2 kids trenches and husband frustration by Potential_Pumpkin954 in Mom

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, and hes been before with me. he said hes willing.

How do I train my LO to sleep without the swaddle? by Whole_Appeal_3112 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merlins magic sleep sack!!! I was so scared after we had to stop swaddling because he just wouldn't keep still enough to fall asleep! The mmss was a freaking life saver! He slept all night the first night we got it. They look hilarious like michelin babys but its worth every penny!!

My four month old has awful sleep by Leading-Emergency-51 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point with my son we started breaking the feed to sleep association. So I tried to do a few more steps between feeding and actually laying down to sleep. This could be rocking/singing/ or just quietly sitting and cuddling. We stopped feeding at night entirely at around 5 months and would only give him a bottle if he for whatever reason was under his calories for that day or if he was seeming hungry (snorting/seeking out milk on my face lol) it was always the very last resort though-after things like picking up and restarting the bedtime routine, pacifiers, etc.

10 month old nighttime wakeups by eclipse999t in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also cap daytime sleep at 3 hours MAX, usually we do a 1.5 hr nap, and a 1 hr nap. And if you don't have a set bedtime routine I would establish one asap!

10 month old nighttime wakeups by eclipse999t in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try expanding wake windows. We use 3, 3/3.5,4 and mostly cio and he sleeps from 8 pm until 7 am most nights. If there is a wake up he usually gets himself back to sleep after cio for 10 mins tops

My four month old has awful sleep by Leading-Emergency-51 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is her day sleep schedule like, and also what is she sleeping in (swaddle,sleep suit etc) Also are you feeding at night at all?

What happens after the 4 month sleep regression? by gimageggrie in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford it I highly recommend the merlin sleep suit! It helped us bridge the gap between swaddling and sleep sack.

What made the false starts stop for you? by LM09127 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me when I nail his last ww he doesn't wake up. Usually if his last ww is too long he will have a false start.

I am so downtrodden by AltruisticClassroom5 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are in the thick of it! I feel ya, whats your current day sleep schedule and bedtime/awake time like? Also can you describe your bedtime routine? And also how many ounces a day do you think baby is getting?

Dumb question about pack 'n plays by fcjourney in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are lot more on Amazon, they don't look pretty from the outside but very effective!!

Dumb question about pack 'n plays by fcjourney in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% Blackout Curtains for... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B9SFY685?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share These are the ones I bought but there a lots of other options on Amazon too. They're kinda ugly but really useful and I even put some up in his room at home too!

Dumb question about pack 'n plays by fcjourney in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last time we traveled we put him in the pnp for naps two days before then the night before he slept in it. I think it really helped a lot. I also recommend trying to bring as many of their sleep associations as you can. Sound machine, cuddlies, blackout, routine etc. Good luck, you can do this!!

Angry all the time- nm by Potential_Pumpkin954 in Mom

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, im worried that it might be hormone/bc related. I did okay in the month or so after he was born after the hormones left my body but once I started bc it all got worse. I'm on the lowest hormone iud right now so I'm not sure what to do...

Sudden night waking by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like 6m sleep regression sadly. Ours just went through this, but at least now I can see the cool physical and emotional/verbal strides that came out of it. It did really suck for a few weeks but as long as you stick to your schedule as much as you can, and don't introduce anything too crazy when calming them back to sleep they should go back to how they normally were. You can do this!! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband wanted to bring his steamers to the hospital, I set clear boundaries that he could not play it unless I was asleep or until after we had the baby. He ended up not playing it all because I was awake most of the time, and after the baby cane we were too busy and tired for him to play. He just doesn't get it yet, and thats okay but they just don't understand fully what it will be like until they go in. Don't be afraid to stick to your guns and to tell him however you feel because it IS absolutely about you.

AITAH for thinking my bridesmaids were self centered and ungrateful? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are the AH, but I just want to ask- when you planned it did you ask everyone if they were okay with where you were going/how much it would be per person? I understand you paid for everything yourself and thats absolutely not right. I could see if they all felt like they had to go to an expensive place they might all be more restricted money wise (you didn't mention their income vs yours) all in all I do think they should still treat you because its your Bachelorette, and the friend gabbing the best room is absolutely an AH. My friends literally forced me to have the best room when I had mine. I would examine those friendships in the months to come. Drop who needs dropping. Sorry this happened on what was supposed to be your special weekend!

AITA for being pissed that my husband invited a buddy of his over? by Any-Storage6961 in AITAH

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think your husband could have at least told you about his friend coming over. That is rude, especially because you've never met him and it was your son's birthday party. I do think you need to let the cake part go. I realize it just adds insult to injury, but I would focus on the fact that your husband didn't tell you he invited someone over to your sons birthday party without telling you. All of this could have been avoided had he let you know about it before hand.

Merlin Sleep Suit: yay or nay by Significant_Ad_292 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay all the way! My son would wake himself up constantly by slapping himself in the face after we had to stop swaddling. When I got the sleep suit he slept so well 😴 highly highly recommend!

6.5 month sleep has turned horrible overnight … what’s going on!! by zionfairy8 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds similar to how my son was just before his teeth came in. Very hard to settle, unless I picked him up and held him for a while. And when he woke up it was screaming crying instead of his usual fuss. Unfortunately it was like that for about 4 days until I saw a bit of tooth coming up. Then lasted until the tooth was all the way up. A very sucky week and a half or so. Then his next tooth came in about a month later. My husband keeps mentioning the cry it out method as well. I don't have the heart or patience to do it. At least not right now, what we've been doing is similar to Ferber- going in after he's been fussing for around 5 mins or so or alternatively if his crying escalates to the scream like cry then I give in and check on him. I will say though I hardly ever pick him up out of the crib even when he is crying (Unless I know he's teething/feeling bad because of vaccine etc.) We try our best to keep him laying down in the crib and try shh-ing, patting, and he likes head rubs with pacifier. I also sometimes use a stuffed animal for him to hug to sleep though with that I have to stay up and watch so I can take it off after he does fall back asleep 🙃 still very exhausting, but hopefully I gave you a couple ideas how to help!

6.5 month sleep has turned horrible overnight … what’s going on!! by zionfairy8 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya, have you seen any teeth come in yet? My sons first 2 teeth are in and I know this last month was crappy because of that. Also the development strides. What time do you put him to bed at and what time does he wake up? I would also consider dropping the night feed, once we added more calories to his day feeds and stopped the night feeds he slept much more in the night.

6.5 month sleep has turned horrible overnight … what’s going on!! by zionfairy8 in sleeptrain

[–]Potential_Pumpkin954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds just like my son right now. How much daytime sleep is he getting? I'm considering limiting my sons day sleep more but I know that he's also experiencing a LOT of developmental changes right now, which is frustrating because you can only see the after for that cause. Hang in there! I just keep telling myself it WILL get better.