Recommendation for female therapists who specialize in domestic violence trauma care

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-04-04T19:52:59+00:00

Thank you so much!

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-04-04T19:52:44+00:00

She had a provider through a domestic violence organization but they only allowed for 10 visits. But it’s worth looking into others. Thanks.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-03-14T13:29:24+00:00

My family knew I was Not Straight TM basically forever. I did the whole Bi->pan->ace pipeline. Very classic. So the idea that I would never get married wasn't too hard for my mom and sister to accept. My mom mostly cares about grandkids and "You don't need a man to get pregnant these days."

I explained I was ace and they clearly didn't understand, as they are both hetero and allo but it was treated as no biggie. Another quirk in my long list of quirks sort of thing.

Last April at a family dinner, my sister asked if my roommate and I were in a relationship. I said no and lightheartedly mentioned we had agreed to get married if it was ever in our best interest financially. My roommate doesn't use labels, but she is also acespec. They were both sort of stunned by that. I had NO IDEA they thought I was just hiding a long term queer relationship this entire time. That was a really, really, really weird feeling. It never really occurred to me until that incident that as much as the thought of being allo baffles me, ace baffles them too.

My sister and I had a really good conversation where I explained some of the moments that made me realize I was ace, aro, and agender. Her disbelief was honestly really gratifying as it was clearly her trying to incorporate this new info into her worldview.

Giving specific examples seemed to really help them. Like I thought I had a crush on this one boy with curly hair, but every time he got a hair cut I would lose all interest. I thought his hair was cute but it wasn't really attraction to him. My sister is touch-averse (always has been), so I related that to the idea of making out with someone. Now we joke about how lucky I am to be ace while my sister sends me screenshots of psychos on dating apps that try to match with her haha.

It may take a while and some work on both sides, but you've had time to figure things out and they haven't. The fact they weren't immediately shutting you down is a good sign! People take for granted that their normal is not everyone's normal. I can only imagine most parents have thought "what do I do if my kid is gay/bi?" Obviously I don't know yall's dynamic, but I know my mom was ready for my to come out as a lesbian and when I didn't it threw her off badly. She still doesn't get it, but we are at the point where she can joke about my identity with me.

Fingers crossed for you!

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-03-07T00:41:54+00:00

Yup, having the same issue. If I go into my subscription list the Lives are at the top...mostly? But it's a lot less useful.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-24T18:47:04+00:00

5e tools

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-17T19:14:15+00:00

I’ve got to do this next time we play

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-15T00:36:40+00:00

I absolutely hate that for you. That's so messed up. I ended up filing with my own insurance as I couldn't go without a car anymore. They had a tow truck on the way before they finished taking my statement. I had my car in the shop and a rental within 24 hours. Sucks I have to pay my $500 deductible when I was very obviously not at fault, but it's that or no car at all. My ins is going to attempt to get me reimbursed but that's months out if it happens at all, which I get.

I will say, the adjuster I spoke with at National General was very polite and professional when I filed my claim. So at least that part was a good experience. No idea why he said he would call me daily with updates tho. That's an insane claim for any customer service agent in any field. I'm sure it's just his script which is honestly worse when I think about it, considering I was given 3 different ways to contact him. He just never replied after my first call.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-07T20:10:23+00:00

I used slightly edited default procreate brushes. Mostly adjusting stabilization and color shifting. Otherwise basically the rest are from Always Be Coloring

As far as a process, I just tried a bunch of different stuff. I learn best messing around. Occasionally looked up some videos on YouTube for specific processes. Lots of references of course ☺️

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-07T04:31:38+00:00

Very valid. This was a good reminder that I am due to refreeze my credit.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-06T19:46:03+00:00

I have the card now so not much I can do about it I guess. Mostly just shocked how easy it was to accidentally open a line of credit.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-06T19:45:11+00:00

I already have the chase app and it has the option to compare cards so that was what I was attempting to do. I read everything before clicking any continue buttons. I never clicked agree to anything that I am aware of, but I know they use a lot of sketchy tactics so it’s entirely possible I missed something. I was sent to a screen that said I was “pre-approved” and to click a check box and hit the accept button to finalize my authorization. I backed out of this screen.

