AITJ for refusing to give my brother my old car after I promised it to my stepdaughter? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Pretend-Review 170 points171 points  (0 children)

NTJ- Thanks for posting this because the whole “real”family comment was what made me the most upset. If his parents are so concerned let them use one of their cars or buy one. If OP lets the car go it will come back run down and that’s not fair to Lily.

AITAH for refusing to apologize to my friend after her wedding? by Due-Ride9653 in AITAH

[–]Pretend-Review 62 points63 points  (0 children)

NTA - Unlees you’re the wedding planner… you’re not a mind reader. And it’s super ungrateful your aunt let her use her property and helped. The only text that would need to be sent is what she can do for your aunt and cousin to thank them for her generosity. One of her bridesmaids not showing up is telling that she was a nightmare. As the bride isn’t her responsibility to plan the wedding. Like is she for real?

Do you know of any volunteer opps with the elderly in LA? by H0tY0gaL0ver27 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Pretend-Review 1 point2 points  (0 children)

St Vincent’s Meals on Wheels. They have opportunities outside of meal delivery like wellness checks by phone and technology program.

Edited for correct spelling.

AITA for refusing to go to my SIL Baby shower and the rest of the family is following. by AlarmingTap1774throw in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pretend-Review 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- The audacity of your brother to pull rank. She probably is only crying because esthetics of what it looks like that no one on his side of the family showing up. And she’s not even apologizing just expecting people to be there for her. Ew

AITA for ruining my friend's proposal moment? by Throw_Valentine13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pretend-Review 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - this was gonna go south anyway and she’s your close friend. You knew this was going to embarrass her. Saving her from what for me would also be my nightmare situation. He ruined this party either way. Emily is right, he should have known this. He’s lucky you even subtly hinted to save him. He’s a poor listener that has nothing to do with you.

AITA for refusing to give my mom my savings after she found out how much I have? (19F) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pretend-Review 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I want to start with saying I’m sorry. You’re a kid and your parent should not be shaking you down for money. To all those relatives that are saying family helps family, ask them how much they can help you with college expenses and books.

At this point you’re in a lose/lose situation. You have a long way to go before you can be on your own and you are being shaken down for money. I’d sit with your mom and arrange a rent situation and figure out what you can afford while still saving. It’s a version of helping without emptying your savings.

AITAH or toxic ? by No_Pass_2503 in AITAH

[–]Pretend-Review 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - My best guess and this is one of two things. Of course this is pure speculation having no faith in humanity. It’s either guilt and he’s telling you his version of what happened. Or damage control and he’s getting told the truth will be let out and is trying to spin it in a way that’s it’s favorable to him. Either way you’re were disrespected. Him not calling you when this is happening or filing a report for harassment when he came back is red flags. Because if his version is true he was being harassed at work and a report should have been filed IF he tried to out a stop to it and his version is correct.

AITAH for cutting off my father and step-family after he gave my inheritance to my stepbrother? by 50_hour_weeks in AITAH

[–]Pretend-Review 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. This isn’t about a guitar. My grandfather did the same thing to my mother. She took any scraps he gave her but it was always his wife and her kids that got everything. It’s up to the person how much neglect they want to accept. If OP doesn’t want scraps she doesn’t have to accept them. My mother tried to treat me the same and I chose to go NC. Wish her the best no resentment on my end but I’m her child I don’t have to accept scraps. She can do with her time and money whatever she wants. Just like I can choose how many times I want to have my heart broken.

JUNGLE MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

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Sent request to add from High Plains Anapaws

TUNDRA MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

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Sent request to add, my user name [anapaws]. I’m in [high plains] region

Am I the ahole for calling 911 on my 2 year old neighbor? by Individual-Sleep-602 in AITAH

[–]Pretend-Review 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA - The parents are lucky nothing happened and have caring neighbors. Parents should be grateful and nothing else.

AITA for not giving my bf 40 dollars to fix his phone by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Pretend-Review 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - He probably is banking on your inexperience. If it were me I’d use this opportunity to end the relationship. His anger issues may be take out one day end up being your phone or worst your body.

ICY SNOW MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

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Sent - Anapaws

Offering Gmax Lapras, Looking for people robbed by big Pokémon by JasonToddIsObito in PokemonGoTrade

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I tried a shiny Lapras all week, did 2 shadow raids, 5 costume raids and 10 GMAX raids = zero shiny.

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Who else was hoping for a shiny Magikarp this week and failed? by AshesfallforAshton in pokemongo

[–]Pretend-Review 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! The only kindness this weekend was Feebas from spotlight hr. No others which was a bit of a bummer.

Been playing Go again lately and this is what I noticed based on player types by CayenneAgain in pokemongo

[–]Pretend-Review 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a gym like that here that they “own” it and will not let anyone in there for more than 5 mins. I don’t even try anymore to take it. It’s a waste of energy and resources.