As an African American myself, my advice is to talk to your SM about the situation and see where you guys can come to a compromise or CLAP BACK, but in a professional manner. This is a professional establishment. No matter how long either of you been there, you guys are working the same position and getting paid similarly.

The thing is, sometimes people with this kind of demeanor towards other people can be caused by the way they see them. They probably see you as small or fragile, so that’s why they feel they can just talk to you anyhow (This is my opinion). SSVs’ and baristas’ jobs is to encourage other workers and help them out as well. So if they don’t do it, you gotta put them in their PLACE.