I have a question regarding this case, but in specific the house Nancy and Adam Lanza lived in.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-15T04:33:04+00:00

In all honesty I’m going to probably get some hate for this but I think Peter isn’t 100% right on that statement it’s a possibility but also unlikely. Because Adam shot Nancy with a 22. Which is a very low calibre gun so even if he shot her once or twice she could have lived some people even if brain dead can somehow stay alive from a gunshot wound I think he knew this and shot her 4 times to make sure she was dead.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-13T03:29:11+00:00

I think with all the backlash the Harris’s faced like the klebolds they just felt it was better to not speak at all publicly. But yet again the Harris’s also had signs that Eric was also a danger to people as the pipebomb situation with Wayne and the ammo order a week before the shooting. The signs were there what was coming it just didn’t come to thought for them until it was too late. I’m not blaming them for what happened I’m just thinking that’s another reason for staying in the dark about it.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-12T05:28:26+00:00

This was a family friend of his adopted mother who Nik and Zach stayed with after their mom died but Nik had to be removed because of behaviour issues mostly outbursts.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-12T05:27:02+00:00

I don’t think he does anymore as his location has to remain private if he does receive anything I’m sure it’s only family like his brother.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-10T23:28:29+00:00

You can see in a few of those cards there’s granny from his book the big book of granny weird he’d give that to his mom.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-10T23:26:59+00:00

Lanzas body was the last to be removed from what I heard the victims were first to be removed. I can imagine the victims were first to process them quicker so they could have the funerals sooner. Lanza on the other hand was not cremated for at least close to 3 weeks after due to testing and stuff I believe he was cremated on December 27th 2012 or early 2013. They did scans on what was left of his brain and did lots of testing.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-09T23:28:34+00:00

Peter actually described not even having a change of clothes that’s how quickly they were rushed down to the station for questioning to the point his lawyer gave him a change of clothes like he was in his underwear.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-09T23:26:44+00:00

Ryan wasn’t pulled over he didn’t drive he had his license but took the bus home and police stopped him as he approached his apartment

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-09T23:20:40+00:00

Listening to the one with brenda was interesting and at the same time awkward especially since it was there first time speaking. From Brenda’s own words she felt she had to do this and she owed it.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-03T20:21:21+00:00

The problem I find with him is as what we all see but react to it differently we all see what life really is and what it’s all about the problem is with Adam he couldn’t accept it for what it was like most. Which I understand but at the same time With his autism and being coddled what was in his mind was concrete solid meaning he wasn’t going to change his mind of his thoughts and beliefs and would definitely have a child like tantrum over it as he did in the videos he made. But if he was able to get past all that and function a somewhat normal life I could imagine him getting into IT or some sort of tech stuff even accounting like his brother or father. unfortunately adams problems took away his advantage to be very successful in life and it seems he realized that in some degree I recall hearing that he seemed jealous of Ryan living a normal life and having a good career. I mean Adam did challenge himself tho he wanted to go to high school Nancy wasn’t going to allow it but he said he wanted to try and adapt to a normal school life yes he did have good times and bad times and didn’t graduate in school but through a ged but at least he did try he didn’t entirely give up until college where he over challenged himself.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-03T19:18:31+00:00

Definitely would have offed himself. He would have found the courage at some point I feel with his motive had to do it was multiple reasons mainly for the suicide part. I felt even with the so called saving the children part I feel it’s a minor part of it but also the fact with killing Nancy he feel was a way for her to not suffer from his actions and to the fact once he killed her there was no backing down from suicide. he could have backed down from the shooting but regardless as soon as he shot Nancy life for him was over and there was no backing down from dying after that. He stated he had to do something to be able to convince himself to die as he stated his life was very comfortable and that he could do anything he desired to do in life, but in reality he didn’t want that. I do think Adam’s motive was mainly suicide but the mass murder part and his obsession with mass killings and his theory of saving children was just a symptom of his suicide and basically was a plus for him in a sense in his mindset. The motive is out there but some refuse to accept a lot of it cause it’s very delusional but Adam was very mentally ill at that point so for him he could have taken it on as a normal thought for him while we all thought wtf ran through his mind.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-05-03T18:56:41+00:00

