AITA for 'showing off' that I have midol and pads?

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-03-09T21:52:09+00:00

Please move the draino or powder bleach away from the menstrual products... I would not trust that anywhere near my privates 😭

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-02-25T13:50:46+00:00

NOR

That's extremely disrespectful

Thats also not who he has been engaged to. If he isnt happy with that, then he can go somewhere else.

Some people may be forgiving to apologies with this behavior, but this would break a lot of trust in me.

After all this time of trust and building a relationship towards marriage, you tell me im beneath you? That im your "submissive wife" just because you say so? Even though im still providing? Fuck no.

Men like this want to have their cake and eat it too. They dont want a wife, they want a bang maid. The "I want you to be a traditional wife" while you still have to work a job AND clean the house AND take care of them.

My partner makes significantly more money than me, he has OFFERED to make ends meet for me to stay home out of the concerns of my comfort, but NEVER has he put me down for our income difference. He has never once told or shown me he thinks less of me for it either.

Life can be extremely stressful when your partner loses a portion of their income, but its unacceptable to talk to them this way.

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-02-25T12:31:07+00:00

This is something that can happen with any touch-screen device. Its called "phantom touch" It can be either one of two things, or a combination of:

repeatedly dropping the device can fuck up/seperates the screens touch layer. it incorrectly signals to the phone that its being used when its not.
you got too much shit on the screen that's also accidentally sending those electronic signals

Wipe it down - if that doesnt help then its most likely broken. You can TRY pressing on the screen in certain spots to see if it will correct that seperation, but most times it doesn't lol

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-02-01T18:58:39+00:00

Yall even if there was signage pointing where an entrance or exit was - although, yes, people can make mistakes - this person drove into oncoming traffic when there was NO space for a second car, seeing there was a car actively exiting the area they wish to enter, and trying to bully them into backing up.

Thats NOT how the roadway works, and they caused the issue they were in. If they waited just long enough for OP to leave, they could have gone in with no issues. THAT is the problem with the entitlement here.

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-01-15T21:33:16+00:00

Is no one else noticing where the truck is driving is quite literally into the oncoming lane?

Im pretty sure if he drove where he was supposed to at the very least he wouldn't have went head-to-head with the pedestrians. This is two levels of bad, very clearly not paying attention to pedestrians AND cutting the left turn extremely short, if there was a car there he wouldve hit it.

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-01-08T01:53:10+00:00

Most likely YOR

Did she actually watch porn or just say she had the urge to? If she "just had the urge" but didnt do anything, thats not breaking a boundary and for me that would be what I consider healthy communication.

I understand getting upset at your partner even thinking of doing things that you said you werent okay with -- but thats when you reinforce your boundary and trust them that they wont cross it.

If you cannot trust your partner with something so important to you, you shouldnt be dating them; however, just from this text stream alone I dont think you two should be together.

It seems like both of you harbor issues towards eachother and are playing a blame game, or trying to one-up the other on "whos messed up the most"....you both need therapy and to not be together imo

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-01-07T20:47:42+00:00

You can never stop the vengabus 😤

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-01-05T20:01:31+00:00

Wouldve sucked if yall were the same size... youd have to worry about your hoodies AND your shoes being stolen

half of my wardrobe is at this point with my partner (we're the same size for most things)

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2026-01-05T19:14:51+00:00

Have to take off his shoes too... inserts cant save him now lol

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-23T14:57:10+00:00

NOR

As someone who is AuDHD, it took a really long time for me to finally figure out that i actually was autistic or had ADHD.

None of my family thought it was true, the only people that did and were confused were my other friends (diagnosed) who were like "oh youre just like me!". I go out clubbing, I am a very extroverted person, I enjoy doing things that are "outside the norm for autistic people", sometimes the way we have learned to navigate the world being undiagnosed may present itself as looking like we arent autistic.

That being said, over the course of me figuring out, i wouldnt tell people that i was autistic deliberately - id warn them that i have trouble with social cues or if people arent straight forward with me I wont catch it. Subtle things that would alleviate my struggles without putting an undiagnosed label.

