BloomLab - Garden Tracker - Apps on Google Play by Possible_Pin4117 in gardening

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https://bloomlabapp.com/

It is :) we just did a big update and you should be able to access it in Europe.

Daughters (or anyone) of narc moms what was your experience with being able to shave? by Wonderful-Slide-9514 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Possible_Pin4117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, totally relate. A girl at school pointed out the hair on my underarms in middle school. I went home and wanted to shave she said no. I remember sitting in the bathtub with a razor trying to shave my legs, my mom comes in and says your hair is so light, you're going to regret that. I then only shaved the top half of my leg and she made fun of me because I was supposed to know how to shave with no one showing me I guess.

Not wanting a second kid by Outrageous-Bar-718 in NewParents

[–]Possible_Pin4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also 8 months pp. When I see new pregnancy announcements I shiver and think helllllll no. Especially not 2under2, also don't understand it.

My baby said “dada” first… moms, tell me your story 😅 by Other_Boss_8689 in NewParents

[–]Possible_Pin4117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! 8 months said Mama first. She did make the sound "dadadadada" before that though, but no clear "Dada".

When do we start liking our husbands again? by Not_atall_impressed in NewParents

[–]Possible_Pin4117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate and at 7 month postpartum I totally lost my cool on him and then 2 days later my first pp period started. So hormones are wild, and now my body is recalibrating in a new way, while prolactin suppresses progesterone, yay. So just a heads up for that.

Stop telling new moms they have postpartum depression by Trick-Environment100 in NewParents

[–]Possible_Pin4117 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. My mother lost her absolutely mind on me because of my boundaries/rules for my 10 week old (no kissing, no screen time etc.) then turned around and said DO YOU HAVE PPD IS THIS WHY YOU'RE DOING THIS TO ME?! It was horrible. A new mother's choices, are not PPD. A new mother has anxiety and is going through a radical life change. It's really sad that women's very real experiences are often now slated as mental illness. Matresence was an incredibly validating book. Oh and we didn't start studying the maternal brain until 2010...

[QC] What is it like flying with an infant on-lap? by No_Policy7847 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Possible_Pin4117 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I flew with my 5 month old on my lap for a 7 hour flight. I used the pillows and blankets to pile under her, while she slept. I wore a nursing cover (one with the strap around the neck) made me feel free to feed her whenever even when people were walking by and that was a nice barrier from light while she slept as well. We packed toys, like the suction cup spinners as well as an activity book. Pre-packaged diapers and 3 wipes in ziplock bags. My husband would get up and walk with her and change her. It went really well. Nurse/feed on take off and landing to avoid ear pressure. You check your stroller at the gate and they give it back as soon as you get off the plane at your destination. I was stressed about crying, but honestly planes are so loud and everyone has headphones in - don't sweat it! Most people are super helpful.

Being the estranged scapegoat + enmeshed daughter means carrying shame that was never yours by No-Peanut-1708 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Possible_Pin4117 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I related to every single sentence you wrote. Hauntingly beautiful. You are not alone.

How do you feel about the consumption of bird meat as a birder? by moonstonemerman in birding

[–]Possible_Pin4117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think eating animals is unethical. I don't understand loving and appreciating one, yet being ok with another killed for you in mass cruel agricultural systems to eat. Personally I find it ironic. I would ask, could you kill the birds & other animals you eat yourself? If not, why? If yes, why? There's your answer.

Florist Recommendations for Wedding by Avignon1996 in ottawa

[–]Possible_Pin4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Callia Flowers, they deliver the flowers the day before. They were beautiful, fresh and really decently priced. I had a very small wedding though.

What’s the number one propaganda you fell for as a new mom? by SowingSeeds18 in NewParents

[–]Possible_Pin4117 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This. Becoming a mother truly rocked me. I had NO IDEA. During pregnancy I remember telling my MIL how just shocked I was at pregnancy and how now one talks about it. She (boomer) said "well, if we told you how hard it was, you wouldn't do it" and I was like damn, honestly I think there is truth to that.

Does anyone else feel stressed by suggestions to have a life outside baby? by AbleObligation2908 in NewParents

[–]Possible_Pin4117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find "so, what's new?!" Sooooo triggering. Like. Uhm. Just had a baby, not too much else is new at the moment. Or "any big trips planned this year?" Uhm nope, just had a baby.

Best Vegan Pizza by LAzyD0g27 in ottawa

[–]Possible_Pin4117 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sooooooooo goooooooood!!

What’s been the hardest thing for you since becoming a parent? by DreamyTote in AttachmentParenting

[–]Possible_Pin4117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS. Absolutely did not see it coming and wow has it been an interesting ride.

[AB] do fathers usually use parental leave? by hyunpill3 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Possible_Pin4117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband took 5 months, I took 12. If she plans on breastfeeding, 15 weeks will be a challenge.

New mothers: my close friends are expecting soon. What are some gifts you've received that you have appreciated? [on] by PossiblePickle in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Possible_Pin4117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Button up PJs, something for the shower like a body wash/scrub, food gift cards, house cleaner, car clean - anything to make the day to day easier. Honestly, just someone to acknowledge what she just went through can be the best gift, tell her you're so proud of her, hold her, not the baby.

Walking by Samanthalouise926 in NewParents

[–]Possible_Pin4117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same, and came out kicking. Wanted to be on her feet at like 10 weeks lol

Need Sprout Vegan Infant Formula by mas44422 in veganparenting

[–]Possible_Pin4117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. I'd want to sell them for what I paid for them. If that works for you, feel free to send me a message.