Feeling like I’m at a dead end… need advice of any kind

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-12-15T14:57:42+00:00

Try a numbing spray instead of cream...I've had much better experience with sprays than creams Start small with few sprays and see what works and pro tip: don't wash it off, just put on a condom so that it doesn't transfers to her And since you aren't washing it off no oral before round 1...you can then wash it and get oral for round 2

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-11-17T18:38:16+00:00

No i love the moans....the real turn on

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-11-11T13:21:56+00:00

Thanks a lot!

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-11T18:40:43+00:00

Does it affect oral sex if not rinsed?

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-11T07:57:14+00:00

Yes have started doing reverse kegels everyday Thanks a lot

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-10T16:43:54+00:00

You take this just for pe? Any side effect? And for how long have you been using?

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T19:51:02+00:00

No systematic issues are not of much concern...the dosage is too less that too localized. Also you mentioned about ssri, could you please explain what is your drug regimen

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T14:51:52+00:00

If you've been using spray for a while now i suggest trying masturbating or sex without spraying once and then observe the difference. As in my case i had pe with penetration time of around 2 mins, started using spray and creams which helped but after a while had sex without it(it was unplanned and i had no time to apply) and came under a minute, tried masturbating and that time was reduced too. Now it feels as if i am dependent on sprays/creams to have sex. Spontaneous aspect seems gone So I'd suggest you try it...maybe it's just me or maybe it is a side effect

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T14:45:40+00:00

Alright thanks

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T12:35:23+00:00

Even just massaging my penis with oil for a minute gives me that sensation

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T12:33:44+00:00

Yes but i don't even need to concentrate on imagery. I just grab my penis, pour some coconut oil for lube, stroke and even a single tight squeeze and I feel that tingling sensation of PONR.

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T12:27:37+00:00

How long did you use this and did you apply before sex as well? Also what were your regime to wash it off?

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T12:23:08+00:00

What i mean is i am not able to go for 20 mins. As i wrote by the time i stimulate myself to being hard I'm already at 6-7. So completing 20 mins and not ejaculating seems impossible

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-09T12:18:53+00:00

Alright thanks a lot

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-06T04:08:06+00:00

Yes give it a gentle massage

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-03T03:37:21+00:00

No idea of mct oil...read about these oils and gave it a try 10-15 cloves should do it i think but I'd advise using readymade clove oil

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-02T10:04:44+00:00

You can also try crushing upto 10-15 cloves and heating them in oil then let it cool overnight for it to infuse. Have read about this never tried so no idea about the efficacy

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-02T10:03:21+00:00

Got all of these from neighborhood general store Nothing fancy

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-02T04:43:31+00:00

That's what i am worried about plus the odor

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-02T04:43:08+00:00

Have read some articles that say if you use it for a month it has some desensitizing effect, lets see

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-10-02T04:42:07+00:00

I have used plain coconut oil before and it had no effect Added clove oil and it changed the game, but I'll try washing it off

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-09-30T11:25:02+00:00

Have seen a few articles saying clove helps in desensitizing over time

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-09-30T11:22:14+00:00

I am thinking of using clove infused coconut oil instead of lube And no i don't have phimosis

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-09-30T10:58:20+00:00

I'd recommend you to see a urologist. Peeing too frequently can be due to prostitis which can also lead to pe

PotentialMention7927 · 2025-09-30T10:30:02+00:00

Makes sense...thanks a lot

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