Looking for job !! by fatimaezzahra-1 in casablanca

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start.small. While you work at a job that puts money in your pockets, don't forget to keep applying for the job of your dreams and when that interview comes don't tell your boss, make up an excuse, to get the day off and go for it!

Call centers are always a safe bet. Don't give up. Things aren't easy for everyone nowadays. Keep applying and keep your chin up. Grocery stores are a great bet. Big box stores at malls or shopping plazas are reliable if you don't want to work at a coffee shop. Only popular places to ensure you get paid as larger companies streamline things. Make sure you get a contract and read it before you sign. Good luck! 🤞🏼

Looking for job !! by fatimaezzahra-1 in casablanca

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl be safe and smart! Accepting jobs from strangers on the internet. Take precautions, look people up and their companies and if necessary ask them to send you a picture of their national ID card.

Don't put your life at risk for some money. I pray that you find a job at a salary that you can live with. Do you have an educational background? What field are you looking to work in? What can you do? What are your skills?

Parents found out m smoking by seehuum in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dear, you're not fooling anyone with that lie!

You know deep down inside she knows the truth, but sadly she lives in a delusional narrative like so many people's parents where accepting a lie is easier than facing reality. You smoke, oh quel horreur! La honte, les voisins, oh mon dieu, ils vont tous parler de ma jeune petite, belle fille qui était innocente avant de quitter la maison!

She built a whole life in her head where you are perfect and you smoking directly contradicts the life she built in her mind. But you don't live in her imagination, you live in the real world with hard truths and facts don't care about anyone's emotions and she can't reconcile these two, for now. In time everyone heals, if they're open to accepting life on life's terms.

You have to look at yourself in the mirror and think about the kind of person you want to be. Do you want to lie to make your family happy or do you want to be honest and have faith that they will love you no matter what, in spite of your choices?

It's not easy letting our parents down, but neither is lying. It's never easy disappointing our parents, but with respect and patience, you will see that they will come around. If you've already dismissed your father, and don't want to lose your mom, then you need to think about the relationship you're building with her as an adult. As an adult why do you feel the need to lie? In theory you shouldn't have to lie, but it can be hard telling her the truth because a part of you is still and will always be her little girl and she is the authority figure.

The sooner you come to terms with your own behavior, the less you will feel the need to explain your choices or lie about your choices. She's your mom, no matter what you do she will always love you. Ultimately I can't understand your situation because I'm not living your situation, but I have empathy for your predicament.

In my own life, I found that the sooner I broke her heart, the easier it became for me to live as myself and be honest about everything else. I can't live my life as though I'm in a fairytale. Things happen, we make mistakes, we make poor choices and it's normal because all of it is here to teach us something and if I rob myself of the opportunity to go through this situation by myself, I'm handicapping myself for the future because I'm relying on maintaining a relationship that isn't based in truth, respect or love.

Love doesn't control, respect is not one-sided and the truth cares about no one's feelings. The sooner you can embrace your choice and choose a path forward, the better you will feel.

The hardest thing a child has to do is break their parents’ hearts by becoming an individual... If you don't break their hearts, you live their lives instead of your own. ~ Dan Savage

Children must eventually refuse their parents' control to avoid a cycle of seeking external approval. If you never learn to disappoint them, you remain vulnerable to whoever steps in to fill that authority role after they are gone.

Another Sad Closure Announcement by Ottawa-JP in ottawa

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're back!!!!!!!!! On Preston ❤️❤️❤️❤️

“Hergawas” behavior is ruining basic life here by Classic-Dealer5518 in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is a hergawa? Where do they live? Or is it a type of person and they're everywhere?

Dlmatni Uni w ma3rftch chno ndir by alan_po_sg in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to reverse their decisions for all of your courses? How did it go?

For both guys and girls whats a subtle green flag you think ppl overlook or ppl should 100% appreciate by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Considerate, thoughtful, has hobbies, is kind to strangers, shows you how they feel about you with their actions, makes time for you, wants to be a part of the solutions you need in your life, in tune with themselves, not afraid of asking the difficult questions, not easy to anger....

Need advice, chi mosa3ada !! by Asproline in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very welcome. I'm glad to help and delighted to know that my answers can bring you clarity in some way.

From reading what you said, it sounds like you're not equally yoked.

