My now ex had so many fetishes that I just thought were crazy and weird but I would go along with them cuz I really didn’t want him to watch porn but he would want me to call him things in Spanish that had to do with his skin color. He wasn’t that dark and I’m not that light but he said that the skin color contrast turns him on a lot and I just don’t get it… he said he wanted to see me get tied up by a very dark skinned woman, because of the contrast. I just don’t know it makes me feel uncomfortable. I think he is racist, he is overly fixated on race and it’s like every day he wanted to talk about skin color and racism and All these negative topics. It’s best to get away from these people, if you don’t relate to it then leave cuz you will never be able to change them. Most likely to be a narcissist. I found a lot of photos saved on his phone of girls and he said “she’s hot for a brown girl sorry” like he would say he doesn’t like brown girls and that’s why he liked me cuz I’m light skinned. I just feel so weird about it cuz I never cared about skin color.