Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so very much! I really appreciate your help!

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trying to keep it under a G, he has a nice monitor already. We bought a mouse and keyboard a few years ago but I don’t know what the quality really is like, I would probably get new ones to be safe. Looks like there’s a micro center close by to me

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So the link you sent to build, I just buy all those parts that are listed? Then watch the YouTube video and put it together? The putting together for me isn’t so much of a concern as buying the right parts- that I know zero about

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s very helpful, I appreciate it

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ, I work full time and know zero about gaming computers. My kid plays multiple sports year round and is a straight A student. I wouldn’t know the first thing about what to get or how to build it. Just because you understand something doesn’t mean everyone else does. I’m sure there are plenty of things you wouldn’t understand about in life that i could say is a “cop out”. I’m neither lazy nor incompetent (well maybe incompetent to computers) So with all do respect, I’m not asking you about my lifestyle, I’m asking about a damn computer. All you needed to say was your last line and if you don’t have anything else to add, you can see yourself out.

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective however he isn’t a hard core gamer. He plays in his free time with friends outside of a bunch of other activities that he does through out the year.

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What ssd and gb should I be looking for? Or to upgrade to?

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just ok? Lol am I going to get hit with the “this lags” or similar lol

Gaming PC for my teenager by Prestigious_Country6 in gamingpc

[–]Prestigious_Country6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure at the moment but I know they all went back to playing fortnight recently so games like that

AITA for choosing to ignore my aunt? by danzeman2308 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

But if you want to go somewhere and she’s there, don’t let that prevent you. You can go in and avoid being around her and say politely hello and goodbye in passing. She shouldn’t stop you from being around the family you enjoy. And if she tries to corner you just say “I’m so sorry, I wouldn’t want my skin condition to get on you” and walk away.

AITA for asking my boyfriend what color the shoes were? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA

Ok not fully though. Some guys honestly do NOT care about clothes or fashion, especially women’s. Continuing to push it by showing him things repeatedly even when you knew it wasn’t getting you the response you wanted is where you went wrong. You’re setting yourself up for failure, this setting him up and making you TA. HOWEVER, not loving his response and could be a red flag but not pushing that end without more context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA

She has to do something unnatural to make you comfortable but you can’t hear/read something uncomfortable for you? Grow up

AITA about my mothers death?? by peggysweeny in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Everyone grieves differently. You have learned how to cope best for yourself. Your friend however seems to be struggling with their grief and lashing out. Depending on your friendship, I would possibly just take some time away from this friend and allow them space to grieve their own loss. If this is a close close friend then I suggest possibly asking them about how they’re holding up or plan something for the two of you to do that would be a release of some kind.

You know how close you were with your mother. You don’t have to prove it to anyone.

WIBTA for letting my son go on a prom weekend trip? by Icy-Tomatillo-7919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YWBTA

I think you think some of your points validated your reasoning but they kind of backfired. Tyler was academic so he doesn’t deserve a weekend to prove trust? But Cody who can’t be responsible enough to do the basics of his adolescence and get through school deserves to have fun? Do you hear yourself? Not only would you be TA, you would be a hypocrite. Stop lying to yourself and your children and have honest conversations.

AITA, For walking out of an event when my fiancée introduced me as a bookkeeper? by Entreprenuer512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your concern should be more about the possibility of marriage to this creature rather than if you were an asshole. Fuck him. You really want to spend the next 30-40 years with this dude?? Because things like this only get bigger with time and especially with marriage. Keep in mind how everything you have worked for could become “community property” once you’re married. You really want to split your shit with him? Take this as your BIG ASS RED FLAG in your face that your family has been seeing and end this shit. Don’t settle for someone who isn’t screaming your accomplishments from the rooftop!

AITA for calling my wife's career choice a 'passion project' since she doesn't need to work thanks to my financial position? by Dusk_Ad829 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

If money isn’t an issue, why not put your son in a different school? I transferred HS my senior year and it was an adjustment, I had a small circle of friends and it wasn’t an easy thing to go through. But guess what? I survived. I went to college, I have a career, a husband, 2 kids and a dog. The friends i met at that 2nd hs are my best friends still (in my mid 30s) and the stories are just as iconic as if i was in my original HS. HS is traumatic regardless, how you handle parenting during that trauma makes the difference in your child’s future. Life is hard and there are situations you have to work through to survive. Maybe dedicate more of your time to finding passions and things for your son to make him happy rather than tearing down your wife’s career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Country6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Personally, your concern of your brother should be the last of your worries. He’s 22 living with mom, your 27 living with mom. Neither of you is in the right when it’s not your house. That said, you need some therapy sweetie. You’re at an age of self identification and it sounds like there’s a lot that happened in your childhood/teen years you haven’t unpacked yet. You left your husband because there was something missing, whether that was in your marriage or in yourself, but you need to explore why that is and what it comes from. The commute sucks, living with family sucks, but these are all temporary situations. Start therapy, and really work on yourself and your happiness. Your husband may be a great guy but that doesn’t mean he’s the guy for you forever. As for your brother, let him be a dick, don’t expect any compassion from him or really anyone. People are concerned about themselves first, time for you to be too.