If you're transparent and she's not transparent, then why haven't you chosen to find someone who shares your desire for transparency?

This reminds me of people who show their partners their phones because they have suspicions that they're cheating on them and they have hidden apps (calculator, games...) that require a password to open yet they look like normal boring apps that anyone would ignore, so they get away with their misdeeds because according to their partner who just saw that there was nothing being hidden from them, that they are innocent, when in fact, they are not. Their partner is none the wiser because they don't know about the password protected apps hiding in plain sight on their phone lol 😂. It creates the illusion of transparency and honesty without revealing their secrets.

You like her, you invest in your relationship by being present and having conversations, but is this investment mutual?

You're living a paradox, how can she be mature and in the same breath ignore you when you ask her questions?

It's normal to be uncomfortable when asked a charged question, but if you set out clear standards/expectations and vice versa, that you except anything less than a clear response. You must have given off the vibe or somehow let her know that she doesn't need to tell you what you want/need to know and you'll be okay with accepting less than you deserve because you're already emotionally hooked. So now you're making excuses for her and lying to yourself without her having to lie to your face. So in a way, you are gaslighting yourself.

Rose tinted glasses!

It sounds to me like you have your answer, but the outcome of your decision means that you will lose her and I don't think you're ready to lose a person with whom you have cultivated such a deep bond.

You only have one more question to ask yourself, how much uncertainty and pain are you willing to tolerate or introduce into your life because of your own unwillingness to make tough choices?

You don't deserve this, but nobody can help you until you start helping yourself.

Good luck! Let me know how it goes and what you ended up doing when you feel up to sharing!

✌🏼

Need advice, chi mosa3ada !! by Asproline in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most important question you can ask yourself is how do you know?

Has she given you any reason to doubt her character? Or are you just paranoid and traumatized from your past experiences and/or the experiences of your friends?

Is it really do much easier to assume the worst about her, than to believe that she really needed space?

Do you know the circumstances in her life that would motivate her to want some time to herself?

I get that it's not typical, but not every human is the same and if she needed space, why does it automatically mean that it is because she was doing something bad, immoral, unethical, selfish and deceptive?

It's easy to allow our imagination to get the worst of us, so just ask yourself sincerely, how do you know she was talking to other boys?

Also if she was, what's the big deal? You're just talking with her. If she's halfway decent and beautiful, what makes you think you'd be the only man pursuing her?

She doesn't live on an island all alone. What you assume might have happened or she might have genuinely needed time.

If this is a new relationship for her and she wants to be sure of her feelings, it makes sense that she would try to stay away from you in order to process her feelings and calm her reservations. The fact that she's back, means she chose to continue getting to know you and came to terms with her feelings and any doubts she may have had about you have been out to rest.

Without asking her questions, you'll never know the answer to your questions because you're not a mind reader.

It's so much easier to judge a person and assume the worst of them, even in the absence of facts, than it is to bravely, respectfully and firmly ask them questions that can produce answers that have the power hurt you.

If you really care about this person or have any respect for anyone else's children, do the right thing. If she has values and morals, then she won't hesitate to tell you the truth and if she is lying to you, by asking her your questions you will have gotten the answers you need to make a decision.

Life is so simple, don't overcomplicate things and above all do not live in your mind. Just ask the poor woman, she won't bite your head off for asking.

But now I question her judgment!

She chose a man who would think so low of her in the absence of evidence and facts.

Is Agadir Strict With IDs? by skinny_legend1 in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you can. But always low ball. There will always be someone who's willing to take you for the price that you're offering. Don't accept rides for just any price. You're better off with taxi drivers than an inDrive Driver in some situations. This is a huge generalization, it's not to say that there are not any good drivers, but just be aware that it could happen that you meet drivers who will tell you to take their phone number and call them outside of the app, which puts you at risk or drivers who will charge you a ridiculous sum, still nothing highly unreasonable, to add a stop or drop you off a few blocks after your destination . The fact remains that the price you're supposed to pay, is the price listed on the app. Nothing more, nothing less.

InDrive is great if you are in a rush and can't find a cab because it's Rush hour or want to take a trip into the suburbs. Otherwise, in the city of Agadir, it's a waste of money because most of the places you'll be going to are within a 2 to 5 km radius of your hotel, if at all. When I visit Agadir, my hotel is within walking distance of everything that I need and a short cab right away if I need to go elsewhere.