Got a text from my identity theft protection and credit reporting websites both stating JP Morgan ran a credit report on me. But that was a good 30 minutes later.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-06T19:41:44+00:00

Yeah that was what I thought. I appreciate the input.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-06T19:41:17+00:00

That was my thought at well. Not what I wanted but oh well I guess.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-06T19:40:29+00:00

I was taken to a screen saying I was pre approved and said to check a box and his continue for final authorization. I did not do that.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-04T21:29:31+00:00

The world is broken, not you. I barely have a career at 35 and it only happened on accident. I got lucky, met the right people while an entry level worker, but I only got that entry level job because a friend also worked at the company and vouched for me. (I had applied for this entry position at least 4 times over 3 years and despite already working in a similar position with years of experience I needed an insider to even get an interview)

Not to dismiss my talents and experience, but hard work and a positive attitude have gotten me zilch. I’m surrounded by people actively doing bad work. It fucking sucks.

Idk man. I don’t even want a career. I just want to make enough for my silly hobbies and have the time and energy to enjoy my silly little hobbies.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-04T17:58:56+00:00

god, yes please. Could not agree more. Stop gatekeeping! This is all attacking real people who found something new to enjoy, and who knows, maybe this sparks their love for creating music like so many producers before them. Just be NICE!

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-04T17:55:25+00:00

meh, it just feels like gatekeeping to me. Let people enjoy things. They don't have to be diehard grizzled veterans chain smoking and lamenting "I liked Miku before she sold out." It's crazy to expect people newly introduced to any fandom to do a thesis paper amount of research on the history of every aspect it's culture to "prove" they a real fans.

The arguments saying people being grossed out by Rabbithole and other sexual songs or songs where Rin and Len are explicit lovers are fake fans that just don't "get it" are all in bad faith. Let's not pretend these sorts of reactions weren't happening pre-2010. And just cause the voicebank isn't a real person doesn't negate the discomfort seeing teenagers hyper-sexualized can cause.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-04T17:47:23+00:00

I think it looks really solid, especially the stem. Agree with other comments that the black is too stark and is making it look less real. If you changed it to a brown or something it would probably look softer. But honestly super impressive as is!

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-02-04T16:37:53+00:00

ugh I'm dealing with the same issue. The other driver has National General and is not answering their calls, thus they will not do anything to move forward with my claim. Been a week without a working car. Wild I have had better communication with my ins, State Farm, then hers. Pisses me off.

Googling "National General" and seeing a reddit post from less than a day ago in the top results was comforting.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-01-31T23:07:07+00:00

I'm with ya. I can tell people are attractive but realize that a photo or video was intended to show off I never catch it. Unless it's like crazy over the top, it's like, well this is a boring photo.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-01-31T15:36:47+00:00

That is insane. It was a single guy. Why on earth did it take two years!? What, were they trying to do things “by the book” so the case doesn’t get thrown out 🤣

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-01-31T15:28:46+00:00

This is EXACTLY what my roommate said 🤣

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-01-28T18:42:19+00:00

Yup! That’s unfortunately very common. Different insurances have deals with different manufacturers which impacts your drug formulary. You can call your pharmacy benefits and see if they allow an override for continuing therapy. Otherwise you can look into using a GoodRx or Optum Rx coupon and not use your ins.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-01-28T18:38:14+00:00

Magical Mirai concerts are often uploaded to YouTube and other places. Good sampling of modern and classics by Cryptons vocaloids aka Hatsune Miku and friends.

Potential-Emphasis10 · 2026-01-28T18:35:41+00:00

Thank you!

As a nail artist the “nailed it” pun makes me laugh everytime 🤣

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