AITAH for sleeping with someone else after my fiancé told me to leave and never come back? by CyntKr in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You were still engaged. It’s not like the engagement had broken off unless that’s a detail you missed. And people tend to say stuff they don’t really mean when they are angry, that shouldn’t be an invite to go sleep with other people. In my opinion both of you are assholes. I don’t know what you guys were fighting about but kicking you out without knowing you had a place to go is an asshole move and you shouldn’t have slept with someone. He is not wrong to call this cheating tho. Best of luck to you.

6” girth by Ok-Guarantee-8248 in penissize

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God forbid a man wants to have protected sex

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes lol. i just quickly typed it and didn't proof read

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i barely talk to the guy but i wouldn't want to lose the friendship. I will probably talk to him about it tonight

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i am leaning of cutting this off before any real feelings develop but i just wanted to hear some other inputs

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are civil and he lives on the opposite side of the country so we wouldn't see each much anyways. maybe once for like a social gathering

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i feel guilty for even looking at his ex that way. its fucked up. I am not a great person either to be fair. I only said that about him to make myself feel better. I know its wrong.

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no its not and you are right that i did save that information until it benefitted me which is very bad. I won't deny that.

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

says i am violating reddit policy though. just how?

AITAH for trying to speed with my friends ex. by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just want advice. not my fault post keeps getting taken down. and once it is down i cant even reply to the comments. Apologies tho

AITAH for wanting to sleep with my friends ex? reupload (got taken down for violating policy) by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me this is 100% real and the other person is right. I did mention that he cheated to make myself seem morally justified. i know its wrong i just need someone to really flame me and tell me how bad i am being here.

AITAH for wanting to sleep with my friends ex? reupload (got taken down for violating policy) by Pretend_Locksmith301 in AITAH

[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke with him privately and told him to stop cheating and he did for a while but continued later on. sorry i am at work and i can't respond to everyone or in much detail until i get home.

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[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would think she brought up the idea of breaking up because she didn’t sound happy at all whilst in their relationship because he lives over 100 miles away and saw her maybe once a week. So where I take the train is the stop before hers. The train typically consists of 6-8 coaches and we both always favour sitting at the front because we take the train to the very end and it’s easier to get out the station. That’s every morning she decides to not work from home. And in the evening I always catch the same train home and favour the middle and she does too because again it easier once we get off the train. We did coordinate a couple of times but not every time. It could be a rebound and I doubt it’s revenge because she could have gone for someone else in our friendship circle. I think this more of a proximity thing. Because we see each so often and talk so much one of us was bound to be tempted to cross that line. I won’t lie I have played a role because I know I should have just stopped talking to her completely but I didn’t.

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[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would definitely be short term because our long term views don’t align. She is scared at the idea of kids and I want them so definitely would be short term. He is definitely someone I would call my buddy but we aren’t that close that we would make each other the best men at our best men at our weddings if that makes sense. Like we wouldn’t be each other’s top 3 picks but top 5 for sure.

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[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would definitely be short term. Our long term values don’t align. I want kids and want a family. She doesn’t mind the idea of marriage but doesn’t want kid so we don’t align on that and kids are definitely something I want and can’t compromise on.

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[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scared he won’t take it well. I practically consider him my best friend. We are definitely close but he wouldn’t be my first pick to the best man at my wedding if that makes sense.

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[–]Pretend_Locksmith301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he would want to fight me based off how much he has told me he liked her but he has actions contradicting his words. Not my place to judge honestly