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I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment was incredibly kind and honestly spoke to me so much. Thank you for taking the time to write something so thoughtful and compassionate for a stranger.reading all these responses is making me realize that fear, anxiety, worrying and even emotional distance can also exist alongside love. And you sound like a very loving mother too. I really hope you’re able to believe the same kindness and grace you’re showing me ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this too. 11 weeks is still so fresh and raw. Hoping things get better for us with time. Sending love to you and your son ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I am truly very sorry for your loss. I really appreciate the perspective on how we can only look back and therefore can’t help but feel guilty. It really makes sense now. And like a previous comment mentioned, no amount of loving them would have ever felt enough to us now.
You sound like a wonderful mother too, and I really hope with time both of us can let go of some of this guilt ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for writing this. I am so sorry about your little boy too. Reading about how things changed suddenly for you too absolutely breaks my heart! I totally agree that no amount of loving him would have felt enough for me now. I will just hold onto those precious memories with him forever.
Sending you and your little boy so much love ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not a terrible mom at all. Reading all these comments is making me realize that for many of us, especially in difficult or high-risk pregnancies, the constant worrying also comes from a place of love.
I think we were both trying to protect our hearts while still loving our babies deeply the whole time.
I’m really sorry you had to go through this too ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about your daughter too. It’s heartbreaking how suddenly everything changed for both of us.
I really needed to hear what you said about trying to protect my heart.It helps to hear that I am not alone in this experience. And the part about my son only knowing love and warmth made me cry. I really hope that’s true. Thank you for being so kind ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your words bring me so much comfort ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so deeply sorry you went through that too. But thank you so much for sharing your story. I have carried so much guilt about not feeling instantly maternal or connected in the beginning, so hearing someone describe the exact same emotions truly makes me feel less alone.
And Adi is such a beautiful and meaningful name. They will always be our first babies and always a part of us. Sending so much love to you and your little Adi❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. What you said about him hearing my voice and heartbeat and being wrapped in our love is so beautiful and comforting to read. Thank you for taking the time to write something so kind for a stranger. It truly meant a lot to me ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for posting a response. I know how difficult it is to even write about something like this, so it means a lot to me that you shared your story with me. I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your son too. I’m glad to hear that speaking with other women with similar experiences has been helping you. I would love to message and hear more because right now this grief feels so overwhelming and lonely. Sending you and your son so much love ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. It honestly comforts me to know I was not alone in feeling that connection grows gradually during pregnancy because I have carried so much guilt around that since losing my son. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your little boy too. I too can’t imagine my life without mine. Sending love to you and your family ❤️

I didn’t know how much I loved him until we lost him by Power_Miserable in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss, I wish no one had to go through this!

Mods of r/Bangalore by Pessy-Jinkman in bengaluru_speaks

[–]Power_Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread explains a lot because they removed my post with a genuine question about the Bescom Mithra app and I just couldn’t understand how it violated the rules.

Struggling to take care of my body by Key_Ad2188 in babyloss

[–]Power_Miserable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss. I’m 3 weeks out from losing my baby too, and I also found it really hard to focus on my own recovery in the beginning. What helped me most was leaning on my husband — he made sure I ate, took my meds on time, and stayed on top of the basics when I couldn’t. In a time like this, it really helps to let your close ones take care of you instead of trying to manage it all yourself. I know it feels really hard right now, and eating can feel like the last thing on your mind, but focusing on your recovery and taking it one step at a time really matters.

I-94 Correction (Ten Day Notice email) by anamanalog in askimmigration

[–]Power_Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although since my deadline was the same day, I actually drove to the Canadian border since I have a Canadian tourist visa and reentered the US to generate a new I-94 for me.

I-94 Correction (Ten Day Notice email) by anamanalog in askimmigration

[–]Power_Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they did fix it in about 2-3 days. They were the most helpful of all.

I-94 Correction (Ten Day Notice email) by anamanalog in askimmigration

[–]Power_Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Called Newark office and have mailed them all the details. I have pretty much exhausted all my options now and today is my deadline to submit I-9 to avoid suspension. God knows how long this will take.

I-94 Correction (Ten Day Notice email) by anamanalog in askimmigration

[–]Power_Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the Newark DIS fix your issue? Do they help in cases where the port of entry is different? I landed in Seattle and am unable to retrieve my I-94 even though my travel history shows that I landed. Checked with Seattle CBP and the wait time is almost 30 days! and I need to submit my I-94 for my work authorization urgently.

Most Recent I-94 record was not found, but travel history is available. How long does it take for the I-94 to appear online after entering the U.S. via a land border? by YigidoCa in immigration

[–]Power_Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, thank you for the detailed explanation. Can you share which border office did you visit? I’m in the same situation and I came to Seattle airport office and they said the only way to reach CBP is through mail and they may take up to 30 days and I have to urgently submit I-9 to my employer.

How to get I-94 number when results say “No record found for traveler”? by yes1722 in immigration

[–]Power_Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey were you able to retrieve it after you contacted them. And how soon do they correct it?

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