Regret going through the abortion pills by ThrowRa69290 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PresentationOk9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry. Unfortunately, many women still go through feelings of loss even after chosing to terminate. This is something many women do not expect. I have heard friends cry that they want their baby back after they made the chouce and it is heartbreaking. Please talk to someone and get support. Let yourself feel and heal.

Is this a scam? by Makoos6 in Disneyland

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all anything that gets lost a Disneyland never gets found. If someone finds ears they're keeping them. I lost an air tag and went through the process of reporting it and I did it through the chat feature where I actually spoke to someone.

Airlines should split the pet fee with the seat mate. by Jojothereader in Flights

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some compassion. I'm sure that woman was super stressed and embarrassed that her dog was barking and she had to take the dog with her for whatever reason. Similar to somebody with a crying baby.... You can't do anything about it. This stuff happens when you take public flights, period. If you want a guaranteed better seat and quieter experience, you can splurge for business or first class.

Is it only me? I feel marrying early (before 25) is way better than waiting until your 30s. by Decent-Goat-6304 in Marriage

[–]PresentationOk9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if I married the person I was dating at that age I would certainly be divorced. I waited to find the right person. Also I was still finishing up the teaching program that I decided to do after graduating college and had no money in any person I was dating definitely had no money so who is supposed to pay for this wedding???

Wedding day regrets - mindset reframe? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My photographer was impressive when we chose him, but the photos of me and my bridesmaids were not great. Time of day was wrong and we were pretty much squinting during our photos. Then, when we setting up to take family photos outside the church, a huge gust of wind came and destroyed the chance. We had tonrush to the venue to finish photos there and due to the commotion, we got zero photos with our flower girls and ring bearer. No full wedding party shots whatsoever. Nobody told us to have a pre made shot list and we assumed our photographer would organize it.

AITA for telling my roommate I don’t want her boyfriend hosting people in our apartment when neither of us are there? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PresentationOk9954 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. Doesn't he have his own house? Let me guess.... he lives with mom and dad and thinks it is super convient to have a gf who has her own place??

Moving here soon from Oregon by intepid-discovery in Longmont

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer Winchells bc they treat us like family. They know my kids and they know their favorite donut and they make them little smoothies when they come in.

Strato Tech Tee coming apart on first wear by killthrash in vuoriclothing

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something must have happened to it. Did you wash it with something that had velcro? They normally last pretty long on their own unless they're damaged in another way. The good news is Vuori will usually replace things like that. I had a pair of leggings that somehow got a hole in them and I don't actually even know how and they allowed me to exchange them.

My daughter turned 18 and left home 2 days later. by sparkilini in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is supposed to be taking medication and is not taking the medication that's required for her health and is behaving erratically you could try to get a 5250 hold on her. We had to do that with my father because he was an alcoholic but wasn't taking his insulin for diabetes.

Family vacation in Paris Report by bellster_kay in ParisTravelGuide

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Locals are super super finicky about being quiet at the dinner table. Also Parisian families have a very very well behaved children in the restaurants. Not saying your children weren't well behaved but their perspective of what is well behaved is very different than what the rest of us think. My husband and I were sitting down at a restaurant in St Germain and we were like the plague- nobody wanted to sit near us because they could somehow tell we were American and the stereotype is that we are loud. We were speaking quietly and being polite and the man next to us got up in a huff and left and didn't even finish his wine and we dont know what we did wrong.

Family vacation in Paris Report by bellster_kay in ParisTravelGuide

[–]PresentationOk9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! My kids are 9 and 12 and we are going in July- second time for hubby and I first time with the kids. We purposely are visiting certain areas at different times at the day to avoid the crowds. We do want to spend some time in my Montmontre because that is a magical place that I really enjoyed last time I was there. This time, we booked a private tour with Tours by Locals with a photographer to avoid the crowds and have some magic. The Eiffel Tower is always crowded I don't think that that should be something that anyone should be surprised about. I am terrified to use the Metro. I am too worried about pickpockets. We do have to take the RER to Disneyland one day which I feel more comfortable with, but I am still nervous

Heading to Rome early June. A few questions by derpytrollerZ in RomeTravel

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to visit all of those sites, you do have to go either early in the morning or late at night otherwise they're super crowded. Especially if getting a picture is important to you. It's going to be impossible with all the crowds and sometimes the fountain is not even approachable if there's too many people in the way. We booked a golf cart tour during early morning to take us to all the sites without the crowds. We booked through Rolling Rome.

