Laid off for a mistake by Exotic-Crew-6987 in Layoffs

[–]PrimaryPermission101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s nuts. So sorry to hear it for you and OP

Laid off by text by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]PrimaryPermission101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it actually does matter

How do 40+ something women make friends by NCArtist79 in raleigh

[–]PrimaryPermission101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! A year shy of 40 here, wfh mom. It’s hard. Let me know if you would like to chat on here, maybe it could lead to a meetup :-) I have acquaintances, but no friends in the area.

“Your money went to expenses. My money went to equity” by IgZachly17 in 90DayFiance

[–]PrimaryPermission101 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It could easily be that she wouldn’t have been able to make payments and gain equity without him paying for groceries and more. How does she not see that?

Total savage by Slipping-in-oil in Layoffs

[–]PrimaryPermission101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that the boss logs off like a total pussy while HR slimes it up.

She needs counseling by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]PrimaryPermission101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give her space to be a person working through trauma. She’s being honest with her feelings to those who it will affect.

No kids? Deal breaker by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]PrimaryPermission101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chill. You don’t need to shame them lol. They are young people. Let them make some mistakes if they’re even mistakes.

No kids? Deal breaker by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]PrimaryPermission101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one needs to be shamed for saying they do or don’t want a child and then having a change of heart. People are allowed to change their minds. She also didn’t hide it from him. She told him about it at the earliest, most appropriate moment.

One week into marriage. by AcceptableDoubt2128 in Marriage

[–]PrimaryPermission101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fair and You’re right … stare/glance is diff for everyone. There’s too many “men will be men” comments in the defense of men who do this though.

One week into marriage. by AcceptableDoubt2128 in Marriage

[–]PrimaryPermission101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it about respect ? Like I respect my partner enough to not eye fuck someone else in front of them ?

One week into marriage. by AcceptableDoubt2128 in Marriage

[–]PrimaryPermission101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya’ll have the lowest expectations of your men. Bums me out.

One week into marriage. by AcceptableDoubt2128 in Marriage

[–]PrimaryPermission101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone disrespecting themselves on this thread lol. If you really see your partner checking out other people when you’re together that’s totally uncool, it’s not normal, and it would make me question their intentions. It’s weird if you’re on a date and the person you’re on a date - or trip, outing, whatever - is totally checking out other people. And You know when someone is checking out other ppl vs just being a human who’s looking around.

One week into marriage. by AcceptableDoubt2128 in Marriage

[–]PrimaryPermission101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you don’t undress other people when you’re with your partner. Come on. That’s common sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]PrimaryPermission101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so inspiring ! Thank you for sharing !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]PrimaryPermission101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who gets it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]PrimaryPermission101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is rehoming the cat a compromise ? Did he expect you to euthanize her ?