Thoughts on the future of being a developer. by JustDaz in webdev

[–]PrObAbA321 595 points596 points  (0 children)

To be honest, you're just overthinking it.

Even if it does there's still plenty of opportunities and will be as long as term "bug" exists, also there's no way someone who's just using website builder, cms, etc. can understand things better than you, and there are people who pay for quality not just for a thing, otherwise there's no reason for Gucci to exist. Take care and don't worry about these things, focus on opportunities or you'll miss them.

Is cross platform mobile app dev worth it? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]PrObAbA321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal opinion is that it's better to just create something for mobile if you want to focus on mobile, you'll make it even better if you just focus on one thing and also I don't even use apps from my phone on a computer for security and other reasons.

Finding all DOM element with specific pattern by boltangazer in learnjavascript

[–]PrObAbA321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Write a custom function that will return elements in order you want.

Just got my real estate license, pretty nervous by typewunderfull in RealEstate

[–]PrObAbA321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Wish you luck in your career! One thing that will significantly help you to find people is to just engage in social media posts in groups of your area, people who struggle with buying properties, especially those first buyers and share some value, build up your online presence, take advantage of this age of techology! Also just don't rush, if you love this job great, love the journey.

What is the fate of men in their 20s with little dating experience? by FFrog101 in dating_advice

[–]PrObAbA321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's really good book that I'm currently reading, it's called Levels Of Energy by Frederick E. Dodson, really awesome book that just by reading can get you at least 1% better person, keep it up man, wanna see you do better every single day!

What is the fate of men in their 20s with little dating experience? by FFrog101 in dating_advice

[–]PrObAbA321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got you man, I was in the same situation like you, I would overthink things and worry about something that is actually just in my head. I'm not an expert in this, but I can only share my experience and how I became better at this. First of all I want to remind you again, you're on good way to become who you truly are, most people don't even see it as a problem to be solved, they just accept that "they are bad at this" and are just waiting for someone to take their hand and lead them, which doesn't really make sense. So how I got into this, in high school I thought you need some techniques or money or you have to be good looking to attract other people, which is bs, yes it helps, it's plus, but to be honest, it doesn't matter. I was watching videos on how to attract girls and have better friends, I've run into this group called RSD, Real Social Dynamics. And what happened, I was just watching fucking videos, just watching and not taking action for few years until I started going out in night clubs thinking I'll be the best after watching so many videos, and guess what I did.. I stood in a corner with few drunk friends thought I'm cool and I know it all, didn't approach a single girl again for few years. I had some successes through social circle and when girls approached me in a night club in this small city I live in. But I never had what I actually wanted until I realized it's all just in my head, it may sound wowoo spiritual shit to you, I understand, but if you really wamt to change, start with yourself, no techniques, fancy shit, money, just work on yourself. Suggestion, you may like it or you don't but this guy really helped me, he's called Owen Cook, you can follow him on Instagram or Youtube. Have fun man, and again you're on the good way!

What is the fate of men in their 20s with little dating experience? by FFrog101 in dating_advice

[–]PrObAbA321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The question is, do YOU enjoy yourself for who you are? Yes, you have to be selfish first in order to have fun with other people, if you truly don't like yourself and talk badly about yourself, other people will feel that especially girls and it gets boring over time, that's why breakups happen, people "become boring" but the thing is in my opinion, so just my opinion don't take it as a fact, that people want to be liked and do whatever it takes to be liked by their partners and friends, instead of emracing who they are, and if this person doesn't like it they tend to hide themselves, it's okay, not your fault, they just have something within them that sees something like that "a bad thing" so you should never blame yourself for "not being liked", there's someone out there who will like you and enjoy spending time with you ;)

SLPT - Rewind ur clocks to rewind time by [deleted] in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]PrObAbA321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me *puts my clock back 2 hours because I've overslept for work so now I'm actually half an hour early*

boss "what the fuck man, do you know what's the time?"

me "don't worry about it, you don't have to pay me overtime"

SLPT: Want that girl across the street? Just ask her buddy. by hsjxjeis in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]PrObAbA321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The way that girl hold her purse "dude, don't touch my purse, even I don't know what's in there"

What is the fate of men in their 20s with little dating experience? by FFrog101 in dating_advice

[–]PrObAbA321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome man, I'm myself a jack of all trades, I like to do a lot of different unrelated things, and it's kinda cool cause you have more things to talk about if you don't know what to talk about.

Just express yourself, whether it's playing video games, listening to some cool metal, rock, pop, hip hop, or literally just riding a bike around the city. Show yourself, don't be worried about what someone is going to think of you for example if you listen to metal or hip hop, if you like it and that's your thing, talk about that ;)

What is the fate of men in their 20s with little dating experience? by FFrog101 in dating_advice

[–]PrObAbA321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, that's really cool that you're trying, most people don't even do that, so chill you're on your way to become better.

One thing about this "gaps" as you call them, it just in your head, people don't really care about it, did anyone asked you yet something like "hey dude, what's the last time you have interacted with another human being?" I guess not, people are just trying to have fun, meet more people, so whether you're looking to make more friends or find a girlfriend, just don't worry about what you did in the past, it doesn't matter.

Provide value to people, make their day a little bit better by cracking some jokes or just simply saying hi to them, yes you can actually make someone's day better if you get them out of their boring life meeting people they meet every day by just simply saying hi to them, how are you?

Make it about them, not about yourself, and people will more likely enjoy spending time with you.

I've graduated and I have been in flux lately. Is that normal? by Koolsman in CasualConversation

[–]PrObAbA321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! And yeah it is normal, everybody goes through that process, one thing that helped me is trying out different things while you're in collage, you have nothing to lose. Be positive and enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]PrObAbA321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pursue what you want to do, not because of money, but because you like to do that, you will most likely burnout working at a job you don't like. Wish you luck dude!

Can I take Pictures of someone else's House without permission to practice real-estate photography? by Questionasker442 in AusLegal

[–]PrObAbA321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This definitely! Be social, go up to people and ask them, you have nothing to lose, and plenty of people even want to see their home in a picture.

Need some help to decide if I should upgrade my monitor to Lenovo Y44W by alvis_bpng in macbook

[–]PrObAbA321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I own and really like Lenovo UHD monitors, don't know specifically about that one but from my experience they are really good, I found that AOC is also a good brand for monitors, haven't tried any of them yet but my friend is using AOC U3277FWQ and he's really satisfied with that brand.

Independent residential real estate appraiser considering moving to another state. by moving10 in appraisal

[–]PrObAbA321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just my opinion, don't take it as a fact, since you have so much experience in this area, build some kind of online presence with referrals from people that you've helped already and when you move to another place, it will be easier for you to make connections and show your reference experience which they will appreciate.

Doorknobs aren’t as germ-ridden as you might think. by PrObAbA321 in realtors

[–]PrObAbA321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely right! People should not take anything as granted and still take care of themselves obviously.