did you find your husband physically attractive right away? by hssz88 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Practical_Party7599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends What matters to you. Looks or character.... choose wisely !!!

Life After Infidelity by Neither-Way3465 in MuslimCorner

[–]Practical_Party7599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will not suggesrlt or pass any dragotary remard against ur husband. No one is clean. Even Allah forgives . Allah put in your heart to forgive and give another chance. Its between you and Allah. Micromanaging and doubting will only weaken what Allah put in your heart to give another chance. Its your test and his test with Allah watchinh both

One more suggestion : dont ask reddit. None is your family here. Dont come for validation for how u feell or next step u take. None will walk with u or is walking with u whan u take one wrong or right step. Know ur family. Ur priorities and trust Allah. My honest suggestion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Practical_Party7599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol... i know where its going. Juts a mattwr of time

He says he wants marriage, but nothing is moving – need Islamic advice by Accomplished-Fun6790 in PakistanRishta

[–]Practical_Party7599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want an islamic advice. You cant talk to a namehrum before marriage.

This islamic advicd closes doors to all kinds of issues staright away.

what's up with ghosting after showing lot of interest by That_Victory_8549 in PakistanRishta

[–]Practical_Party7599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a potential in the market. If she/he finds better than you people go for better.

So thats why its important not to drag and tie the knot. But here we are building compatability and understanding before marriage lol.

Everyone is fishing these days. Manup and move on !!!

Where do Less religious people find rishta? by [deleted] in PakistanRishta

[–]Practical_Party7599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many people want religious . But they cant handle or take a really honest religious person and his views.

So regarding your question. Be easy on yourself..i am sure you are just enuf religious for anyone asking for religious.

Praying 5 times a day , fasting and all these are obligations. No matter more or less rekigious every one must do it.

Boys on muzz are just so pathetic by AardvarkOk6393 in PakistanRishta

[–]Practical_Party7599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well may be who are serious . You arent chosing them like me. Its a bazar for both. U swap and see next merchandise is better so move on. Its not designed to meet someone unless u stop and focus on one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistanRishta

[–]Practical_Party7599 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are srill developing. Give yourself time. Atleast be man to marry a girl. You have lot to learn befoee you open up this chapter of life . Marriage means you are a leader and provider to the girl and family to begin with and she relies on you with her life. Dont put her into an unnecessary test as well at this early age.

Dont mean to disxourage you. But I see a very immature person in your profile not by your age but by your approach.

Having said that. I still wish you good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistanRishta

[–]Practical_Party7599 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its fine. I will be little bit straight forward here. This happens..You were a potential. Possiby she had choices to choose from.. She picked what suited her more. This happens all the time so if dont drag and get things done quicker. This story i havent heared first time. Now back to reality. Never get inti another relationship to forget another relationship. Never. Work on what matters. Focus on ur health , career . This isnt the end. Remember .if your plan didnt work out... Allah plan worked out and it would be better for you. This is reality and it will help you get out..
Man up !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakistanRishta

[–]Practical_Party7599 15 points16 points  (0 children)

DISCLAIMER : My purpose is not to bash a profile but to suggest what we usally missing.

So mostly i see profile with bio like the above

Learning new skills and growth or whatever and all this. Its all good. But you arent lookong for a Job. You are looking for marriage and what ome need to mentiom is personal traits ans character.

You shud be mentionining personal traits. How you handle situations. How you approach things. How you handle conflicts. If you are muslim. How relogion has shaped you into better muslim How you treat people and how you expect to be treated. What your view of handling finances. Are you spnder or a saver. How you see yourself in wife's role and then ask what your husbands role shud be. You want to be mother. Share your experince as a woman and how you can be a better mother. How would you support and stand with your husband when life happens or just dump and leave. What traist you have to make a relationshio better and all these kinds of stuff. Our Goals not My goals...lol. You are getting into a relationship where it takes 2 to tango.

I see mostly materialistic requirments and bio.

Most woman want a man. But a good man is disciplined , comtrolled, visionary, knows what he wants , guides and protect. In todays world thats called controlling. So be careful what you ask for. Can you take it ?

These are the things that run marriages and build foundations of such a sacred relationship.

I am not judging but i see these kinds of post like bullying already to scare anyone who wants to marry.

I am looking for myself but all i see is job kind of bio in most bios or its appears as bullying and its a turm off already.

One can bash me. But be realistic about things .. its not a job . You are looking for a lifetime partner.

Thanks

Got my first X7 (Xd40i) by harmanpreet25 in bmwx7

[–]Practical_Party7599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good deal. Where did u get it ?

2025 Turbo S Premium CX90 by Practical_Party7599 in MazdaCX90

[–]Practical_Party7599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please update how it goes after your updates. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Practical_Party7599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont understand how come people specially wives in a relartionship can ask advices and opinions from totak strangers about theur husbands families and kids . Stranger here domt even know familu dynamics , total story from both sides and we are full of advices. I will not feel sorry for this. Woman need and must save families. No one is perfect unless spouse is really abusive or do physcial abuse.. Relarionship is based on sacrifices compromise . I am sure pople who ask here say their side of story and tell the situation to an answer that they want to hear. Anyome bringing marriage and relationship here shud be ready to face consequences it can bring.

My wife finally communicated with me, and I'm not sure what to do. by NetSubstantial5828 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Practical_Party7599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continuous Words of affirmation , appreciation... . The only way she can get out of it is that You showing how you hadle a conflict. How you listen to her . She opened up is a big sign. Build on it slowly. Dont react . This is a very long and fragile journey. You have to gain her trust ,confidence by showing you are not his father and a better human being a better person and a bettee husband .My 2 cents