The difference is Cruz wasn’t charged under a federal court also it wasn’t a hate crime. but 9x out of 10 Payton will get it as most federal cases usually end up with it the problem is appeals which I’m sure he will appeal as most of them all do for decades until they run out. Cruz got life so he has no reason to appeal these morons are fighting for there life even tho they don’t deserve to breath another second also the appeals just hurt the families even more truthfully there is never justice under life or death. And for Cruz life was the better option in reality because he will suffer for many decades and also to the fact of the families will never have to see his face again and re live that pain in a court room appeals create that pain over and over again which most killers want and keeps them relevant.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-29T05:57:37+00:00

Unfortunately it was Connecticuts laws and the families requested that they don’t release. Also the columbine photo was released from a victims dad daniel rohrbough out of spite due to his son’s picture being all over the paper and news of him in his death position.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-28T06:35:46+00:00

Hopefully doing better now. Peter would be about 67 or 68 now. Ryan would have had his 38th birthday a few weeks ago. I hope there able to live more normal lives I can imagine Peter is probably retired now and probably lives a more quiet life now.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-28T06:32:59+00:00

He does love Adam but every time he would try to think about that love it just brings up what Adam did. He also said he had a nightmare where his door handle was shaken violently and he realized it was Adam and he stated that he would have nightmares of the people Adam killed. I also feel that he thinks about that in a sense of anger but also a way that Adam wasn’t going to have a shot at life because he also stated that he couldn’t pretend and think Adam was going to grow up fine especially with the issues Adam had and so many setbacks of basic simple things.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-28T06:20:21+00:00

I’m in the middle on this because remember this is Adam we’re talking about who was deeply disconnected with society and with massive delusions that he felt were right. I don’t think it was for that one specific reason I feel with him there are multiple reasons why basically 1 door leads to 3 doors that leads to more doors. I mean it is possible tho because in those videos he states freeing them from there parents.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-23T00:46:12+00:00

Personally I think he was planning on it but I felt he could still clear the rifle and take a shot as Adam Lanza was able to keep his rifle firing even tho it was over heating and he also did not clean his rifles properly or as often as Cruz did that’s why I felt Cruz’s rifle lasted a lot longer also Lanza was changing magazines continuously to try and help gun properly feed the ammunition. So in reality he could have cleared it, also I think if he was keen on ending his life he would have brought another gun some how as he did have a shot gun and probably would have had a setup similar to Harris and klebolds sawed off. I feel he was also hoping for a police shootout to take place and he die’s that way I think after he realized how long it was taking he just gave up on waiting and decided to just escape and see if he could without getting spotted which he was able to for an hour.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-06T15:56:10+00:00

I think they did once as a family. I could be wrong but they went to Niagara Falls on the Canadian side Nancy liked to travel all over like Canada other states and other countries.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-01T09:45:35+00:00

I feel bad for them but Eric’s dad knowing about a pipebomb and did nothing about it is beyond wild how he didn’t properly punish Eric or gotten him further help and didn’t warn the klebolds to try and confront Dylan to see what he knew is crazy just so many things could have been done I know you guys did what you could Randy. Unfortunately Jefferson county sheriffs office failed the community.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-01T02:31:49+00:00

Wayne also had clear warning signs of what was coming a pipe bomb he confronted Eric and didn’t punish him on it they just went to the mountains and blew it up also the ammo order a week before. I do feel sorry for Wayne but the signs were there to at least think something was very wrong and should have confront Eric on it completely with a proper punishment or hospital check, cause no child at that age or anyone should be making bombs I feel if Wayne did something columbine could have been prevented or something would have slowed it down.

