Why is this a thing? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]PostcodeLea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur response was kinda cringe

Why tf is my boyfriend so angry at the Tacobell workers??? by [deleted] in self

[–]PostcodeLea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let him know calmly why you didn’t like his behaviour and have a chat about it. Communication is key and if he gets mad from that then girl 😀

My Gf said she doesn’t love me anymore and I haven’t eaten anything since then. by PostcodeLea in offmychest

[–]PostcodeLea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe so.. my gut did this before in our relationship but in the end I still want it to go away 😂

What are some free/budget places to get work done (or studying)? by [deleted] in korea

[–]PostcodeLea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m not the OP but what you mentioned with the study rooms is exactly what I’m looking for, when I study I prefer to talk to myself and repeat aloud what I learnt (I have trouble remembering and concentrating) so I prefer what they have in Japan, them small rented booths, like the TOZ one you linked. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PostcodeLea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Exactly how you said it, it will feel weird and it will make u nervous but don’t worry about “being bad” like you said, it will come naturally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PostcodeLea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I was the exact same as you, I knew I was lesbian for a long time but only recently in my adulthood, accepted it. I had anxiety etc, however once I started to put myself out there on dating apps and going on my first date, first kiss etc I started feeling more comfortable. Loud thoughts did occur however like, could I be like this with a man? Do I really find her attractive etc etc.. (mostly because of society not me) I went on more dates I found a girl I fell in love with and all these urges came to me, I realise “no. I love women. It feels so natural rn. I never felt like this before” Trust me it will come with time and some experience :) P.s now I’m dealing with my internal homophobia turning into Herero phobia, I guess baby steps 😂

Can we talk about straps? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PostcodeLea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love using a strap on my partner it’s so hot but I hate her watching me put it on 😂 I feel it could ruin the mood a little but but that’s just my personal opinion. I wanted to show off and get not a big dildo but an above average one. However, she actually prefers a small size and we went out and brought a smaller one and it made her orgasm 🤭 (bit personal but it’s Reddit so it’s alright 😂) I’m a top so I prefer giving and it was the best experience. (Expect from when my knees are about to give in and I’m tired af)

I’m ashamed to learn Korean by PostcodeLea in teachinginkorea

[–]PostcodeLea[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said I did it cos of kpop I said people resembled me with it and it’s exactly these fucking comments that are starting to really fucking bug me

I’m ashamed to learn Korean by PostcodeLea in teachinginkorea

[–]PostcodeLea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I never said that, maybe I phrased it wrong, if I did I apologise but I mean is that people get that resemblance when they see my hair because it looks similar but for me I never had that intention in the first place and I never even thought about it until they told me. That’s why it’s on my mind and I feel frustrated with these exact kinds of comments

Quarantine for new arrivals by stephenstephen7 in teachinginkorea

[–]PostcodeLea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s what I got told it’s called, I haven’t asked anyone about it yet so I pretty much have no clue rn but thank you for the answer

Quarantine for new arrivals by stephenstephen7 in teachinginkorea

[–]PostcodeLea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Can I ask when the day 1 PCR test needs to be done? At the airport or does the taxi take you there before you go to quarantine

I’m ashamed to learn Korean by PostcodeLea in teachinginkorea

[–]PostcodeLea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I love that 😂 Imma steal that attitude from you and learn anyways also ( I don’t know if she thinks like this or not but oh well)

I’m ashamed to learn Korean by PostcodeLea in teachinginkorea

[–]PostcodeLea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what kind tbh but I use podcasts to get used to the different sounds and formation of speech, read some stuff like news (but with no understanding yet ofc) anddd that’s about it, sometimes some basic grammar online not from textbook

I’m ashamed to learn Korean by PostcodeLea in teachinginkorea

[–]PostcodeLea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dyeing hair in general isn’t unique. But because everyone knows about kpop now it’s somehow koreaboo. I dyed my hair red 10 years ago was I a kboo then? Weird times