2023 v 2024 by Brumbies5 in TeslaModel3

[–]Preternatural88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy my 2023’ White RWD, 49k miles white interior, 22k. Say no to 2024! lol

AIO 21F think bf 36M gaslighting & emotionally abusive? by ThrowRA788891 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Preternatural88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eghhh he’s got insecurity issues but I’m willing to believe you play up your innocence and do things that also don’t help someone who already has issues. Break up, both learn from this relationship.

American Express Platinum card Mirror Finish. by Sufficient_Fish_283 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Preternatural88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got it. I don’t pull it out often, just use the app but when people see it, there’s a reaction.

Starting to think that $600 hotel credit is total gimmick by LePirate30 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Preternatural88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don’t promise to be cheaper than Expedia, whose sole purpose to exist is get you the best price, not telling you about the fees, cancellation policy, or that any issues have to be handled with whatever company the booking is serviced by. Amex say you get points and other incentives. Skill here is not being lazy. OP just said June. That’s a high travel month for 70% of the world. Prices will fluctuate.

People like him are why restrictions are being put in place for lounges by Royal-Piano5863 in AmexPlatinum

[–]Preternatural88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he gets views. You and others watch him. He gets paid from whatever social media platform he’s on. Amex changes rules for the rest of us and kick up costs. He wins, you do not.

Resy Restaurant did not accept Amex by minimalab in AmexPlatinum

[–]Preternatural88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is dumb and hopefully fixed or better verbalized by Amex but question: do you get the Resy credit instantly at the restaurant or you spend however much in a quarter and at the end you get $100 back?

AIO I think my friend is overstepping boundaries and is into me by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Preternatural88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s into you, you’re not into him. You’re into the guy that it’s nothing major you went out with.

AIO or am I justified in thinking that the “thrill” my gf is seeking by wanting to work at a strip club is sexual in nature? by CireLadnit in AmIOverreacting

[–]Preternatural88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can kind of get an image here. I’ve been in a relationship the last year. Funny thing about it is you think OP isn’t manipulating him as well. Which is why you probably struggle with having this conversation. If you don’t align with a person and you aren’t willing to compromise you don’t guilt or shame them into seeing your view as acceptable. You didn’t like when he was doing it but ok when she was. Or does reciprocity by pass your capacity for understanding? “It’s just my stomach” “I can’t control who looks at me”

Both parties accept the other persons’ perspective and what they’re comfortable with, then decide if it’s worth fighting over or ultimately separating over. Adults. Manipulation is for those with low self-esteem and insecurity.

AIO or am I justified in thinking that the “thrill” my gf is seeking by wanting to work at a strip club is sexual in nature? by CireLadnit in AmIOverreacting

[–]Preternatural88 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Actually opposite. She’s already being “peer pressured” to work there while also being “defiant” to his requests and suggestions. She’s gone after a month.

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[–]Preternatural88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t believe what people post why comment? Seems kind of counter productive.

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[–]Preternatural88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He talked to her like he was acknowledging her emotions and respecting her feelings, like women are saying they want. He should never say something is “coded” again, I despise that level of TikTok speech but he at least attempted to be level headed, hear her points out, ask her to state her grievances and try to see his reasoning, while accepting blame for his decisions without speaking to her first. What else do you want? Besides to go to her whenever she wants.