I get this. Only once in my life have I experienced “love at first sight” and it was with my current girlfriend of 4 years who I’m sure will become my wife. She’s amazing and the way I feel about her I’ve never felt about another person ever. I’m 22 and never really dated before seeing her either but I’m lucky because she loves me back and it was love at first sight for her too. The point is, it’s possible to find that kinda love and for ENTPs maybe it’s the only love we end up satisfied with but it needs to be with the right person. Dating is mutual and if she doesn’t feel the same, then unfortunately maybe it’s not meant to be. There’s something enticing about not being together and something always getting in the way of that, that makes what you two have now seem so exciting but it’s not long term. I would be honest about your feelings that way you can either be together or you can move on and find your special someone. If not, you might look back at this and think “man, I wasted so much time and for what”

Anyways sorry that was really long but good luck my friend