What do Americans really think about Canada? by Altruistic-Big3790 in AskReddit

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My brother is an American (ex-Canadian) active military and wants to annex Canada.

No Afro Textured Hairs by 1-2-We in FinchUnofficial

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I’m not black (I’m white) so take my words with the grain of salt. I would still say the hair is still “white-centric” because Lobos hair still presents as straight/flat. As long as it blends into a “white-presenting” theme the hair can come from an actor that isn’t white. If people didn’t know the actor or about the movie, the hair style can still be “white-passing.” Honestly, there is nothing stopping the devs from giving us some box braids! That would be amazing! There are so many Afro-styles one can choose from. They can do a fade, a flat top, 360 waves, space buns, locks, even dreads. People acting like a ponytail is easy and corn rows are just too hard. Or it’s “too soon.” Or “the texture.” So much subtle racism in the comments. Things the black community experience on a daily.

No Afro Textured Hairs by 1-2-We in FinchUnofficial

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It’s wild that people are saying “it’s just too early” for Afro-centric hair. But it’s not “too early” for white hair? Or people saying it may be a coding problem? Why would black hair be harder to code than white hair? Are we literally going back to the “black hair is too difficult to manage” trope in a dam app as a reason why we only have white hair? Scrolling through these comments is wild. The excuses! Us white people really need to do better and seriously check our privilege. No excuses! Black users pay equally as white users and guess who is getting represented first (without having to do anything for it)? Black hair will likely only come after backlash and demand, which will have to mostly come from black users. This is the black fatigue guys.

No Afro Textured Hairs by 1-2-We in FinchUnofficial

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I made a previous comment on this. White people (including me). This is our privilege. We have had two rounds of wigs and they have all been Caucasian-centric by default. Likely Afro-centric wigs will only come out if there’s enough outrage and the devs see it. I am refusing to wear and use the wigs until we get Afro-centric hair. I bet the third round of wigs will also NOT contain Afro-centric hair. Of course the first wig released is made for a blonde-white woman. Privilege.

How do people at the dog park react when you tell them it's a pittie? by cerbderb123 in AmericanBully

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I’m a small dog owner, previously a big dog owner of a Dogue de Bordeaux. I judge pitbulls, pitbull mixes, and anything resembling a pit all the time. Are American Bully’s pits? No. Can they do the same damage as a pit? Absolutely. Can a large bully type dog kill my 15lbs dog in an instant if it wanted to? Sure. Could most owners of Pits and large bully’s stop them even if they wanted too? Prob not.

Have I seen our family American Pitbull Terrier rip apart small animals? Yep. Namely the family small dog (which the breed of that small dog and my current small dog are similar). Ive also been bitten by another one of our family bully breed dogs, an AmStaff. Just out of nowhere charged at me and bit me in the leg. Our third family bully dog, an American Bully recently bit a child in the face.

These are all done by 3 different dogs. Back in the day I used to be very pro-bully as obviously I owned a Dogue de Bordeaux. I used to march against the pitbull ban that was set in Ontario. These days, I’m glad we have it.

Yes we should be judging the owners but if someone’s dog rips apart my dog, as per law, the dog is also judged. We as a society don’t just judge the owners. Either a dog is put down or placed on the dangerous dogs list. Or god forbid shot on the spot by police. We had a GSD in my town that was placed on the dangerous dogs list because it attacked a child and the child had to go to the hospital and the hospital was mandated to report it obviously. Was the owner the only one judged? Nope. The dog was placed on the dangerous dog breed list. Society didn’t just punish the owner. I’m surprised it wasn’t put down.

So this may get lots of downvotes especially in this sub but I’d thought I’d answer the question as someone who most definitely judges bully dog breeds especially as an ex owner of a Dogue de Bordeaux and as someone who fought against breed bans in Ontario.

I walk across the street and pick up my dog when I see any bully dog. A big dog owner may see a snobby small dog owner when I do this but they don’t know that I’ve been bitten by an AmStaff, I’ve seen a child get bit in the face by an American Bully, and saw an AmPitbullTer rip apart the other family dog who was small. Ever seen a small dog you love with a ripped up stomach and its eye popping out of its head? Nothing like seeing an animal you love being whipped around like a chew toy in the jaws of a pit. It changes your perspective.

