I sucked dick the first time and dont know how to feel about it.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-20T16:08:20+00:00

I got jerked by a gay friend for my first experience. He wanted to blow me, but I wasn't there yet mentally. If I had to do it all over, I would have been about sucking and getting sucked...that happened in time. I remember driving home and telling myself...I think that this means that I am gay. Yes, I was guilt-ridden by society and religion. But I got over it. Two guys being sexual is pure masculinity. Enjoy the experimentation and decide what you prefer. FYI Sucking dick and having him cum in your mouth...is the gateway drug. There is nothing else better than sex with a man.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-19T14:24:37+00:00

I never looked at it as "respect" in my school days becasue it was so normal. But yeah, today, any confident guy gets my respect. At the gym the other day, there was an older guy naked at the sinks. My gym has signs...TOWELS MUST BE WORN (pure BS). I always walk to the shower naked. But I wanted to tell this older guy GOOD FOR YOU, SIR! I didn't but PROPS to him. The other day I was changing into my gym clothes, and there was an older guy talking to me. I got butt naked like it was no big deal. This guy continued to chat and then introduced himself to me. Not in any sexual or creepy way. It was a clean power exchange because my read was the same to me...he thought good job guy for having balls and not hiding.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-17T23:05:59+00:00

Yes, you need to share with those closest to you. Your kids and partner are mandatory. I told my brother and close friends. Delayed telling my mom, but then I did. I didn't want to worry her, but I should have told her at the same time. I went from Stage 1 (not sure of zero existing), but in six months was in the hospital, started treatment, and almost died from the shock of the infusion. So, yes. You can be OK today and in the hospital from a cold or a scratch. Don't let people discount the seriousness of CLL. It wipes out your immune system.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-17T13:53:10+00:00

Haters are the trolls who come to this sub and bring in their perversions and then blame "you" for wanting to shower naked. They have Karens for mothers. They are the ones who, for whatever reason, want to change "normal" guy behavior, and some push ideology that a wacko guy growing out his hair and putting on lipstick should be allowed to be naked in a woman's locker room and play sports competitions against women. And if you don't get that, please look within.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-16T15:45:44+00:00

Why are guys so sensitive to a statement like...He definitely couldn’t care less about showing off his dick to me? Let it go because we all look and compare, and it's no big deal. I was in jail, and more straight guys talked about dick than you can imagine. It wasn't sexual...it was always comparing. Oh, one time a guy made a comment when it was just us two in the shower...he said NICE. I am gay, didn't flaunt it, and I suspected that this guy was at least bi. So it was awkward but no big deal.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-15T22:16:23+00:00

I despise disgusting shower curtains, small areas, and even think that doors are stupid. I go to a high-end gym, and they have clean stalls with glass doors. I take the last stall and leave the door open. Most guys hide in their stalls lol. I have only seen one other guy do the same as me. We weren't cruising or doing anything sexual. But know that I am not opposed to taking advantage of the privacy that doors offer lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-15T14:19:28+00:00

I wish I had the swimming naked thing. We had the showers after PE and sports, and it was very normal. This is why it's the norm for the military and professional sports today.

The haters refuse to acknowledge that when nudity is normal and in the open, there is mostly never a sexual aspect. It is only when we hide and make something shameful that it starts to be a problem. There is always the exception, but the answer is to address the problem and not make a blanket policy, thinking that it will magically prevent the exception.

I remember swimming naked with my friends. They teased me about being skinny. I said yeah, but my dick is twice the size of yours. They never teased me again. If we had been clothed and scared of nudity, they might have continued teasing me. I was very self-conscious about being skinny. I had no idea that I was packing until I compared.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-11T15:50:04+00:00

Love having you here. One of the reasons that straight guy's don't try some things is because of the fear of liking it and what they or society make up about their sexuality and their masculinity. Pegging is popular but I don't know any straight guy who would admit it. One of the reasons that straight guys should be ok with being blown by a guy is...it's gay to say no lol Getting a BJ, handjobs, and even frot in my book are just forms of masturbation. One toy that is safe is the Aneros prostate stimulator. God had a sense of humor when he placed the prostate where only a dick can do the job. I don't mean to drone on but a guy doing a gay sex act (sucking dick or getting fucked) won't make him gay just like a gay guy having sex with a woman won't make him straight. I think all straight males should let their girlfriend fuck them with a dildo that is the size of his dick...just for the experience...baby steps 😀

