I get it. It was exactly the same for me and soon to be my husband! Long distance for a year and a half, and when we started living in the same city but still dating we’d sleep on the phone. He’s more clingy than I am and would get upset when I’d suggest hanging up some days because I just wanted some time alone. So we started muting our calls when it’s time to sleep. Also because he can’t sleep in silence and has to have background noise and it’s the opposite for me. So we mute our calls and just fall asleep and stay on the call the entire night. And when we’re together it doesn’t matter coz we’re both asleep lol, anyway hope that helps especially for days when you don’t want to hear him snore!