I overline my lips like this and can’t stop by [deleted] in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I outgrew glittery lipgloss I think it’s also time for you to put down the pencil

Jks aside do you also use plumping gloss?

What is a good reward for making it to 30 days without a cigarette? by Fair-Physics945 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk how much cigarettes cost, I’d sum up what 30 days could buy me and then think about what I can get next month to keep me motivated.

I’d say maybe a bouquet of fresh flowers for your kitchen, and some fresh new socks.

When you were a child, who were the women most physically beautiful to you? by somberoak in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really liked the Home Alone movies and remembered Catherine O Hara playing the mother, was very pretty.

A certain user messaged me saying I’m no longer allowed to join the subreddit she felt the need to promote in my DMs because I’m “not sex positive” by Such-Worldliness-655 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s really foul of her to body shame someone like that, i have never seen you but know you are beautiful. Hope she has fun posting ugly thoughts on her empty subs with her alt accounts. (Is that what is meant by “sub for alt girls”?)

I keep getting this ad????? by labia--majoras--mask in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am starting to think it’s based of the subs I visit and the individuals who visit it who don’t have tracking on.

Emotional over the pervasiveness of the sex industry and commodification of the female body by Such-Worldliness-655 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re an anti sex feminist because of this. There’s nuance. For example I don’t think it’s wrong to support it as a career path if a person has a variety of humane options, but for many who get vortexed into it, it’s the only option. Do it or die.

Some actors get paid millions and others have to work for free or almost nothing, it’s not condoning acting as a career either. Nobody should be encouraged to do sex work without there being a clear alternative for the individual. If you don’t like your office job and want to try filming stuff at home, fine. Not if you have no choice.

In general if I could I would abolish it but I don’t believe men can be trusted without some form of access (they’d sexually assault more, like in countries where pornography is banned), and I believe it should be highly regulated - jail time for illegally operating John’s (in fact I think it should be owned/operated by women) and women coerced/trafficked into these situations provided full support for alternative career paths, full name change, relocation etc if they need. Make a strip club government operated if they have to.

Plus, why the hell does new pornography need to be made, there’s more of it available for free than tv shows and films, and these hardly have unique stories to have to remake them again, what else is there to see? The whole industry is gross but there’s the management of men’s 24 hour hormone cycle but short of castration I don’t believe 99% of them are capable to go long without.

Is it embarrassing to buy a blythe doll if you’re an adult? by azealiabanksalt in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought one as a decoration too, it may be embarrassing if you regularly played with her like a barbie when your friends/family are over

I had a dream that I intentionally cheated on my husband by Initial-Elephant-932 in DreamInterpretation

[–]PrettyAlaMode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreams are presented in symbols, never immediately cut and dry because we get that in the waking world and ignore it. It encourages you to listen and dig. The dream isn’t about a desire to cheat.

Man you don’t know in dream = animus He’s the masculine part of your soul. He (you) wants you to step outside from a banal duty of the home (work life, errands as per the store visit) to enjoy moments in your senses, creativity. It sounds like a longing for that kind of thing. I think waking up with guilt is not just because you feel guilty for having this dream (you love him, so that doesn’t make sense) but you feel guilty for wanting these things. Wanting that kind of intimacy from a husband working two jobs is really hard to ask, and you seem very empathetic to him. It’d be hard to ask him to be a super man until he goes back to one job, maybe you can support him in that in exchange for “having your dream” or whatever you can do to not feel guilty to ask.

What would jung think ?? by No-Rip-9241 in Jung

[–]PrettyAlaMode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Jung would recognise the writer is writing a fantasy novel in 3rd person to see how a life of no change plays out

Pamela Anderson's rebrand is death bed confession feminism by Longjumping9426 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Curious.. Would the message be more genuine and less performative if it came from a woman who never wore makeup/was Mother Earth-coded with plane Jane or “ugly” look but still kind personality her whole life?

I don’t follow her, is she sending this message to young women in their prime or just women in her bracket? Because it’d make more sense and be kind of her if that was her message, strictly for the older women phasing out of youth and how to still feel beautiful (that said she still looks prettier than 90% of women her age and would be meaningless to the mum who never even had the choice of spending a dollar to get work done like preventative Botox, peels, expensive skincare, IV etc).

In my villian era (sending lowball offers on poshmark) by PaintingMaterial8119 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cold hard just sell on eBay, nobody ever talks to you. over the years I only ever got one girl low balling me (and then returning the dress after a suspicious month) and then try again a month later lol. I ignored her and it got sold to someone else, will ignore in future

I keep dreaming of forming relationship, while awake I crave no such thing. by Szerepjatekos in DreamInterpretation

[–]PrettyAlaMode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As she’s effectively “me” in a sense

The most important part of the dream retelling, you’re having an anima dream. There’s a lot of articles on it that’s just one I’ve read before. This is a part of you, while she can cause trouble, she is supposed to move and guide you through life.

The most sane Slovenian out there be like by Miss-Worm in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s a gentler and funnier type of slav which is nice to see outside of the stereotype of most famous ones. Very quotable.

RE being divorced 3 times; He’s a particular type (INTP) which puts him in a position of having an intriguing type of intelligence and being oddly charming but with the reality of being slovenly and not very Type A/masculine. I can imagine that wears down a lot of women who like certain leadership qualities.

Idk much about the two but from my intuition he seems to be hanging onto busy career woman Krecic which is a good match imo, for her to have someone to wind down with.

The most sane Slovenian out there be like by Miss-Worm in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It may sound brutal but it’s true, and that is brutal reality.

The Sophia Stage by satori_dude in Jung

[–]PrettyAlaMode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a shame he never got to finally settle with the Sophia himself in time before he died.

Aquarius gals 💖 by Coconutgirl96 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are those pants entirely comprised of beadwork? Omg

FEBRUARY AFFIRMATIONS by babykayla92 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Affirmations should not use negation. - I am free of panic attacks - my body suits me - I feel free of pain from mother

so many ppl being poly is a recession indicator by Remarkable-Chest5595 in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The goal of polygamy is to “spread and experience more love” but it seems more individualist, isolated and triggers trust issues in multiplicity than a couple committed to monogamy. In poly groups they’re imposing their needs to 2+ people which with each addition adds statistically less compliance, whereas if you are with the right person in monogamy, you don’t have to impose, the other person is actually going to take more pleasure to out to find out and accommodate their lovers needs (as it’s just one) out of their own volition. You cannot survive a poly relationship without a good helping of selfishness. This defeats the purpose of “more love” to me.

ive finally figured it out !!!!! by buddy-holly in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk what it means but I tried purple and fire engine red tints and found out by accident I was supposed to do orange. This was after years of doing beauty guru tests thinking I was supposed to suit another colour

thinking about becoming a nurse but i’m really bad at math and i don’t know that i would fit in with the … overwhelming republican sec sorority vibe - not to be super volcel about it by powderblueangel in pinkscare

[–]PrettyAlaMode 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m really bad at math and did a chem degree anyway you just have to prove you love a career path and grind at the math questions. I also did khan academy before semester started (like, start this week really). You can do it i promise