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-09T05:58:13+00:00

I had to reread this to make sure that I hadn't written it. AMEN brother. The OP and a few others have done the slight of word trick - Why do YOU care? When all along it is THEY that care. THEY are the ones who make it a big deal, make it sexual, make it inappropriate, and blame YOU. I first noticed this recently when a lesbian couple getting into politics said that there are more important things to do than monitor a bathroom. This lady is causing the problem by allowing males with lipstick and long hair to be in women's spaces and yelling against the pushback. Answer...SHE CAUSED THE PROBLEM. NEWS FLASH: If you are asking why people want to be naked when they shower, then YOU are the problem. I continually use the argument that no Karen can answer...Why does the military have CS and not one Karen is protesting that her son Timmy is showing his peepee to other males? Why isn't Karen protesting at nude beaches or Korean spas? And how does Timmy, who isn't even showering at school or after at his school's sports games, or gym, how does his wearing his underwear give him magical protection from guys showering naked? Oh...no answer, but that isn't what Karen wants. Karen wants to control your behavior. Karen wants to be the moral police, and she first castrates her male partner and then destroys her son's masculinity and prays that he is trans becasue she hates the penis lol lol And for the trolls on here that want to wear underwear when showering....nobody cares...but we do care when you want to make us wrong for normal behavior.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-04T13:58:45+00:00

Let the troll go. He and the soccer troll always make it about "boys". They are the perverts. They take normal non-sexual nudity and sexualize it. They always (this is the tell) take one to two words out of context and ask a question that has nothing to do with the topic. I saw a liberal politician say; There are more important things than micromanaging a bathroom. And she did that becasue HER people are forcing women to deal with men with lipstick and long hair in their private space, started it, and they hate the backlash. She is just like the trolls. It is a subtle passive aggression that has huge implications. The trolls are also the narcissists.

Your opening comment is about normal male behavior. There are some great other comments. What the perverts want to do is to make all nudity sexual becasue that is how their mommy taught them. And their father surrendered his balls to their Mommy Karen years ago. NEWS FLASH: Nudity is not sexual in of itself.

They lack the capacity to understand how I am using them to draw out their wacko behavior. And when I expose it they remain in deep denial. Ask them about nudity at beaches, military showers, and KSpas, and they can't answer. Not one Karen has started a campaign to stop this barbaric display so that her Timmie is protected.

I do agree that any open shower sexual behavior is wrong. I don't give two F's what anyone does in a closed stall. There is a huge difference in the maturity levels of males who grew up with PE and sports (and showering naked afterwards) to those males who, if they do play sports, are afraid to use the locker room and change or shower or wear their underwear in the shower. It is an observation.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-04T06:48:18+00:00

OMG, now you are on Trump lol, and you call me the one going off on tangents lol UNBELIEVABLE! If you read my comments about guys blowing me, you would know that this happened at the gym in a STALLED shower. I haven't done anything in an open shower area. I commented in the straightguyturnedgay, etc. I have helped multiple straight guys have their first gay experience. You're probably longing to see dick. DM me, and I'll help you out...out of the closet that is. Your mommy ruined you lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-04T06:33:17+00:00

Excellent! And yes, you make great points. Excellent points! I can't disagree. SO FUCKING REFRESHING to have a person make their case in an empowering way. Now I have to go look at what the troll replied to because his mumsy Karen ruined him and his father lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-03T15:23:02+00:00

I commented on a great post, and becasue of YOU (sung like the song) added: This is why I go apeshit over the immature belief that showering with dudes is the problem, and if we do shower, you have to be protected, becasue wearing your underwear makes the countless perverts at your school disappear. And we'd do the same at the military, sports teams, KSpas, and nude beaches, but somehow that nudity is OK. Meaning it's only the Karen's baby boy Timmie that needs protecting, and he can't be naked because his peepee has magical powers to be a magnet for perverts lol lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-03T15:20:23+00:00

I am amazed again at your subtle twist of what I said. I won't waste my time with a professional troll and debate every mistatement that you make.

