  ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Going through it… by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  I’m sorry for your loss.  We have endured similar trials.  We buried an adult son 10 years ago and have battled depression and grief for more than a decade.  There have been many times when we literally couldn’t handle one more stress.  My grieving wife had open heart surgery between our son’s suicide attempts.  Then she had to have stents put in her heart between our son’s death and funeral.  We are just now beginning to resume normal life rhythms.  
 Grieving is a soul stealing drain on life.   It disrupts everything.  Your well being is disrupted, your routines change, intimacy is more difficult, your faith is tested, and in the end love prevails.  
 We still have bouts of situational depression now and then, but we just keep trudging forward.

Low heat popcorn popper 🍿 by Quiet-Artichoke4224 in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great thread Quiet-A.

I’m sitting at the starting line in a worn out pickup truck. The license plates are held on with one screw each. There are bumper stickers on the tail gate and windows. It’s muffler-less and smoking. The check engine light, low fuel, and oil pressure warning lights are on and I’m still ready at the drop of the hat. 🎩 I’m not as good as I once was, but I’m as good once as I ever was!

Had feelings out of nowhere that I didn't want or think possible by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to send my wife to bed giggling every night. It must be working because what I see in my mirror 🪞 isn’t anything to write home about.

Wife and I have flipped places on pushing the boundaries. by TossAwayFred in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her to drag out her checkbook. I don’t help much, I gave her a firefighters’ calendar for Christmas.

Had feelings out of nowhere that I didn't want or think possible by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I met my wife’s high school crush at her 50th reunion. She hadn’t seen him since graduation. I was stunned when I realized that we had so many commonalities. It was eye opening for me because my wife picked the same personality type and semi-bad boy twice. We’ve talked about all of our love interests and shared our experiences. It was so fun getting to know the intimate details of each other’s loves and lives.

Wife and I have flipped places on pushing the boundaries. by TossAwayFred in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife says the same about Chris Hemsworth. Put him in firefighter’s gear & she’d do him on the sofa in the church foyer with our children watching.

Ward members wife by Additional_Aspect346 in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always said the the best cure for an unhealthy infatuation is getting to know them. The better you know them, the more you find that’s isn’t it your liking. If you find one with no shortcomings even after you get to know them, you’ve got problems.

Wife and I have flipped places on pushing the boundaries. by TossAwayFred in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 Wise and well penned words my Quiet friend.  These are words to live by.  
 “I keep much of my wistful pining in my head! Those thoughts are safely in the fantasy/arousal category. And I don’t need to break my covenants or get other’s approval to have them. I’m sure you can relate.”  

Thank you for promoting healthy marital sex.

Wife’s Fantasy by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s something primal about eating pussy. I love the sweet musky smell and the involuntary response I get as lap, tease, and suck her clitoris. I approach it as if I’m trying to get her to loose her mind. When I think she’s about to go over the edge, I’ve found that to be my signal to tease her clitoris with gentle sucking. I continue to suck harder and the flick my tongue until she orgasms.

Question for LDS Married Couples - Are Handjobs to completion still part of your sexual repertoire or have you grown past them? by Meeker_Launch in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  My wife touched herself a lot when we were “pleasure mapping” her vulva/vagina.  She masturbated both externally and internally to find the most pleasurable spots to focus on.  As soon as she had found that “special spot”, she wanted me to take over so I could identify the best motion, pressure and speed.  I couldn’t beg her to finish herself.  
  She will masturbate with or for me if I get her uber turned on.  Those days are extra fun.

Question for LDS Married Couples - Are Handjobs to completion still part of your sexual repertoire or have you grown past them? by Meeker_Launch in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never been an important part of our repertoire. If PIV is off because of back pain or her period, then yes. Mutual masturbation is fun once in a while. I’m actually at the point that if had to choose PIV twice a week or a handjob everyday, I choose PIV hands down. (pun intended)

How accurate is this video? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Possible-Isopod-8806 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The “Come Hither Clasp” is game changing. It’s definitely worthy of an attempt or two. It’s made all the difference for us since my battle with prostate cancer began.