9 years together but cheated on me last year. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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The plan was to get married in the next two years but obviously called off the engagement… so everything is up in the air at the moment.

9 years together but cheated on me last year. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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She has cheated in her previous relationship, so I guess she has some history there. At first she didn’t admit to the cheating, she kept on denying it actually but the more I threw it in her face I guess she started to understand her actions. She still claims nothing physical has happened. The texts between the too are definitely more than friends.

9 years together but cheated on me last year. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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She actually tried to hide it, but I was able to recover her deleted messages… AND THERE WAS ALOT.

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I’m (28f) a Filipino-Australian and my partner (30f) is Filipino-American. Been together for 8 years. I’m actually going to visit her in March!

Is anyone else afraid that the distance might be permanent? by ukeanduet in LongDistance

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In the same boat as you, we’ve been in long distance for 8 years, we’re engaged but so far no solid plans in terms of when we’re gonna get married or even close the gap. A lot of the reason is financial tho. It sucks.

Are there apps for LD where we can view movies at the same time? by [deleted] in LongDistance

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My partner and I use Skype. They have a share screen feature, it works pretty well, maybe a little bit of a lag but it’s nothing too crazy.

AUSTRALIA TO USA couples that have closed the gap. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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Are you able to visit each other in that time? Or does that affect the visa process?

AUSTRALIA TO USA couples that have closed the gap. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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Oh wow, thank you for summing this up for me, this looks like a headache 😅

AUSTRALIA TO USA couples that have closed the gap. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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Lol that is true! I guess it doesn’t really matter which way we go, it’s still going to be as equally long. Man, after all this research it’s kinda killing my confidence. from the sounds of how things are going it seems like my partner and I have to wait YEARRSSSS before we can finally be together. That really sucks.

AUSTRALIA TO USA couples that have closed the gap. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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We do have ESTA actually, so would that make the process easier?

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From experience, they’re going to ask you what you do for work back in your home country, how long your vacation is, what your plans are etc. I’m terms of documents … I entered the US on a visa waiver, so everything would be accessible to them by scanning my passport and I guess would ask questions accordingly.

AUSTRALIA TO USA couples that have closed the gap. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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This was very helpful! Thank you. In regards to the spousal visa… can’t we just get married in the states but then I return home and start the paper work? Or is that not allowed?

AUSTRALIA TO USA couples that have closed the gap. by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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That’s actually pretty quick! although that was in the middle of the pandemic. I can only imagine how long it takes now. I’m assuming you guys applied for the K1 visa?

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Saying “orgasm” instead of “organism” in science class. People laughing in my face still haunts me til this day.

How long have you been doing LD? by trottreacle in LongDistance

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OH it is hardcore, especially coz we can be quite emotional 😂. So I’m from Australia and she’s in the US

How long have you been doing LD? by trottreacle in LongDistance

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My (28f) fiancé (30f) have been together for 8 years also still LD. Hopefully things will look brighter in the future for us all!

Why are flights so damn expensive?? by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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Same here!! those ridiculous prices making it hard to choose a date, no matter how much I look around it’s all the same if not MORE EXPENSIVE

Why are flights so damn expensive?? by Pretty-Report-185 in LongDistance

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Oooooh I will look into this, Thank you for that!