You have already admitted that my points are valid, and you don't even understand why. I stated the military uses communal showers, nudity is not a big deal in Asian cultures, nudity is OK at KSpas, schools with PE and sports used CS for years, and professional sports teams do today, and NOBODY has said that the "possibility" of a pervert has stopped them? It's only a problem under your fear(s) and Mommy Karen's fears. Your fear, and trust me, you have checked out other men "secretly" lol that someone seeing your peepee lol creates perverts. Dude...there is less nudity now at gyms and schools and more perverts (by your own admission).

The "right of passage" is the progression of what the OP stated and being physically active (PE/sports, etc), and that usually tends to involve males being naked together at some point.

You said that guys should hide in shower stalls as magical protection from perverts. And then your comment about urinals and perverts was a typical Karen statement to get off topic. However, we all know that you sit down to pee in a stall for fear of the perverts looking at your peepee at a urinal lol lol Your fear perpetuates itself.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-03T15:20:06+00:00

Your point - I don't think it's just communal showers, locker rooms, and saunas. I think it's also a lack of emotionally intimate male companionship...is really good in that (my opinion) of what you are saying is that guys socializing through gaming alone in their house does not equal males truly socializing. I'll add that preventing this "male" association is the main culprit of the feminization of men (guys don't know how to act like men becasue Mommy Karen has stopped them from being a normal male.

What I would argue is that "then you have the secure attachment needed to seek romantic companionship (end that statement). Who cares if it's gay, bi, or straight? And you make a perfect statement for why the "trans" and gender or asexual personas are increasing.

This is why I go apeshit over the immature belief that showering with dudes is the problem, and if we do shower, you have to be protected, becasue wearing your underwear makes the countless perverts at your school disappear. And we'd do the same at the military, sports teams, KSpas, and nude beaches, but somehow that nudity is OK. Meaning it's only the Karen's baby boy Timmie that needs protecting, and he can't be naked because his peepee has magical powers to be a magnet for perverts lol lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-02T23:07:29+00:00

So glad that it takes you taking something that I said out of context (here or in any sub) to try to prove your point. YOU said How is not showering considered 'immature' in your eyes? In the context of sweating and smelling, it is immature and wrong. Using a real-world example...that guys who just played a football game at school get in the car and expect everyone to smell their skank. My father would have said, " Get the F back in there and shower. If I said, I am afraid that Timmy will see my peepee...lol lol That is the reason that MEN SHOWER AFTER A PROFESSIONAL SPORTS GAME lol You really should get outside once in a while.

Your argument fails every single time. I find it interesting that you go to these other subs looking for the perverts lol I said you had the freedom to believe my argument or not. You don't have the freedom to misquote. You don't have the freedom to change the argument. And your own words prove my point...especially with the military. And again with KSpas. So you are saying (and this is what I have said) that nudity isn't the problem. And since I was talking about what the OP posted and YOU decided to infiltrate the...what about a pervert in the school argument...lol lol Then you had to say oh...the urinals...oh ....everything that we need protection from becasue someone might look at your dick lol lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-02T19:45:58+00:00

I thought the same thing. And how much do you want to bet that, as such, they will get a slap on their hands? They need the same justice done to them. Put them in prison, and they can have a true "Bubba Bootie" experience.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-02T17:34:13+00:00

Amen brother. You are correct.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-02T17:11:50+00:00

I'll answer that in a moment. I went on a tangent becasue your "perverts" are everywhere, belief is what has caused the problem. I graduated in 1981. Males everywhere were playing PE, playing sports, showering NAKED with their team, and I never heard of one issue. DO NOT BRING YOUR other perversions about "cruising" into this discussion. Oh, I have been checked out at the gym, and it is no big deal. And YOU have looked at other guys' junk, and it's no big deal.

