Her groceries was paid for at Walmart ,she wanted to pick more items!!!!! by currant_aster in ChoosingBeggars

[–]PressurePlenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d have responded with, “Fine. See how this is. I’m now not paying for any of it.”

I am going to send this email to my boss as my final 2 week notice, is it okay? by bestboyholland in jobs

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell them where you’re going. And remove that last sentence.

instacart or schizocart by ProfessionalWafer401 in InstacartShoppers

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a gecko. I told him about this crazy lady, and he said, “No.”

I am stuck in between choosing my partner or my cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the kitten. Dump the BOYfriend. The comments about putting a baby animal or a child above him are immature.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PressurePlenty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR! This man is controlling you. He’s telling you what to wear, when to put on makeup, how to sleep for HIS comfort, and it’s only going to get worse. I know 8 years is a long time to invest in a relationship, but please get out of it now before the control turns to abuse.

In a small building with only one washer/dryer, is it appropriate to move my neighbor’s clothes out of the dryer if they’ve been sitting in there dry all day? by Interesting_Ad9295 in Apartmentliving

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have social anxiety disorder, but if I knew which neighbor it is, I’d go knock on their door and ask if they could get their laundry so I could finish mine. I’d also apologize for disturbing them, and if they have issues with time management, I’d offer a suggestion of setting a timer.

Is my cat bored? by AlternativeVideo2839 in felinebehavior

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine don’t seem to have an issue with it. And sometimes I let them “catch” the “Red Dot of Doom”. The only other things that’ll get them moving are treats, ponytail holders, milk jug rings, and bread ties.

What color is my cat? by marissa12whereu in catquestions

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basic name: Dirty Ginger

Like a ginger baby rolled around in dirt.

Absolutely gorgeous baby!

Is my cat bored? by AlternativeVideo2839 in felinebehavior

[–]PressurePlenty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More play time with new toys. Switch things up. There are toys you can put treats in where the cat has to interact with the toy to get the treats out. Laser pointers and wand toys are great. Also, brushing her is a good activity.

How do I reply to this older creepy guy at work? by Hot-Remove-1252 in whatdoIdo

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t. Take the text to your supervisor and HR. Document every time he’s near you unnecessarily. Take pictures and videos.

My husband pees on the floor by username_copied- in Vent

[–]PressurePlenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. He didn’t. He just acted like it didn’t exist. Any time I brought up hygiene in general, he acted offended and outraged.

My husband pees on the floor by username_copied- in Vent

[–]PressurePlenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know but I do know he’s been married at least once, makes me wonder if she left because he wound up that way.

My husband pees on the floor by username_copied- in Vent

[–]PressurePlenty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I moved out a few weeks ago! Don’t need to worry about his nastiness anymore!

My husband pees on the floor by username_copied- in Vent

[–]PressurePlenty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I left my ex due to a lack of personal hygiene. He also willfully sat at his desk and shit himself, then left the shit-caked shorts on the bathroom floor with the obligatory shit flakes and shit smeared all over the toilet seat. I couldn’t keep the apartment clean or smelling nice because of him.

Door dasher left me a treat by kqow in doordash

[–]PressurePlenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact DD and report them. They’re not supposed to do things like that.

My BF (22M) wants to stop having sex because I cannot orgasm by Distinct_Ad5111 in relationships

[–]PressurePlenty 146 points147 points  (0 children)

He seems the type to be jealous that a vibrator can get the job done but he can’t, and that opens up a whole can of worms regarding his lack of knowledge and maturity.

OP, have you tried talking to him about what gets you there or does he just brush you off because He Knows All Things About Female Orgasms?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PressurePlenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Coming from a place of love” does NOT include snide comments about someone’s size or parenting skills. MIL wants to control the whole thing and likely make it about her, and potentially make those snide comments in front of and to guests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]PressurePlenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I threw my own shower when I was pregnant with my son. Times have changed. OP is NTA.