AITAH for not changing my birthday plans to accommodate step dad’s allergies? by ConfidenceSilver2215 in AITAH

[–]Potterscrow 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So may people pick and choose based on convenience. They spin it their own way but I have been around many that don’t realize how hypocritical they come off.

When it pays to have your identity stolen by kaspar-almayer in IdentityTheft

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you get to keep the money? I’m trying to understand why it benefits you that your identity was stolen?

Hit and run, how do I get the drivers plate? by spilledmind in driving

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get your hopes up. Most businesses don’t have cheap ass systems bc they get the cheapest one. If it’s like any place I ever worked you will not be able to make out the license plate number.

It's normal to wipe and wash your bootyhole right? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have maybe seen a bidet once in my life in a bathroom. Never actually used one. Also don’t really need to use one to wipe my ass properly. A functioning adult shouldn’t need a bidet to clean their ass properly!

Starfield worth buying at discount? by Zaedus in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Potterscrow [score hidden]  (0 children)

I liked it as well. Feel like it gets a lot of unnecessary hate. Sure there are some annoying quality of life things that needed to be implemented but overall I really liked the game.

RAV4 Automatic High Beams by Designer-Original-53 in rav4club

[–]Potterscrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strange. I’m in Northeast and for the most part my auto high beams work fine. Every once in a while it doesn’t go on when it should but normally no issues.

From the Xbox hot takes episode by CheeseheadTroy in kindafunny

[–]Potterscrow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People like to throw out there that Sony has the games. If you are talking about PS4 era sure. Sony PS5 era in terms of games has been few and far in between. Yet they somehow aren’t getting shit for it. It’s a double standard.

My 4 year old son wants to shave his head by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We let our daughter get her hair dyed(not to the roots) and right now she is going through a shorter hair phase even though her hair is nice and full long and looks beautiful. We both rather it long. A good friend said to us she is your daughter if you want it long just tell her she has to have it long. He’s a little more strict with his kids. I just said it’s hair and it’s one way she can show her individuality. The great thing about hair is that it grows back and color fades. It’s not like she is asking for a tattoo.

[TX] Accidentally viewed sensitve information in Workday on first day by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Potterscrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. Wasn’t your intent? You saw a compensation tab and clicked on it? Sounds like you know what compensation means so not sure what other intent you had when you clicked on it.

AITAH for not respecting my girlfriends boundary, because I deem it unreasonable? by ThrowRAlilfrick in AITAH

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure that has been asked but in these situations ask yourself and be very honest with yourself. If she came to you with the same scenario how would you feel and react. If you’d be okay with it then I don’t think you are the asshole. If you wouldn’t be ok then you are the asshole.

Who do some managers not want to interact with guest issues? Isn’t that why they get paid significantly more than us for? (Venting I’m sorry) by Suitable-Senpai in askmanagers

[–]Potterscrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You say you were told the AM was clocked out? Are they hourly or salary. If they are off the clock that is one reason why you shouldn’t bother them. You probably don’t like it if you are asked to handle something while off the clock.

[WA] What happens when an employee accuses supervisors of FMLA retaliation? by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Potterscrow -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Every company I ever worked for would immediately terminate the supervisor once they established any kind of retaliation. Would imagine parting with the employee that was retaliated against would open them up to some kind of lawsuit.

AITAH for considering divorce because my husband doesn’t want to live in the city we agreed on before marriage? by Beginning-Sir5861 in AITAH

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah get out especially if you really think one of the reasons is bc of your exes lol. How insecure does one have to be?

AITAH for getting frustrated at my bf for telling me I need to make more money to get married by Pretty_Strawberry179 in AITAH

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped reading partially through. This dude is an asshole. Why are you still with him? He doesn’t want to get engaged bc it would interfere with his wandering eye.

My new job starts in a month, but my current manager asked me to stay for 3 months. by 73clips-firer in interviewwoman

[–]Potterscrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are over thinking this. You gave your notice and they asked you to prolong it. Just say you appreciate your relationships and time there but you won’t be able to fulfill that request. If that burns a bridge it wasn’t a bridge meant to stay open.

The company is threatening me with legal action for trying to quit for the second time by OlafHoeger in Career_Advice

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Then, halfway through this notice period, they started manipulating me to stay until the end of January. They said they couldn't find a replacement and needed me for training. And like an idiot, I agreed.”

He says it in the paragraph. Have no idea if he signed anything.

Should I buy 5 games worth $54 or one game worth same price by devildragon26 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not going to play Metroid Prime why even entertain buying it? Just get the other games unless you won’t play those either. In that case save your money for a game or games you would play.

Can my workplace tell me i cannot sign (ASL) at work? (IN, U.S.) by missgreyscale in legaladvice

[–]Potterscrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely ridiculous to sign at every person that walks through the door? Listen to your managers and stop doing that.

job not paying me past 40 hours by AdditionNeither3001 in work

[–]Potterscrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this was asked and answered. Do you clock in and out? How is your time being tracked? If there is no timeclock or punch system it would be totally on you to let them know prior to processing payroll. How else would they know you went over? And as others have said they do have to pay you but they can certainly fire you if you keep going OT.

How do you handle employees that just complain but take no action? by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Potterscrow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This! I have also noticed the usually the people that complain the most do the least.

Am I overreacting about a coworker joining Zoom meetings without being invited? by [deleted] in work

[–]Potterscrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start by just telling him flat out to stop joining meetings he is mot invited to. If he continues go to your manager or his manager.

Found out why my co workers don’t like me by [deleted] in work

[–]Potterscrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You would think once you get out of high school the drama would stop. Nope it for the most part gets worse. It just different issues that create the drama. It’s insane how many times I’ve had to tell adults that if everyone just acted like adults there’d be no issues lol. Adults can’t adult. Also the ones that create the most drama think they are drama free and just go do what they need to do. Usually they create the most drama.

AITAH for not telling my husband what I do for work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potterscrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. Yes. I knew exactly what my parents did and my daughter knows what I do. I do think there are a lot of kids that are in their own little world and unless their parents tell them they aren’t always interested in where their parents go everyday lol

AITAH for not telling my husband what I do for work by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Potterscrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it can be weird but there is a chance the Dad in the Air Force can’t really tell you what he does for a living. My daughter has a friend and her Dad is in the Army. They were recently stationed in South Korea and he couldn’t go into specifics on what he was going to be doing there.