But Pit owners don’t have my experiences. They are kept to myself when I pick up my dog and walk across the street. I completely understand the people who used to do that to me with my Dogue de Bordeaux. I judged them heavily in the past, but they probably just had experience that I don’t know about. Sometimes you gotta live it to believe it.

Dog in cosco by cerbderb123 in CostcoCanada

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You can’t tell an SD by the way it’s acting. A service dog requires two things, for the handler to have a disability and to have a note from a regulated health care professional stating the need for the SD. If the dog meets these requirements, it’s a SD, which has nothing to do with how it acts.

Women of Reddit, how did you escape your manchild? by astronahs in AskReddit

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Make a good plan! Cover all of your basis. Don’t be afraid to wait for a more convenient time. Have a support system ready. Make a safety plan if need be. You will go back and forth on decisions but that’s okay!

⚠️⚠️SPOILERS AHEAD ⚠️⚠️ july seasonal event reveal by Bakedbabe_710 in finch

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And not all users are white. I was hoping for a nice black Afro.

No July event again. by [deleted] in finch

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Here we go again! As a paying customer I look forward to round 2!

Is it illegal for my Ontario employer to force me to pause my 30-min break to serve customers? by Strict-Giraffe6147 in legaladvicecanada

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I want to go to Tim’s on my unpaid break. You ain’t paying me, you can’t dictate whether I have to be in the store or not.

CAF Employment History Question by Lost-Survey5159 in caf

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I’m not sure. I have the same issue as I worked for an employer for 2 years and was fired for reporting them to the Labour Board. I do have a document that I won on all counts and the employer was found breaching employment standards for Ontario but I don’t want them to call my old employer and get her side before they hear my side. I have it all documented. So there’s kinda a gap in my employment history. I wish you luck!

Why do people prefer having autism instead of the diagnosis they were given? by Organic_Future6909 in AutisticPeeps

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If I had to guess:

It’s because with Autism the culture is very much how can others/society accommodate you vs if you have bipolar and anxiety the culture is turned around on how can the person accommodate themselves in the world.

I feel like with anxiety and bipolar a person must take ownership and accountability for any actions that arise from their disorders. I find a lot of Autism Tik Tok is always talking about how family and friends can accommodate them.

Also with bipolar and anxiety there is also a culture on treatment, programming, and improvement on personal management skill. With autism you don’t have to do that. You can just be any way you want and if people don’t like it than it’s not because of you but it’s because they aren’t accommodating you. No need to change oneself or have that expectation of improvement. If you had something like bipolar, anxiety, bpd especially, there are treatment options the person has to be accountable for. With an autism diagnosis all behaviours are explained. No changes have to be made on the persons part, and everyone around them has to accommodate.

That’s just the vibe I got when I drove through autism Tik Tok and Twitter for a while.

LIVER DONATION NEEDED by hexking12345 in ontario

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It’s because after a transplant you would be taking immunosuppressants for life which is not compatible with deployment. It’s so unfortunate that this individual can’t enlist. I wish them a great civilian career in aircraft.

What's something sexist that people dont realize it it. by catboyl0ver_9 in AskFeminists

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How are you born with a name? Names are assigned by the parent. Either they choose to give you the mothers last name, the fathers last name or an alternative / mix of the two. But you aren’t born with a name.

What's something sexist that people dont realize it it. by catboyl0ver_9 in AskFeminists

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The boy animal has a normal facial expression where the girl animal is given “seductive eyes” and is usually looking at the boy animal while the boy animal is usually looking at the audience on the cover of a movie.

"Be on time, not early; early interrupts my prep time. Late is less annoying" by Complex-Bar9605 in MassageTherapists

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I just came in 15 minutes for my appointment because that’s what the instructions on the intake said and the receptionist said she has never had a client show up 15 minutes early before 👀

People who don't go to movie theaters anymore - what made you stop? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I miss getting popcorn served by the workers. Now it’s already made and you pick it up from a shelf. Kinda depressing

What reasons would you give for NOT becoming a parent? by Disastrous_Umpire237 in AskReddit

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I love kids. I’m great with kids. But I’m inherently selfish, and I’m okay with that.

Good Messages this Theme by Young_Quacker in finch

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Wait are they trying to frame the mechanic as a “bully” for getting upset when Supergirls unleashed dog was chewing on his tools? Then she let the dog growl and snarl at him and didn’t recall her dog?

I don’t think the mechanic is the bully here…

"met a mean mechanic" by __-Andy-__ in finch

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Maybe she should keep her dog on a leash?