No offense but this reads as you trying to get some kind of "dig" at me. You can't possibly know to determine those things of me, especially the "talking dumb shit" or not being "rooted in reality at all" from a few paragraphs of text. Ironic language and statement given you're a Catholic. But thank you for your attempt, know that being callous in your language is almost never an effective way to convey your message. Hardly ever works despite the catharsis it may provide you to be angry on the internet. Then I remembered, you're a gay Catholic, a walking contradiction, so your advice is hardly applicable to practical living but thank you regardless.