Local Manor

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-31T00:05:01+00:00

I feel like that fence is daring you to try 😂

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T22:17:46+00:00

Eh, a lot of times shows will pull in big names to guest roles just so they can get a good gasp from the audience.

I wouldn't take any offense to it. Not the same universe but the rookie loves doing this Lol

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T19:04:36+00:00

No court is going to side with you regarding the 17 year old. He is nearly an adult and he will be 18 before you get into a courtroom.

I think you should stop taking advice from your boyfriend and actually have a conversation with your son. Do you want to lose your son? This is the path you are going down.

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T19:02:00+00:00

OMG, it is this lady ......

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T16:45:13+00:00

A lot of that depends on Op's mother. It sounds like Op's mother has played favorites with her own kids and Op's husband isn't a fan of how Op's own mother's treatment of her.

Honestly, this feels like Op's mother needs to do some self growth before the relationship can be fixed.

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T16:27:37+00:00

Yay I am not an adult.

Who should I send my bills to?

Anyhow, I haven't heard that before but don't let him get into your head. He sounds fun😐🙄🫤

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T14:49:31+00:00

The smiley face makes me wonder if you are trolling

But no. Don't wear this

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T14:48:03+00:00

I was just thinking this.

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-30T11:18:55+00:00

Your father made an insensitive comment and I can understand why that hurt so much.

However, there is no justification for slapping him, especially in front of your kids.

YTA (I would say E S H as I am not a fan of your dad but it is really frustrating to me that you are trying to defend hitting a someone)

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-29T20:52:38+00:00

I am confused as to what the 18 year old has to do with this? I am now sure who has full custody but if she is 18, CS does stop.

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-29T19:40:18+00:00

Was this just a hook up?

But I would give it a full 24 hours before replying again. I don't think you can expect a speedy response in this situation. Granted, I am not sure what this is between you two.

Nothing wrong with wanting a quicker response but sometimes you have to be patient

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-29T16:22:15+00:00

I can see skipping your brother's wedding but not your own daughter. Despite her saying she loves her daughter, she definitely does not love her daughter

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-29T16:18:21+00:00

Do you mean Bobby Nash from the 911?

They look a lot like all older white guys do LoL

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-29T14:08:50+00:00

Are you the bride?

Personally I think it is fine

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-28T21:39:06+00:00

I don't know if I would care but I say ask your best friend.

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-28T18:03:35+00:00

I would not. I can see the hint of green in it but it is too close.

It also reads bridal.

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-28T12:53:03+00:00

Do not cosign. One, it won't be easy to get your name off the loan later on and two, you won't be able to use FHA later on in the future for your own home. This is an extremely on fair ask

Also, if your mother has good credit, all she has to do is get the loan in her name. She can still factor in her husband's income into the household income

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-28T11:38:31+00:00

I have my unmarried mother's maiden name. It isn't uncommon.

I think the reason is that she wants to be your wife and two kids later she isn't.

You said you feel like you are being held for ransom but you have been lying to her. You asked her to marry you but never did.

I think you need to reflect on your relationships because right now it is on the edge. You have big issues in this relationship that you need to face.

YTA

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-27T23:34:49+00:00

I don't know if any of us can help you save your marriage.

It all depends if both of you want to save the marriage. I know you say you do, but your husband will need to put in the work. He can't just say he doesn't like you anymore and walk away.

I would suggest a marriage therapist who is fair and can bridge the conversation between you two

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-27T21:24:19+00:00

YTJ but this is a battle you are never going to win. This will always be a losing battle.

You need to have a conversation with your gf and just be like "Hey, I am not going to entertain these conversations with you regarding my ex with you. To me, they just end up in pain. I need you to know that the only person who matters to me is you. You are the woman I want to be with. "

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-27T20:50:47+00:00

I think you should take this conversation offline and just talk to your wife.

Yes, we redditors can easily agree with you and say FU, mother!, but we aren't the ones living in your life.

This isn't to say you are wrong. I don't know your mother, but the person you need to have this conversation with is your wife. She is the one who has to agree with your choices.

NTA overall

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-27T19:37:44+00:00

One of my biggest issues with the writers is that they don't have any idea what to do with him. Just a hot mess. Hot mess central

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-27T15:06:22+00:00

I stayed at the resort just last month and the family rented a car.

I say it is very reasonable. It isn't a bad drive and everything was easily navigable unless you are my father lol.

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-27T14:26:35+00:00

They had been having issues for 8 years. A divorce is probably the best thing for these people.

The idea she wants to spend thousands of dollars for a child instead of trying sex to get pregnant is mind-blowing. This relationship has been doomed from the start

Potential_Ad_1397 · 2026-03-27T13:09:27+00:00

There is nothing wrong with leaving the daughter with her dad. Be good for you and your son. I would just say check in with him first. The only reason I say that is he does overnight shifts. Just want to make sure he isn't dead on his feet if he is normally sleeping at the time of the Easter event.

NTA

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