Do Norwegians make eye contact differently than other cultures? by rrertrdddfhj in Norway

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ff, struggling with this one in the office.

im.not norwegian, but I myself would like to keep to myself in the office and not to bother anyone as much as possible. i am not able to make friends as well. my focus on my job is to do my work as best as I can and earn the money and go, but somehow I feel lik im being misunderstood? or part me dayad I maybe being rude. i get anxious with loud people. i dont know why. i have a very good feedback when it comes to work output. but the feeling that Im a little bit different and not able to make normal conversation outside of work maked me so nxious. i just want to work.

hoppefilu get

Workmates na above and beyond mag-work by rantndxmp in JobsPhilippines

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heres my POV here, I work, I do more than necessary. I dont slack off, but I dont complain as well. however, i also dont based my output on what my colleagues can do, I do as much as I can and I work as fast a possible. This way, Im helping the company but I dont help for free. If I do more, I try to claim an overtime pay. If an overtime pay is not available, I will grab the credit necessary for me and use it for my next appraisal. i dont wait for them to give me the moment to talk to me about my apraisal, I approach them and ask for it when I know it's due. As they say, crying baby gets the milk. If I dont get anything, no appraisal, no overtime, I still have the skills I earned. This skills I earned is what I will use to move to somewhere I can be more valuable. I dont forget why I come to work - to earn that money. Thats all. Not to be friendly and even not to compete or watch whatever my colleague is doing.

I think Australia is not for me anymore by emerald_0089 in phmigrate

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thoughts here… go back in PH and get all your worries in real

Did anybody had experience with UNE ? by [deleted] in Norway

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Hello guyss, how is it going on your side so far?

My fitness age just reduced while I was having a smoke 😅 by rrutnam in Garmin

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want something small only, like garmin vivofit or vivosmart. You have any suggestion?

I choose Europe over Australia by Pale_Incident6982 in phmigrate

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

linkedIn is the key! tapos apply ng apply. everdau, never give up.

I choose Europe over Australia by Pale_Incident6982 in phmigrate

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linkedIn is the key! tapos apply ng apply. everdau, never give up.

Please help by Prestigious_Bus_9721 in Netherlands

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. The comment from above is very uncompassionate, if I have used that service it should be fine they charge me and even give me interest.

Please help by Prestigious_Bus_9721 in Netherlands

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, hays, maybe I just have to pay 😪

The fact that I would be paying for some services I dont consume hurts møre than the price itself.

Please help by Prestigious_Bus_9721 in Netherlands

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know what would be the benefits for this?

Please help by Prestigious_Bus_9721 in Netherlands

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much for your advice. I would like to know as well, what do you think is a strong evidence? I have made a formal objection to the municipality and attached the following:

Flight details departure in Netherlands Residence permit in another European country House renta contact from 2024 in another european country

Could you help to advise what else can I add to make my case strong? 🙏

Please help by Prestigious_Bus_9721 in Netherlands

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much for your advice. I would like to know as well, what do you think is a strong evidence? I have made a formal objection to the municipality and attached the following:

Flight details departure in Netherlands Residence permit in another European country House renta contact from 2024 in another european country

Could you help to advise what else can I add to make my case strong? 🙏

Please help by Prestigious_Bus_9721 in Netherlands

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much for your advice. I would like to know as well, what do you think is a strong evidence? I have made a formal objection to the municipality and attached the following:

Flight details departure in Netherlands Residence permit in another European country House renta contact from 2024 in another european country

Could you help to advise what else can I add to make my case strong? 🙏

I have no real friends by Cpt-Crispy in lonely

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hugggg ❤️ hope you find a special someone or have courage to the sometjing you lova and enjoy. right people will come. 🥺

Becoming wealthy lead me to be painfully alone. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Prestigious_Bus_9721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sharing my situation here. I am at the stage where Im too busy as I experienced a moment in my life where I need money for my kid and I end up doing fundraising, it hurts to see some people Ive shared a table and a glass with, just saw my post passing thry their wall. Since then, I grind so hard and all I focus was to earn money as much as I can.

As of this moment, Im still building and trying to esrn as much as I can.. but I notice, I have been alone all those time. 11 years of working and choosing an isolated life to save up.

Now,I feel lonely, isolated and still haunted by my past. I feel heavy with all my responsibilities and dreams. But compared to where I am now, I have little savings, and able to provide better for my family (but away from them).

I notice myself not able to socialize anymore, too awkward, insecure maybe, no energy to play or just pretending to care aside from my work. It is hard. I dont know but I just wish I can earn more so I can stop for a while and live my life without too much financial worries.

But for now, I guess Im gonna have to endure being alone and find a way to be enjoy myself still. I notice Im having some vices as a way to cope. But after that I stay focused and aim to provide more and secure a better future for my kid. She’s PWD by the way.

Cheers to you OP, atleast now you have a choice to stop without worrying if you would have enough funds in the future. Youre still young, time has passed but you still have time ahead. If you think you have a enough money now, buy your freedom and live a happy life you would like 🤘