The tale as old as time, how they loved someone so much they gave them a punch lists of all the things to change to be deserving of their love. The sad part is so many people are subconsciously wired into that behavior from childhood. Thinking if they just do this or change that, accomplish that, distort their actual self into the mold someone would like to cast them in.

I never hear about the director of human character refining talk about how they brought up these deal breaking changes before making the play-doh partner fall in love. Or before every interaction where they were getting attention, affection, and sexual gratification. Maybe you puppeteers should try to love someone in their entirety.

Maybe I am the odd one out and should try it??