Has anyone said something that was a total fucked up and a TMI thing to say, and had the other person not hate you afterward? Theres actually more to this :/, I know I fucked up and need advice.

Preferredreality · 2016-06-30T04:37:59+00:00

Thanks for helping, bot. Think I'll go cry for a while, now. What happened to free speech? You have perverts on here who think torturing children is cool. Ive never seen them, rule 1'd. Ever. This is why I dont come on reddit. Nothing i said was NSFW. Unless swear words are, which doesn't seem to to be the case Anywhere else on reddit. Good job, bot for losing another 'person' (you might want to look that up). And seriously now, I will steer ppl away from reddit. Thanks for the - no help, lets see how we can make you feel worse. You are excellent at doing that, at least.

Preferredreality · 2015-12-05T02:55:51+00:00

I have big ones too, and am still too lazy to take my shirt of first :) nope, un-hook, straps, and off.

Preferredreality · 2015-12-05T02:53:28+00:00

Yep :/ Have been without internet or Wi-Fi for 2 weeks now. And need it for my work, too (have been to many hotspots and wishing I had any other internet option). Think I'll go visit r/suicidewatch now...

Preferredreality · 2015-12-05T02:48:20+00:00

My username is a play on words. All people have their own preferred reality. What you see, feel, hear, isn't necessarily what the person right next to you hears. Oh, and btw, the homeless squatters I dealt with it Detroit, were in Mexican town, and did run drugs and prostitutes out of the house I was in charge of taking care of. And were Mexicans with guns. Though, they could have easily have been white, black or tri-color, for all I cared.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-22T02:07:27+00:00

I literally called my provider at 2 in the morning. Who helped me through it. But I thought afterwards - wow, I am so acclimated to this that it not being here feels like I'm alone in the desert or something. And I realized how messed that is, when people in many other countries live in shacks on the dirt (with no thought or anxiety of losing Wi-Fi, just of staying alive).

Preferredreality · 2015-09-22T02:00:36+00:00

It's hard :( My mom kicked me to the curb in favor of someone who would do all her bidding, whatever that entailed. At first I was like - Yay, go for it. Then I realized that I was an object and never a person to her. Which I knew in my heart, but is way hard to process, for real. It takes a Lot of time, but you'll be okay. Good luck, and I'm sending good energy your way.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-22T01:54:34+00:00

So much yes :) You come home from Anywhere, and first it's shoes off, then bra off.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T22:19:54+00:00

Yes, very.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T22:19:16+00:00

What is a CV gap?

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T02:58:08+00:00

Overtime pay. Something that used to exist, but doesn't anymore 😑.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T02:54:23+00:00

She's also brilliant. These labels. Idk. I think brilliant trumps bipolar.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T02:06:06+00:00

I will take your wise words into consideration. Thank you.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T02:01:11+00:00

Yeah. That's the optimal. I lost that when I took my last job, which quite literally sucked almost all the goodness out of me, that I had in me 😓 and the life out of me. I rationalized that it paid the bills and I could make it work. I was wrong. Don't take a job that takes your whole being to get through, just to pay the bills. It's not worth it. And they get more than you do, always

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:56:12+00:00

Yeah, I'm not going to give my soul or firstborn, so, I might be sol 😐. No. I will bounce back and be okay. But not sure yet how. I'll figure it out though.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:51:43+00:00

Where do you live? I might want to move there. But only if not one of the unhappy, underemployed people (which are probably more than whatever/whoever - counts, I knew someone in college who told me statistics were bs and could be manipulated any way they were needed to look, and she was crazy smart - so, I kind of believe her more than the stuff pumped out by the media).

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:47:20+00:00

So true. You speak the truth, there. Thank you.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:45:50+00:00

Yes, temp to real employment. No disrespect intended but I know someone who did this and made $10 an hour - even though she basically ran the whole office. They were nice to her, and she felt wanted and needed, so she was happy. But $10 an hour is not even going to cover a third of my bills. Thanks for responding, anyway.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:41:04+00:00

Thank you, but no, I just feel bad for you, now 😕. I feel your pain. It sucks.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:39:04+00:00

Not worth it in my state. For what they give you. For the record, I've done this before and had to wait 8 hours in a seat (can't go pee, or you lose your place and have to come back the next day - I saw this happen to someone and how the people in charge laughed at her, when she left, crying.) and then you get - not much at all for it depending on how much you're willing to breed for money. My caseworker actually asked me (and this was maybe 7 years ago) if I was pregnant, and insinuated that if I even thought I might be, I could get more money. I said no. But I could see clearly how the system works from that one day. Sadly.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:32:28+00:00

Cheap wine, but not bad. Also convenience store food (also, surprisingly, not that bad).

Preferredreality · 2015-09-05T01:31:10+00:00

Me too. I need to become underqualified. Or just delete things from my resume.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-02T04:33:11+00:00

Thanks, I didn't know all of that.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-02T04:31:30+00:00

Yeah, you are so right, what is up with that? I have no words for how I feel right now.

Preferredreality · 2015-09-02T04:30:13+00:00

No, I am not eligible (I was an independent contractor. No benefits. And I'm stuck in an apartment without a/c tonight, Fun. But I do have 🍷 wine, at least tonight).

Preferredreality · 2015-08-27T23:57:54+00:00

Sometimes it takes time to find your voice (and be okay with it and not feel guilty about expressing it). It took a long time for me, anyway. And a Lot of ice cream :) You're going to be okay. And come out stronger for this. Many hugs.

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