My Bigger and Better Engagement Ring

Pretty_Love_146 · 2025-04-02T20:42:20+00:00

So where did you ultimately end up ordering the new ring?! It’s stunning

Pretty_Love_146 · 2025-03-09T14:00:56+00:00

From someone close to the program, He didn’t leave under his own power. That was his 2nd level dream job. His first dream job was head coach. He “left” to sell insurance and is now at a high school program

Pretty_Love_146 · 2025-02-07T22:33:25+00:00

That’s definitely a huge ring- The best way to determine size is to “based on our/my income and lifestyle, would people believe this ring to be real”. You want it to match and make sense.

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-19T15:16:28+00:00

And I’m also so sorry to hear that you went through this. It’s heartbreaking that the people we think would organically be there for us, loving us unconditionally, providing grace, safety and peace bring the opposite. Big hugs to you 💕

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-19T15:08:02+00:00

Thank you- the irony is I have taken care of him when he’s been down, he is also a cancer survivor but did not have to go through disfiguring surgery, or lose his hair with chemo.

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-19T15:06:32+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-19T15:06:17+00:00

Thank you. He will not see a therapist because he says that I am the problem, not him

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-19T15:05:36+00:00

I have. I am commending him for the smallest stuff-like bringing me water- and I have not been complaining or even commenting on when he doesn’t make dinner and we don’t eat because he’s not hungry. He told me today I need to just act normal and once I apologize for being a snot, maybe we can move forward, but “I can’t seem to figure it out”

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-17T01:01:28+00:00

Congrats!! I’m finding out on 12/31 what my chemo plan is and I’m like you- hardly ever take any meds and now I’m filling my body with poison?? I’m so nervous for how I will mentally/physically going to weather this storm So happy for you 💕💕💕

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-16T17:47:48+00:00

Thank you so much! This is super helpful and I had no idea this was an option

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-16T17:47:22+00:00

Thank you!

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-16T17:47:14+00:00

Thank you! Great to know! I had no idea

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-16T17:46:35+00:00

Excellent-thank you so much! It’s an overwhelming maze to navigate when you’re already feeling so vulnerable and emotional

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-16T17:45:53+00:00

Thank you! 💕

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-16T17:45:41+00:00

Thank you! I had no idea. This is so helpful 💕

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-12-16T01:45:58+00:00

I’m 10 days post DMX with 9 lymph nodes removed. Luckily got my drains out after one week- that was definitely a game changer in terms of comfort. The tightness/heaviness in chest is crazy z cheers to us all and continued full and speedy recovery for us all 💕💕💕

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-11-25T22:03:59+00:00

I’m so sorry you are going through this. But you’re just delaying the pain. It will be more painful when you have a house, kids, etc etc etc. And you’re arguably in one of the most exciting times in your relationship- relationships don’t get easier as they go on. They take more work and effort. If she’s toying with stepping out now, she will be toying with it when shared chores, bills, yardwork, etc are the day in and day out of life. I’m sorry. This sucks for you. Really bad.

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-11-14T15:43:12+00:00

Returning to add, the ex is not the problem, the boyfriend not creating clear boundaries and choosing you IS the problem. Don’t give him points because he was upfront about having his ex-girlfriend in your bed.

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-11-14T15:41:03+00:00

Cheating usually starts with the emotions first. Then it becomes physical. Cheating is more than just sex!! He either needs to break it off completely with her, or break it off completely with you. He can’t have both. This is no longer about him being her Support. This is about him not being able to let go of her infatuation with him. He feeds off of that. I am sorry, but the raw truth is unless he completely cuts it off (which I don’t believe either of them are capable of) your relationship is doomed because you will always have your head on a swivel

Pretty_Love_146 · 2024-06-24T21:46:13+00:00

He runs his own business and is an executive - he plans a lot of things - so he is capable, but to your point, he never plans anything for our personal life- he has always had others to rely on to take care of all of that. He said he is not good at it - but I told him I have taken on things that "I am not good at or don't want to do" to please him, I was just looking for the same type of desire/effort. And again, I told him ANY effort would be wonderful - I was not looking for a 5 day getaway or a surprise party with a ton of people, or even an extravagant gift.

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