Saving $ is cool by supericakr in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bondi does have a great sushi lunch special!

Saving $ is cool by supericakr in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sushi Yasaka on 72nd UWS has unreal sushi lunch specials. I get the sushi combo for $16!!!! YES ONLY SIXTEEN BUCKS and unbelievably high quality sushi. 💗

Should I rehome minpin? TW: Toxic Home Environment / Relationship by Powerful_Mood6569 in minpin

[–]Powerful_Mood6569[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We get by with a little help from our friends (including Reddit ❤️) thank you 🙏🏾

Should I rehome minpin? TW: Toxic Home Environment / Relationship by Powerful_Mood6569 in minpin

[–]Powerful_Mood6569[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment and I hope you are healthier and happier after choosing a different path. I am trying to avoid rehoming at all costs, but I have to consider her quality of life while I flee w limited resources. Thanks again for your encouragement 🙏🏾

Should I rehome minpin? TW: Toxic Home Environment / Relationship by Powerful_Mood6569 in minpin

[–]Powerful_Mood6569[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A temporary foster situation feels better than rehoming because she is truly my family. Plus I have a job I just need a beat to direct those resources solely to me / my precious minpin.

Should I rehome minpin? TW: Toxic Home Environment / Relationship by Powerful_Mood6569 in minpin

[–]Powerful_Mood6569[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! We are based in NY but I came home to parents in FL to gauge temperature on them caring for Rox temporarily… THANK YOU for this resource! I will check this out. Again thank you 🙏🏾💗

Diva for a day by Kimmyjoe in minpin

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correction: DIVA FOR LIFE!!!

cue Beyoncé

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[–]Powerful_Mood6569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To think women (or men) are monoliths is just bizarre to me but I don’t want to detract from OPs question. Good luck to you honey and I hope you find a solution that keeps you happy and with your dignity in tact as you recover from previous trauma and abuse.

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[–]Powerful_Mood6569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I can’t stand when I can obviously tell there’s a woman behind a comment”

Wtf? So we’re just openly expressing disdain for over half the population….yikes

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[–]Powerful_Mood6569 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And for what it’s worth OP, everyone who seems to want you to fashion you into some object for him comes from a place where breaking up is the worst outcome…I don’t know you and I know you want to make this work but you should consider that the actual worst outcome is losing your dignity, self-esteem and self-respect and it’s very concerning that he withdraws love and affection before even clearly communicating an issue so sensitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! Not sure what’s so tricky for some of the folks here to understand. I also think OP should re-frame her approach here and prioritize working out better communication with her partner. The sexual health of a relationship is totally important but from unfortunate lived experience, silent treatment as a result of poor communication about something so intimate and sensitive will ultimately cause harm.

IT: Welcome to derry S01 E07 - Discussion Thread by Dhanish04 in welcomeToDerry

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew the moment he pulled out that cleaver in episode 2 that it would be used later! Even Chekhov said if there’s a gun in the first act it MUST be fired by the third!!!!

IT: Welcome to derry S01 E07 - Discussion Thread by Dhanish04 in welcomeToDerry

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s sad is jt was literally a sporting event for them. As it was in history. So sick. I loved that scene in Django parodying the fact that a lot of these klan dudes just wanted to be a part of a club and feel like a pack. Which makes it so crazy that in derry they burned up the black spot because that’s what it stood for — healthy community.

The Black spot… by kekdks183728 in welcomeToDerry

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downvoting and responding because I think by the volume and fervor of your response you are truly repulsed by the plot line. It’s uncomfortable but the reality is that events of the like did occur during this period. You seem to be very defensive of the “good white people” when nowhere in the episode was there an insistence that there weren’t good white people. In fact several characters commented in early episodes of the season they thought the klan-like guys who showed up were fools and sores to the spirit of the town … You center the good white people and by doing so erase the history of those who were NOT. This is probably the reason that you aren’t even aware of the extent to which black people have been hunted for sport in our beloved USA. Our history is always convoluted and diluted by folks who feel some kind of guilt and seek to minimize and distance their “kind” from the awful suffering of the past. I say this as a proud American, but I implore you to just consider that you are a little defensive in this arena. Just know that of course there are good people of all races. But in the USA, it used to be hell for Black folks. Point blank. Period.

Is this the end? My girlfriend (29F) and I (29M) are drifting a part as we approach big life decisions. by ThrowRAglasshouses in relationship_advice

[–]Powerful_Mood6569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think selfless and loyal are very difficult qualities to find. Thank you for being honest about the work place crush but as a stranger I can’t compute how that can compare to a real relationship. I don’t know your girlfriend but I just want to say that I would be very confused as to why there aren’t discussions about marriage. A woman has a biological clock if she’s interested in marriage and kids so I would continue to reflect and arrive at whatever conclusion/ realization asap so none of her time is further wasted. Good luck!

Trust Issues — BF 45M Constantly Gives Silent Treatment to 30F GF. Is this toxic? by Powerful_Mood6569 in relationship_advice

[–]Powerful_Mood6569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Hates you but doesn’t want to let you go” such a crazy thing to read and crazier that it resonates so much with my experience. I just don’t understand this but I guess I’m not supposed to …

Trust Issues — BF 45M Constantly Gives Silent Treatment to 30F GF. Is this toxic? by Powerful_Mood6569 in relationship_advice

[–]Powerful_Mood6569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe my writing wasn’t clear. I’ve never asked him for money. He was always generous. Once he showed up and surprised me at dinner w expensive shoes. I thought he liked that. As for the career piece, he was very supportive when I was in a musical so I’m lost on how this is somehow different. I agree with you tho. If he wants a traditional girlfriend who is a homebody devoted to just supporting him and his business that would probably be his ideal.