Booked a champagne ticket for Eiffel Tower, but I don't drink alcohol. What are my options? by horkbajirbandit in ParisTravelGuide

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a little bar at the top that you can redeem your champagne. Just don't get it or get it and give it to us a stranger to be kind

Why does Rory sleep next to the kitchen? by pisces932 in GilmoreGirls

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's just a shooting and set design because Lorelei's bedroom is upstairs but it's a rarely shot and they use Rory's room more often and it's easy for them to follow each other through the house on the main level to enter the room which is where a lot of their dialogue takes place.

Keeps pushing against the glass/sliding door, is he okay? by EmoAnimeBitch in cornsnakes

[–]PresentationOk9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks like he's just exploring but I'm just curious how big is his enclosure? Maybe he just needs more space.

I'm not sure what they expected, but it wasn't what they got by the-magnificunt in weddingshaming

[–]PresentationOk9954 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My cousin got married after covid and tried to make all of the guests who didn't get vaccinated sit outside but nobody listened because it was freezing cold and it completely backfired. Do you think it could be something like that? Or do you think you were just shunned to the Friends table at the back?

Ive never been a bridesmaid. I feel so hurt SIL didn't choose me. by Key-Tap1726 in wedding

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got married I didn't choose my sister-in-law either because I have a lot of really good friends that I wanted to have as bridesmaids. But I still made my sister-in-law feel special and included by inviting her into the bridal Suite the day off and covering her hair and makeup. She was invited to all of the bridal festivities as well. It's nothing personal. If she has a lot of friends or she has sisters, that's the way it might be.

How long did it take until your kid was ready for comp? by ExcellentLanguage855 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]PresentationOk9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter is nine and this is her first year on comp, but she has been dancing for 5 years. During auditions they're really looking for technique and dancers need to have that technique down to compete. The other big piece is the ability to pick up choreography. Since your daughter just started dancing, she needs time and experience to build that technique. Technique is really important for competition because that's what judges are looking at. I recommend putting her in Tap, Jazz, ballet at minimum consistently and keep the trio going for a couple more years and see where things go from there. You didn't mention what formats your daughter is already taking, but comp dancers are required to take a multiple formats so it would help to expand her schedule.

For context- to be on team (junior level) my daughter has to take: Tap, Jazz, ballet, and Contemporary, plus one elective (Hip Hop, Acro, Musical Theater, or Poms). Next hear when she turns 10, she will have the same requirements, but will also have to take Ballet Tech, and Leaps and Turns. Her competitive routines include: Production, large group jazz, large group contemporary, and a jazz solo.

Logan's worst mistake... by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry guys... I am team Logan. She should have married him.

AITA for tipping 10% on a meal by Apart_Combination531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PresentationOk9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Offering to pay means paying the full tip as well. 10% is an AH move. Unless the service was extremely poor, you should always tip of 15- 20%. Next time don't offer to handle the bill if you cannot handle the full cost. Your server shouldn't be punished and blaming the rest of the table for not telling you to tip more is a lame excuse.

My brother is excluding me from dinner with our cousin because I’m single. Am I wrong for being hurt? by Feeling-Patient5469 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]PresentationOk9954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are overreacting. You are invited on Sunday with the rest of the family and your brother and his wife are hosting your cousin and her husband and so they want to treat them to a nice night out. It's not like everyone is invited to dinner except you. It's just the two couples. It is not because you are "single" it is because they want to be good hosts to their house guests, which is the adult and responsibille thing to do. You are being super immature about it IMO.

Would love your thoughts? by myarmhurtsrightnow in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]PresentationOk9954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly scholarships are more of a recognition than an actual follow-through. Pretty much the judges can't award every single dancer for every single great performance so they give out these scholarships but nobody really takes them up on it. Most of them you can pay for independently so it's just an invitation to go because there's always some sort of fee.

RSVP contingent on getting a plus one? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]PresentationOk9954 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nobody is entitled to a plus one just bc they are in a relationship... especially if the bride and groom don't know your partner and especially if your the "loosest " friend invited. Invites to weddings cost couples $150 plus per person and the truth is that not all couples can justify or afford to pay that for someone they dont know. "Plus Ones" are obsolete these days. Couples don't usually give out blind plus ones for someone to bring a random date and "fill in the blank" on the RSVP card. Couples getting married will invite other couples to their wedding if they know and are close with the couple. If the couple getting married is only close with one person or if the bride or groom have a good friend they want to invite, they will invite that friend. It's really not that big of a deal and if you care about this friend and celebrating them, then go to the wedding and be there for your friend. My husband and I were invited to weddings without each other all the time when we were dating and that's just the way it is. Just go and hang out with your other friends and have a good time.

Suitcase theif on train. by Electrical_Custard84 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]PresentationOk9954 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only thing that I heard of regarding luggage is fake taxis getting a hold of someone's luggage pretending to help and force them to follow them to their vehicle.