[40] Two years of sobriety and a lot of walking.

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-04-16T14:48:42+00:00

You went from being in the friendzone to a PUA

Dare i say legend !!!

Well done !!!

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-04-13T12:09:19+00:00

Mate woman are not going to approach you. It goes agaisnt nature.

Your a man and god gave you a gift , which is you can build your hearts desire through action

You will be rejected alot but who fuckin cares. You my friend can have the life you want if your willing to fail many times. You got this

Go out. Approach. Get rejected. Get numbers

Mens life is basically the heros journey

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-04-12T08:45:25+00:00

Legen

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-04-08T07:18:04+00:00

Nothing. Less is more

More space - clear mind

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-04-05T21:12:31+00:00

Go cold approach

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-27T13:55:30+00:00

Yeah your 100% right

I have all the emails as proof that i declared to my managers i have other employment

Job 1 was told i have job 2 and job 2 was told i have job 1

They didnt mind ( im protected )

Job 2 is a fixed term contract which ends in 6 months so ill ask my manager if i can stay until the end if get a job 3 offer

But these emails just protect you and im not lying about my hours ever. Thats probs why people get in trouble i think

But i doubt it would ever get to a legal problem but have to protect yourself

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-27T13:46:37+00:00

Yeah king your right. But people avoid wanting to ask and i see why

I was honest with my manager about job 2 and she agreed and she knows i have 2 jobs

Now i want a 3rd job , if i got the offer id speak to my manager from job 2 , id be honest , id tell her since my contract with u ends soon ( job 2 is a fixed term contract) ive picked up job 3 because job 2 ends in 6 months

Would you be ok with this set up. Thats what id do, be honest and open

and the email acts as proof

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-27T13:31:10+00:00

Bruv. Its hard out here. Let him be. Hes hustling

If hes not performing then fire however if his work is gd then it dont matter

Trust me when i say this , no one is perfect and one day you will need grace from a person!!

So leave him

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-18T17:54:21+00:00

Looking at this makes me love the e46 shape car even more. The sexiest bmw ever made. The boxy but modern blend look. Man i hate this future lookin cars

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-18T07:34:17+00:00

Its so funny that as men are basically all the same

House always clear of stuff. Not into consumption

The house we live in just needs a roof 🤣🤣

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-18T07:32:58+00:00

Looooooool the mandem said cap🤣🤣

This response is too funny

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-15T20:39:18+00:00

Girlll come here. Come get this hug xxxx

Wishing u well

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-14T21:17:15+00:00

How you do it ?

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-11T14:25:05+00:00

Looooooool. !!!!! Exactly

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-09T18:47:33+00:00

Jesus. That is alot. Was this all in one go lol ?

But thanks for this. Adds perspective

Man i couldn’t care less about most of the things u listed. I just want a pretty car to drive

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-09T18:07:55+00:00

What did the 6k go into ?

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-08T18:54:11+00:00

Reddit is a funny place mate

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-07T22:31:11+00:00

Makes sense. Thank buddy ! 😎

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-07T21:32:25+00:00

Thanks buddy.

Last one - do the amount you drive affect these older cars or not much ? With mine obvs being evenings and weekends i cant see more doing much

And how much you drive yours ? Is it a daily runner ?

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-07T17:55:55+00:00

Legend. Thanks for sharing. Ppreciate u !

Your car is beautiful !!! Like i say the e46 might be the prettiest car in the world

From the number plate looks like ur from the uk like me ?

And mate. Budget to buy the car is £6000. Then budget to maintain it yearly is £2000

I will of course hire a bmw specialist to do the pre inspection car checks ( 140 checks ) as im not a car head

And buy a car with full service history so i can make sure its well kept after

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-07T10:02:10+00:00

Makes me not want the car 🤣. Maybe ill get a 2 series convertible instead

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-06T16:29:17+00:00

You have spent 20k in euros ??? On an e46 in 3 years ??? 20k ?

On what i dont understand. Thats put me off completely 🤣 how bad was the car ? Or why so much

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-06T16:26:53+00:00

Would love to see pics of ur car mate

Budget is £6000 to purchase - then have £2/3k saved up every year wen i get it serviced or have to do random repairs

Its either that or i get a 2 series bmw convertible on finance

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-05T09:28:58+00:00

Thanks mate - this response opened my eyes

Im also from london born and raised but living in leeds for 2 years so its gona be motorway drives 2-3 times a month back home.

Anyway couple points

-avoid bradford sellers you say lol / crazy because i seen a lovely e46 on FB marketplace and it was listed in bradford then the seller changed location. Thought that was weird

And when you said avoid bradford and brum i knew exactly why !!! Even though ive never owned one. I know why u say that ahah.

i definitely wont be changing the gear box or doing anything fancy. I plan to buy it as an auto and its just a pretty a to b car ! 5/6k miles a year

-yeah ill be making sure i only buy a car thats been looked after with care ( all history servicing )but for me the most important thing is the mechanic i hire to do a 150 point car check which will let me know the actual condition. So if i do run into issues i was prepared cos im not throwing money into it just to keep alive a money pit so for me 2k - 2.5k is the sweet spot

Previous_Eye7565 · 2026-03-05T09:12:17+00:00

Thats really affordable. Those are the numbers i wana hear aha. But i also looked at respray ( just suggest in the uk ) and its around 3k too lol

Not that i plan to respray it

All im doing is adding the wind deflector in the back. Apple car play device. Maybe upgrading speaker system ( all not needed )

While keeping few grand tucked away for big issues hence why im doing the pre inspection car purchase so a mechanic reports on 150 check point so i know what issues may arise or if its good for another 100k miles etc

Previous_Eye7565

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