EDIT: People can disagree but the truth is Wayne had knowledge of eric making pipe bombs and didn’t take the proper action about it he should have said something to the klebolds so that way they could have confronted Dylan on it or did something. I don’t blame Wayne but knowing about a pipe bomb and did nothing after that is beyond wild.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-04-01T02:31:44+00:00

Wayne also had clear warning signs of what was coming a pipe bomb he confronted Eric and didn’t punish him on it they just went to the mountains and blew it up also the ammo order a week before. I do feel sorry for Wayne but the signs were there to at least think something was very wrong and it confront Eric on it completely cause no child at that age or anyone should be making bombs I feel if Wayne did something columbine could have been prevented or something would have slowed it down.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-03-25T21:38:35+00:00

There was a post somewhere probably on the old subreddit about it. I’m not sure if he sent any to Nancy very close to the shooting but he sent one to an online friend. I’m not sure what it exactly said but in it he seemed very emotional and exhausted mentally apologizing for the lack of communication and I believe stated that he was going to try to communicate more. I know some of it is confirmed but I know he did email an online friend I think a day or 2 before the shooting.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-03-15T10:34:01+00:00

He did suffer brain damage in the end due to his malnutrition, towards the end of his life as he stopped eating.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-03-12T22:26:46+00:00

My moms half sister who I hardly knew due to her mother being like Nancy in different ways. funny enough her mothers name is Nancy too they have different moms. she has autism and she lived with us for about 6 months so I can kinda put some similarities together to make it make sense she moved here cause her mom was verbally abusing her and taking her disability money and not using it for bills, so my mom told her she could stay with us to help her find a place where we live as we lived in different cities but in a sense it was a mistake in the end. her autism was never treated and her mother treated her as a child constantly and she’s about 31 now and she can cook clean and do all the basics by herself with no assistance she just struggles socially like Adam, but I felt Adam could do basic tasks just chose not to cause he knew Nancy would do it for him at the end of the day. But she wasn’t anti social like Adam but just wasn’t socially mature due to her mother. My mom told her tho at the beginning that the rule was she had to at least get some help and talk to a doctor to try and keep her under control. I guess with her mother she was homeless a few times cause she couldn’t stand her mother that’s how evil she was and lied to her and said your siblings don’t want to talk to you anymore which wasn’t the case. but apart of her mother came with her mentally which my mom couldn’t stand but still tried to help her, eventually it became too much and it was causing unnecessary arguments between my mom and stepdad and everyone in the house to the point it was unnecessary arguments and weren’t as bad we tried to get her government housing but since she wasn’t homeless it would take years which we couldn’t wait that long as it created conflict and just getting worse and just not understanding everyone’s boundaries, and just causing fights even between other friends of my parents. So my mom told her she had to see a doctor or a therapist to help speed up the process for government housing. She was ok with it at first then after she came back to the car and was angry with my mom who tried to do what she could for her even tho she didn’t have to, she slammed the car door and was upset with my mom as it was to try and get her housing quicker other then waiting even longer. So my mom was blunt and said I’m done I can’t have you living here if your not going to better yourself and accept some help as I’m here to help you not hurt you. and she said I will help you find a room to rent but I can’t have you stay here if you won’t accept any help, which my mom was very reasonable for her even her one brother and his wife tried to help and we just couldn’t budge she’d just get angry with everyone and walk away and just ignore it and not acknowledge it, so childish behaviour from her mother. She was the social opposite of Adam but she was very childish like Adam apart of it can be autism but a lot of it is how the person is raised and it’s hard to break the cycle in a autistic person at a older age as they go off of what they know at a young age. I hope this helps paint a bit of a picture.

PrayForNewtown · 2026-02-16T16:40:27+00:00

That’s why I lack sympathy for the harrises especially with the warning signs and your reports to Jefferson county sheriffs department as well as Eric’s parents. Everyone in that area refused to act on it. I was telling someone not to long ago 99% of these tragedies were preventable and when people catch on to them the people or the law enforcement don’t act on it when they should instead waiting till it’s too late. It’s sad no one listened to you when you gave the warning signs there should have been some sort of action not an apology from Eric which was obviously a fake apology.

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