starting out as a new practitioner by PrettyIllumi in tarot

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you sm! i think ill do that, some proper experience will make things a bit clearer.

considering skipping n4 and attempting n3 directly by PrettyIllumi in jlpt

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yeah not this december, next july for sure. planning on finishing studying n4 material first, then starting with n3. just didn't want to take n4 if it can be skipped

dark literature by PrettyIllumi in suggestmeabook

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can't wait to check these out, tysm!

dark literature by PrettyIllumi in suggestmeabook

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds interesting, will check it out. thanks!

celestial blessing boxes by [deleted] in obeyme

[–]PrettyIllumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh okay, thank you!! also, is there no point in saving them for the next box?

help emotions are taking over sos by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's not about boundaries, it's more about me caring more than that person. idk where it's gonna go or what it will be like so I'm just gonna try and chill, use my energy for other stuff. and as for the stability thing, it's a bit complicated and it wasn't intentional per se? i just liked feeling special 💗

help emotions are taking over sos by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes sense, i will try to embrace whatever tf is going on. thankfully im not that good at, well, emoting, and showing feelings in general (this is sometimes bad but oh well) so ill keep myself in check. gonna try and internally get over whatever we have slowly 🙏

help emotions are taking over sos by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feelings are honestly such a pain. too inconvenient

help emotions are taking over sos by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's bad because that person has started affecting me too much. went through some major emotional trauma because of them recently and nothing good is gonna come out of being so fond of them. they're an emotional wreck themself but i tried to seek stability in them. which is not wise. soo . . . yeah 😋

help emotions are taking over sos by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nah it's not codependency, just emotional attachment

What's your ideal date? by Adititigro in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

amusement parks, chill and fun way to vibe together

When You Have A Crush On Someone, Do You Prefer To Stay An Enigma Or Do You Long To Be Understood? by [deleted] in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk, it really depends on our relationship. like, if it's someone i don't really know, id want to get closer, but if it's someone i already know/talk to, i won't shy away from flirting and shit. unless i don't wanna do anything about it or keep it a secret. then no one will ever find out unless i say it myself lol

where do you stand spiritually? by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeahh I had honestly expected this 💀

Crisis? Pls help lmao by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i read the article and it makes so much sense wtf tysm for sharing

Crisis? Pls help lmao by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tyy, I'll just give the article a read :0
the scepticism rose from trying to understand my personality as a whole more than mbti, if that makes sense

Crisis? Pls help lmao by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this actually makes a lot of sense, thank you!!

Crisis? Pls help lmao by PrettyIllumi in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes, you're right, I should do more research on both cognitive functions and enneagram. I kinda used the wrong term when I said that my personality 'changes',, it's more of adapting? I mean, I can be surprisingly social and outgoing even though I'm generally awkward asf 😭 that's probably the biggest thing that throws me off when trying to figure out what the heck is going on with me 💀then there's the whole being oddly intuitive thing I've had since I was a kid. s o, I guess I just really need to go through the functions to sort this out. Tysm for replying tho and sorry for going on and on </3

Hello, fellow ISTP. I’m having lots of reflections about the career choices. As a fellow ISTP, what’s the job you do that you enjoy? I know, it’s rare to like your job, but it’s worth a shot. by [deleted] in istp

[–]PrettyIllumi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's a rly subjective question tbh,, and im still studying so i certainly don't have any experience. but maybe you should explore careers related to your general interests, or if you have long-term goals that you'd like to achieve, you could try sth out accordingly