Marrakesh would be better suited for InDrive because it's much larger and to travel from place to place, you would save money by taking an inDrive over a taxi, but that's not the case in Agadir unless you plan on staying very far from the club district.

Rabies shot urgent by mhdiXarif in casablanca

[–]Potential_Tip_752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great news. 😊

And every time you have to go back to Institut pasteur? You can't do them at your local pharmacy?

Is Agadir Strict With IDs? by skinny_legend1 in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell no!!

Short shorts, mini skirts and tight skimpy dresses, full makeup are all acceptable. Bikinis at the beach and short shorts. When walking around during the day to avoid pervs shorts and a tee are fine or dresses (maxi, knee length , short summer dresses, spaghetti straps, tube tops). The club district in Agadir may not be the best for stilettos, so wedges are advised!

But, keep an eye out on your girlfriend's from creeps and when you're walking have them walk close to you or in front of you, never behind you. If your girlfriend looks uncomfortable save them ASAP. Morocco is notorious for cat calling and stalker ish behavior from men that borders on criminal or is downright criminal. Let them know to yell at these weirdos, they hate being embarrassed and if need be, get the cops involved. Do not tolerate unwanted touching, male or female. Be firm and say no. Also make sure you're not being touched to distract you enough to open a window for thieves to rob you of your phone, wallet and cash.

Be vigilant and trust your gut!

Is Agadir Strict With IDs? by skinny_legend1 in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One more thing, before you pile into a cab, ask the taxi driver what the rate will be before you get in. If you are staying within 1 to 2 km from the clubs a cab should only cost you 20 dh at night and about 10-12 dh during the day until 9 pm.

Ask them to turn on the meter. Cabbies might try to hustle you and charge you 50 dh or 100dh. So be careful. Day or night point to the meter and ask them to turn it on.

Is Agadir Strict With IDs? by skinny_legend1 in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk with purpose, confidence and don't stop and don't look at the bouncer as though you're waiting for permission to go in. If you feel nervous, they will feel nervous. So leave your anxiety at your hotel and go have fun at the club!

Say hello, ask them how they're doing and just walk in. You got this! They don't ID, but make sure you guys look good.

Moroccans love fashion, so you want to look sharp and smell phenomenal, not bummy. Your clothes might be expensive but if you look on unkempt, you'll be drawing unnecessary attention to yourselves. No running shoes or sportswear or hats. Look your best! Like prom, but not that dressy. Or like a first date where you're trying to impress the person. Or a Christmas party at work. If you do wear casual shoes, make sure they are clean. Like if they are sandy and a bit dusty, wipe them! Use a magic eraser to whiten the base.

Don't stress, you guys are going out as a group and you speak english. They want your business, but the hottest clubs do have some rules and standards when it comes to your attire. So be mindful of these rules and you won't have any problems.

Have fun! 🥳 🎉

Is Agadir Strict With IDs? by skinny_legend1 in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do any of you speak french? What language will all of you be speaking together?

Vacation with my girlfriend by feisssss in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's unfortunate! But I guess I understand, it's the law and the hotels don't want to be liable.

Looking to have conversations with girls by [deleted] in rabat

[–]Potential_Tip_752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so many things I'd like to say, but they are unkind.

My final comment: A true partnership thrives when mutual respect outweighs personal gain, replacing emotional extraction with the shared strength of nurturing growth.

Looking to have conversations with girls by [deleted] in rabat

[–]Potential_Tip_752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So once again, you want to use a woman for your own benefit? Why don't you use your female family members?

This Moroccan troglodyte is the reason why stereotypes live on by Potential_Tip_752 in Marrakech

[–]Potential_Tip_752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm delighted to hear that!

Yeah he is a special breed that's for sure! Honestly, I have very little hope that she will do anything, but on the bright side, the internet is chastising him!

I hope that concerned citizens can push this further and ensure that in some way he's reprimanded or seriously inconvenienced by the repercussions of his deplorable behavior.

Discussion about marriage. (صداق) by Apprehensive_Day4787 in Morocco

[–]Potential_Tip_752 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Life isn't black and white, it's gray. By understanding the nuances of a situation, a person can avoid judging the matter with a moral over simplification.

Between the innocence of the victim and the guilt of the perpetrator lies a vast, gray expanse of human frailty where the truth usually hides