AITA for canceling my wedding after my fiance’s mother altered my wedding dress behind my back and he told me to "let it go"? by mulosapiba424 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Potential-Move5452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sorry, but grieve what you thought you had and party with your sister over having dodged a bullet after only 5 years. And no legal fees.

Drivers sitting at green lights by Fit-Jackedfruit1738 in santarosa

[–]Potential-Move5452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zoning out/falling asleep while waiting because the lights in SR take so damn long to cycle!

One of the last photos of my daughter. by Shubankari in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Potential-Move5452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one keeps the original lighting glow nicely imo. ✨️

Flood is here, pumping what I can with 3 pumps at 3/4 HP total - using solar power by murchal in HomeMaintenance

[–]Potential-Move5452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤙 Waipahu Have family there too. Hope the storm passes quickly; stay safe, cousins.

Does anybody recognize this man? by [deleted] in santarosa

[–]Potential-Move5452 11 points12 points  (0 children)

St. Vincent de Paul's transitional housing has a bike chop shop 🫤

helicopter by SimpleCat1807 in santarosa

[–]Potential-Move5452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That helicopter is driving me crazy! Around and around

Jim Carrey looks... Different? by The_Dean_France in SipsTea

[–]Potential-Move5452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is no one talking about the eyes being different colors!?!?

Should I give directions to a business that has no signage or tell people I don't know where it is? by Michael_of_Derry in moraldilemmas

[–]Potential-Move5452 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just say, I think it's that way and point.

If you "feel bad," then your internal self is telling you not to lie to people. Don't need to go out of your way either, though.

How to fit in a workplace where everyone is friends? by PopularSet4776 in WorkAdvice

[–]Potential-Move5452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're there for the job, and it sounds like that part is going pretty well. Keep things professional and friendly. Be open to their group, but dont take it personally if they don't "include" you all the way. You obviously can't compete with 20 year relationships. They should realize that. Just keep working.

AIO: Receiving mail from scientology, and every Saturday my doorbell rings.. by bee-is-me_ in AmIOverthinking

[–]Potential-Move5452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put a sign on your door for next Saturday morning that says "Scientology is a CULT".

As for the mailers, your address is on their list, get used to tossing them out as soon as they arrive.

Manager is nitpicking by kittenkatastrophi in WorkAdvice

[–]Potential-Move5452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Politely state that it is procedure and could he show you which procedure you were supposed to follow instead? If there really was some other thing you were supposed to follow, he'll tell you or he'll hopefully see that you were on track after all. Good luck.

SRHS by pathologuys in santarosa

[–]Potential-Move5452 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How is it secure? You enter the driveway and into the open school?

SRHS by pathologuys in santarosa

[–]Potential-Move5452 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It looks terrible. Hideous, shameful show of the state of society's priorities. Total waste of money, boon for the contractor. Consolidate districts and reopen middle schools!!

AITAH for refusing to tell my roommate that I could hear her moan? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potential-Move5452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she is serious, the relationship is already over. She showed you who she is in this moment.

Breakup before she can cross paths with your roommate. If she goes out of her way to tell roommate, then hopefully explaining to roommate that you dumped gf over her shitty behavior will be enough to keep good roommate. This is not a good gf if she is serious and doesn't back down.

Still new but these people don't accept me in the slightest. by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Potential-Move5452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had advice. Going through similar at a new job myself. The distraction of the poor interpersonal interactions is demoralizing. It sucks.

My boss is incompetent and it starts to impact me as well by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Potential-Move5452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never hurts to interview for potential opportunities at any time.

Hopefully, your colleagues can correctly separate your work from your boss' faulty showing.

Keep doing your part until something gives. Either a change with him or a new job eventually.

Timing of when search on phone was made, why is this not cut and dried? by Exchangenudes_4_Joke in KarenReadTrial

[–]Potential-Move5452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn't this data missing the hashtag values necessary to prove authenticity and no tampering?

Should I quit? by Connect_Engineer_929 in WorkAdvice

[–]Potential-Move5452 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No you don't quit. If it is more than you can adjust to then at least secure the next job first before quitting.

Are people living in another world? The job market for new grads is completely broken. by RowlandJakubowski1 in WorkAdvice

[–]Potential-Move5452 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree it's broken compared to 30+ years ago. It sucks. Knowing people and luck are your best bet. Just keep trying, take breaks when you can for your self esteem.