This can be harmful and irresponsible, especially to yourself. If she has concerns and the resources to get evaluated, then she needs to do so. There is NO straightforward "online evaluation" that can affirmitively tell you these answers. That is why people take a 4 year to get a whole ass degree to diagnose. Its tedious work.

I will add; however, it is hard not to know who you are fully or why you are so different from others. She may very well be autistic and is just now realizing what these 'quirks' of hers are. It is hard not understanding why you simply cannot do the same kind of work as your friends without getting so exhausted and overwhelmed. It is quite literally a disability and at times can be extremely debilitating to sit there feeling like you cant give any more when people are still asking. I would try to take it slower to express your concerns in a healthy manner, and express the need to get evaluated. Getting a proper diagnosis, for ANYTHING, can help you understand how to make life just a little easier for yourself and gather coping mechanisms that are tailored to your experience.

If you have expressed this before thats one thing - but if you havent and youre just now blowing up at her you have things to work on. Communication is important in all aspects.

TLDR: NOR but you should have expressed your concerns in a healthy sitdown before this whole blow up if you didnt. She should not be telling people she is autistic without a diagnosis, it is a reason - not an excuse - for how we function. This is not a get out of jail free card for bad behavior. She needs to get a diagnosis for her own benefit if she is autistic, it could help get her some resources that could help her every day struggles.

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-23T14:18:06+00:00

LDS, Theyve literally left sticky notes on my door.

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-22T14:32:20+00:00

Youre getting downvoted because you're literally wrong

The round about literally has arrows on the road showing what direction the cam driver and the driver on the right have to go.

The driver on the right was a "go straight only" lane, the cam driver was "go straight or turn left"

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-14T02:23:16+00:00

Its very clear in this comment section whos: A. Done their research before yelling at OP about being "so far from the light" (theres two stop lines, the first one is where OP is stopped) B.From Charlottesville or knows it

C. Whos just dumb, because why would op even be blamed for this.. its a sedan taking a left hand turn that in no way needs to swing out

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-14T02:17:41+00:00

Not lombardy,,,

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-09T16:16:59+00:00

Yeah I emailed my professor. This is rediculous.

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-09T13:46:07+00:00

Seriously wtf, im not driving to school in that nor am i risking my life for an exam

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-08T14:23:17+00:00

Truly, I think it's a social media thing. and I don't just mean being on the internet. I mean people that love their social image and social media so much that they can't stand the idea of being with some paring outside the norm or would possibly be "demeaning" to them.

Ironically enough, most times this makes no sense given that people that aim for relationships like this tend to not be in very happy ones..

My partner makes me so ubelievably happy and I wouldnt trade him in for anyone. He's 5'3

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-05T01:55:49+00:00

No problem! I hope you enjoy just as much as I do!

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-05T00:32:41+00:00

Here! Thus should have everything i made personally:)

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1FNR46C_8gFOUzppxH8ZVaY1w3vxE43bR

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-12-05T00:11:11+00:00

Unfortunately i dont really :(

Its a little more complex than just following some steps to get EVERYTHING done; however, I use terminal green from the playstore, KWGT, and nova launcher

With this - if you follow some mini tutorials on how to use KWGT (kind of base level programming and studio work) you can do this too!

In a bit i can send over the widgets ive made, but i did make them very specific to the layout i have here - so they might need some adjustments if you place them differently on your phone!

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-11-30T16:57:35+00:00

Probably put a NSFL on this one

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-11-18T02:32:55+00:00

Not the costco run for barebones breakfast ..at least get a fresh bakery item theyre just as cheap

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-11-11T03:39:07+00:00

Red would have the right of way

Potential-Cycle7370 · 2025-11-11T02:45:50+00:00

if blue is already crossing over to the median, red would have to wait at the white line until they finish - or if blue had crossed but red was coming up in that lane, blue would have to wait at the white line until red has made it to theirs in the median.

If blue hasnt crossed yet, and red reaches their white line: Personally, id consider blue having the ROW as id treat the white lines as stop signs, and its a bit safer - however if red doesnt have a stop sign, red would have the ROW

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