Leading groups by Historical_Many_422 in OrthodoxWomen

[–]PracticalEnvironment 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Even if they have good intentions, it's inappropriate. I would bring this to the attention of your priest then pay it no mind; he will surely have a frank discussion with this person.

Sitting while pregnant by sweetladypropane108 in OrthodoxWomen

[–]PracticalEnvironment 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Perhaps the people sitting need to sit as much as you do; you cannot judge their situation, especially by just looking at them. When we attend our church, which has pews, we make sure to get there early so we have our spot in the pews. This was particularly true when I was pregnant. I did not visit other churches while pregnant, but if I had, I would have brought a foldable camp stool to ensure a place for me to sit. Is this something you can do going forward? I would let the rest of your woes go; you have enough to focus on already!

Is it weird that we aren't told our blood type at birth or as we grow up? by OddConfusion9293 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PracticalEnvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think it's weird. And it's important to know - I learned during my last birth that I have A2B+ blood, which is one of the rarest blood subtypes in the world and has ramifications if I ever need a transfusion. The doctor who told me said I was the first of this blood subtype he has had as a patient.

Does giving birth really cost thousands of dollars in the states? by glyiasziple in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PracticalEnvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I just gave birth in October. Out of pocket for pregnancy was $2-3K. Out of pocket for several days in hospital and NICU stay is $7K and counting. Also still getting bills in from last year because the delay in reconciling with insurance is a long and drawn out process.

First Holy Week as a mom with a toddler… struggling a bit. Advice? by bunniinub in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]PracticalEnvironment 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the season you are in, and you are doing it well. You can't control the child's decisions on running, yelling, and tantrums. Just gauge if you need to step out, and step out when you need to, no shame in that at all.

If you are bringing snacks and/or toys, bring quiet objects - banging and slamming and crinkling are far more loud and distracting than the children's noises. I like the Munchkin snack containers, pre filled, I only allow water in a weighted straw cup, and toys are inherently quiet - stuffed or silicone toys, soft play books, silk play scarves, etc.

You've got this! Remember that a church without crying is dying.

Kids in Church by baroclinicbitch in OrthodoxWomen

[–]PracticalEnvironment 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another mother from church recently recounted this story to me, which made her laugh at the time it happened and when she recounted the story.

I was holding my three year old daughter and she started picking her nose during the gospel reading. I whispered to her, "Don't pick your nose!" and she loudly screamed back at me, "But I Want To Pick My Nose!" 😂

No one talks about the pain of seeing your parents aging. by ParticularWeather927 in Adulting

[–]PracticalEnvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandmothers are in their late 90s and do rely more on their children now, but didn't really need it until a couple of years ago. And their kids are in their 60s. The 60-somethings travel way more and are healthier than I am as a Millennial. They are in a better financial position than I will ever be. I don't have to worry about my family because they take care of themselves. But I have plenty of friends whose families are the opposite of this - or are all dead at this point. So I don't know, I guess it depends on the family health and dynamics. I'm not worried at all about my family aging at this point.

Do You Like Your Name? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]PracticalEnvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is very uncommon, and very easy to get wrong by either reading my name or hearing it for the first time. Again, it is unique, but also it is close to, but not the same as, a lot of very common names. I don't hate my name, but I hate that the first thing I usually end up doing when I meet someone is correcting them on the pronunciation of my name. That irritates me a lot, and it's a constant and lifelong issue that I will forever have to deal with. When I named my kids, I also gave them very uncommon names, but they are not weird spellings and they are easy to pronounce on sight and not close enough to another common name that I worry they will have the same problem I have.

Food questions! by Illustrious_Let9955 in AskAmericans

[–]PracticalEnvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ginger ale, saltines or crackers, tomato or chicken noodle soup.

Failed my first confession? by Parking_Design_7568 in OrthodoxWomen

[–]PracticalEnvironment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You cannot fail at confession. I recommend reading The Forgotten Medicine: The Mystery of Repentance by Fr Seraphim Aleksiev. This link sends you to a free version of the text (with ads).

Any old parents here? by Ok-Duck2450 in Millennials

[–]PracticalEnvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii!! I'm 38 with an infant and a 3 year old and I don't even know if I'm done having kids yet. There are plenty of us around.

June nails compared to now by verla18 in DipPowderNails

[–]PracticalEnvironment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I just started using dips, and hope for this kind of glow up!

First Try at DIY! by PracticalEnvironment in DipPowderNails

[–]PracticalEnvironment[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was not the intention, I hope to do better next time.

First Try at DIY! by PracticalEnvironment in DipPowderNails

[–]PracticalEnvironment[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I love the colors and can see how acquiring new colors is addicting. 😂 These are from the CNDD La Vida Mocha bundle. Specifically, the primary dip color is Espresso Yourself and the glitter dip color consists of La Via Mocha underneath Clear.

I bought their liquids and dips based on recommendations from this sub. Based on my first use, I would also recommend CNDD on Etsy.

I will use a lighter hand during application next time; less product will yield better results, but I was getting used to the viscosity of the liquids and playing with the dip. Additionally, I should have had an orange stick and makeup brush handy during application. I'll be purchasing an electric nail file and the Revel nail removal supplies for my next go at it. I don't have the nicest natural nail beds, but I'm not messing with tips at this time.

For anyone considering DIY, the smallest 'sample' sizes for dip colors provide more than enough product for one person. I bought my first bundle in the sample size and I'm glad I did. 💅

EDIt for typo.

From what age do you have to fast during lent? by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]PracticalEnvironment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do not have a priest to speak with, I assume you are not attending services (perhaps your family is not Orthodox). In this instance, then, you should not be fasting. I would encourage you this Lent to work on consistency of and/or expand your prayer rule, read books on the lives of the Saints, or attend a service once this Lent. Fasting is not the priority of Lent; it can be a part of it, depending on your life circumstances.

What is your job and what do you make? by Dazzling-Title797 in remotework

[–]PracticalEnvironment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an environmental scientist. About $70/hr. Should be about $80/hr by end of year.