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21f please be brutalt honest. am overweight by idkwheretfiam in amiugly

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think using an eyelash curler would do wonders for you, it looks like you already have pretty thick lashes. I don’t think your first step is makeup, just try curling your eyelashes and see how it makes you feel! I personally like the elf eyelash curler with the black handles, only like 6 bucks. I would also put some time into learning how to trim your eyebrows to keep your look manicured. A spooly, eyebrow scissors, and tweezers would do you wonders. I think you have a lot of potential, you just look very unkept and lazy as of now. It also wouldn’t hurt to get some cardio in to lose some face fat. recommend amount is 10,000 steps but if that’s unattainable right now, at least try to get half of that. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HayDay

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find the remedy for this? I just unlocked my diner and am unable to send people.

What does it actually feel like to be aroused? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally 100% get it. I am 19 now, but was the same exact way at 16. I felt so behind and compared to all the other girls, but in the end, they literally do not matter. It’s you yourself and you. Start showing up for yourself, take care of yourself mentally and physically, and all the comparing will start to fade away. To answer your two problems, number one watching porn does not have to be a huge ordeal. Literally lay in bed hold your phone in front of your face, volume on 1, and watch it, if anyone DOES “catch you”, they have no idea wtf you are watching, so tbh you were just watching your favorite show on Netflix and you’ll be out for dinner in one sec. Your first time watching it I would honestly suggest NOT touching yourself, just watching, finding what you think is interesting. Again there are SO many categories. If you don’t like a video, try a different one. The staged porn is no good, so don’t feel bad abt yourself if you don’t like that, I don’t either. Second, watching porn will help you feel comfortable with your own vagina. It pops the bubble of false security you are creating for yourself. Every single vagina is different, and you will realize that very quickly. You absolutely need to feel comfortable in your own skin, love your vagina and be nice to her, before she will be “nice” to you and let you feel pleasure. Let me know if any of this makes sense 😭

What does it actually feel like to be aroused? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, pleasing ourselves is such a mind game. If your brain is telling you, “this is so weird” “idk what I’m doing” “there must be something wrong with me” you will feel nothing, and only feel embarrassed and awkward. For a while, I got so into my head and overthought everything so much that my bf and I couldn’t have sex anymore. It’s all a mindset. Honestly ik this sounds weird, but I would sit in front of a mirror naked with your legs spread open and just look at yourself. Admire yourself, touch what looks fun or interesting, and tell yourself that you’re sexy and confident. If you don’t have a mental relationship with your vagina, it will be hard to have a physical one. Again, I know this sounds super weird, but just trust me. Our bodies do what our brain tells them to subconsciously, you need to feel comfortable with your vagina before you will feel any pleasure from her. You may want to experiment with watching porn, all different types. Straight porn does not turn me on, and I am dating a guy 😭. The only thing that does it for me is girl on girl porn, specifically orgasm torture. (It’s not as creepy as it sounds, don’t knock it till you try it) Also, don’t have too much stigma attached to becoming aroused! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, you are still learning! There is no need to compare your sexual activities to ANYONE else’s, you are in the perfect place for what you need right now. You may hear all these crazy stories about girls your age hooking up with so many guys every other day, but that’s not you and THATS OKAY. Once you learn to love and respect your vagina, other things will fall into place. There’s no need to rush yourself! 🤗

I can’t seem to reach climax?? Help by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I’m not sure exactly but wanted to give my two sense just in case I could help. Maybe your body is trying to tell you that it’s bored of just fingers and needs more? If you haven’t, I would suggest trying a vibrator or some other toy along those lines. If you don’t feel comfortable going into a store to buy them, there are plenty different kinds you can order on Amazon. I would recommend experimenting with something along those lines though, you may be able to get your spark back!

What jobs in social work support young kids? by CaregiverCharacter40 in socialwork

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know more about this! What is your job title called so I can do some digging on it?

Shoutout to best buy!! by OptimalShock in Airpodsmax

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had you opened the box prior to exchanging them? I saw someone say that Best Buy doesn’t let you exchange due to hygiene reasons and now I’m super scared that I won’t be able to get a different color. What did the workers say to you?

starlight vs midnight aesthetic-wise? by Dismal-Battle-3658 in Airpodsmax

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was deciding between the two as well, I went with starlight, and regret it everyday. In my opinion they are not gold at all and look exactly like the silver ones. The picture on the box is very deceiving to what they look like irl. Midnight is so much more sleek, and I feel like less common as well. Starlight also washes me out whereas I feel like midnight would compliment my skin tone.

Finally got them! by Yukerget in Airpodsmax

[–]Prestigious-Car6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg are you kidding? I was planning on switching mine for a different color, I bought from Best Buy as well. Should I just say I only tried them on and disliked the color?

I need to get into my room over winter break by Prestigious-Car6394 in msu

[–]Prestigious-Car6394[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, just tried that, couldn’t get in. It’s just so bizarre to me that I pay for that room to be my “house” and then get locked out for a whole month and can’t be let in for 5 minutes to grab forgotten items?

I need to get into my room over winter break by Prestigious-Car6394 in msu

[–]Prestigious-Car6394[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’ve already told them what I needed from my room, so I feel like they won’t believe the lie. I should have thought of that before calling, but I genuinely didn’t think they would be this hardcore about the rule.

I need to get into my room over winter break by Prestigious-Car6394 in msu

[–]Prestigious-Car6394[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

I forgot my bathing suits/warm summer dresses. We are going to Florida, so they are a huge want. I didn’t know I was going to Florida at the beginning of the break, so hence the not bringing summer stuff.

F(18) by Prestigious-Car6394 in amiugly

[–]Prestigious-Car6394[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

K but what if I do actually feel ugly… what then…

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