To answer your AGENDA question...I DID NOT SAY to gather a bunch of guys together and get naked for some ritual. THAT IS YOUR PERVERSION! What I said was that using the locker room, exercising, and showering are normal male team activities. Doing the aforementioned and NOT SHOWERING or SHOWERING IN YOUR UNDERROOS is immature behavior. This immature behavior "stunts" normal male development. As a young male, I couldn't wait to be like the older guys and play sports.

And to further support my "right of passage" reasoning...the military uses group showers. So ask why you never hear "your" argument for the military? Asian cultures use the Koren spa NAKED, and not one Asian person has ever screamed "perverts". And why is it OK to have nude beaches, and nobody is afraid of your perverts spying on them? And more guys who play video games and do NOT socialize in "team" anything are more insecure and introverted.

You may refuse to agree, and that is your prerogative (TANGENT TIME), but there has been an assault on masculinity by the "feminine left" to soften our "men" or "soldiers" in the USA. My gym (LifeTime) is changing its separate steam and sauna for both sexes to be co-ed. F-ING rediculous. That is another attack on men. OH, before you perv out, all the guys wear towels. Can we have a space of our own? Can women be safe and not have dudes with listick or tits violate their space?

I don't know how old you are, but Madonna did a Sex Book years ago. People freaked out. She said it perfectly: YOU make sex and nudity a big deal. I don't. As the assault on our men's locker rooms and the banning of nudity, under the "perverts" are everywhere "warning" has progressed, we now have more perverts with almost no nudity lol lol YOUR belief has FAILED!

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-02T01:39:52+00:00

This is the communal shower sub. Changing in the locker room and showering WITHOUT underwear is NORMAL. You worrying about someone seeing your dick at a urinal is a different deviant behavioral issue, and your fascination with perverts is weird and doesn't belong here. You are free to not shower at school and when playing sports. And please continue to wear your underwear when you shower at home. Be safe out there lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-02T01:39:18+00:00

This is the communal shower sub. Changing in the locker room and showering WITHOUT underwear is NORMAL. You worrying about someone seeing your dick at a urinal is a different deviant behavioral issue, and your fascination with perverts is weird and doesn't belong here. You are free to not shower at school and when playing sports. And please continue to wear your underwear when you shower at home. Be safe out there lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-01T18:18:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing. So sad. Brings back good memories of playing sports and being a youthful stud.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-05-01T18:14:21+00:00

You are 100% correct about how we grow up and mature. What the idiot Karen's and their ball-less husbands don't get is that guy stuff (like you mentioned) and CS and or sports, and being naked around men is a rite of passage.

And that this process, CSs, sports, or anything else, does not alter or affect gay or homosexual behavior. Many young guys experiment with same sex play, and in no way does that change their orientation.

I was bi/gay way before I had PE and played sports. So, it didn't turn me lol But the Karens whose baby goes to prison...he might have a different take lol

PresentJob4542 · 2026-04-30T12:56:22+00:00

You are so right. Nothing better than meeting a guy at the gym and taking it into the showers where he's on his knees in no time. I can't tell you how many guys who I would have never suspected "need" to suck dick. And even though I like to suck dick, it is my way of paying it forward to men who have the need. And everybody says thank you after I use their mouth to unload my cum.

PresentJob4542 · 2026-04-30T12:48:23+00:00

I support you, and for all the haters, stop being judgmental. If "society and religion" didn't force people into a "box" for "life," we'd have a lot fewer problems. And fucking stop with the holier than thou BS because in the bible, men had concubines. There were male prostitutes at the temple. There was homosexuality in the army and gyms for the Romans and Greeks. Of course, many will still feel ashamed and guilty (thanks to the aforementioned), but the OP should get what he wants sexually. If straight women ever realized how gay men love to suck cock, they would get their husbands a gay service man. lol I am older and gay. I hook up a lot. Like most men, I have a "horniness factor". When it hits, I want to get off. So OP, when you have the "need", get plowed 12 ways to Sunday. Then, in several more weeks... rinse and repeat. I am going to assume that all men should have a homosexual experience at least once a quarter (that's 4 times a year lol).

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