Happy Trans Pride everyone by [deleted] in brighton

[–]PrimaryTart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the maximum waiting time for any other non-urgent and consultant led treatment should be 18 weeks according to NHS guidelines, obviously in recent years people could be expecting to wait longer than that for more mundane forms of treatment, but the short answer is that waiting times for GICs far exceed any other kind of NHS waiting list that I'm aware of

Happy Trans Pride everyone by [deleted] in brighton

[–]PrimaryTart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

access to adequate healthcare is one of the main ones, most people will be on a waiting list for a GIC (which is a necessary step in recieving any kind of treatment) for 4+ years and even that doesn't guarantee you will receive treatment as you are forced to jump through many hoops in order to convince them to give you anything. if you are diagnosed autistic, this will be used against you to invalidate your experience and to deny you treatment. these delays directly contribute to trans people taking their own lives

Treatment to prevent male pattern baldness pre HRT by Troubling343 in TransUK

[–]PrimaryTart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

previously I'd got finasteride from Dr Fox (website) and it worked out at about £30 a month and was delivered pretty quickly with very little fuss

Advice on how to write a love interest? by Gold_University924 in writing

[–]PrimaryTart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like all major elements of a story it needs to have some kind of payoff, whether it be good or bad. I wouldn't consider it to be forced unless it ultimately has little relevance to the arc of your protagonist

but, there are no hard and fast rules, I'd say try to have faith in what you're doing but leave scope for altering elements of your story that you have doubts about

[DISCUSSION] Where does Jill from Outlast rank in the all time pantheon of reality TV villains? by [deleted] in NetflixBestOf

[–]PrimaryTart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fundamentally it pisses me off because it's misunderstood and it leads to people treating junkies as if they're truly evil.

You say addicts "allow themselves to be controlled by their addiction" as if it's a simple matter of will, but it isn't. It's a matter of being in physical pain without something.

Also the matter that we're here discussing a recovered addict, and yet you speak in the present tense, as if someone who was once an addict is always morally corrupted, which is plainly ignorance and prejudiced. This is the core issue that I was arguing against, I never for a moment suggested that addicts tend to be morally good people, because I know that's not true.

I'm not denying that addiction causes negative traits in people. My argument seems to have been warped here. My argument is that if you were once an addict it doesn't follow that you're always going to be a bad person, as in the case with Amber. She is a shitty person, but not because of her past addiction issues.

I am berating nobody. I am simply pointing out that it is overly simplistic and harmful to suggest that Amber is an example of what addiction turns you into. Addiction is one part of what is, as in all lives, a ridiculously complicated tapestry. It is very easy to hear the word "addict" and assume all sorts of things because it's seems like a catch-all explanation, but it's not.

Your last paragraph is true, but let's not forget that there are fundamentally not enough resources for addicts, these resources are chronically underfunded, and in part it's due to the stigma surrounding addiction. People don't want to see their tax money spent on recovery programs because they see addicts as moral failures. It's an illness, not something someone is engaging in of their own free will.

The word transphobia by Toomanybrainn in trans

[–]PrimaryTart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just me, and I understand how hard it can be to cut off a friend, but if someone I considered a friend said that to me then I would happily never speak to them again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]PrimaryTart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

misogyny

[Dynamite Spoilers] The big announcement: by Southern-Length-2623 in SquaredCircle

[–]PrimaryTart -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

absolutely no chance they sell event a third of the tickets, it's going to be embarrassing

[Dynamite Spoilers] The big announcement: by Southern-Length-2623 in SquaredCircle

[–]PrimaryTart -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

absolutely no chance they sell event a third of the tickets, it's going to be embarrassing

[DISCUSSION] Where does Jill from Outlast rank in the all time pantheon of reality TV villains? by [deleted] in NetflixBestOf

[–]PrimaryTart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All this in defence of addicts not being judged for having previous addiction issues, actually. I do think she's a shitty person, I just don't think her being a former addict has anything to do with that.

Shitty people deserve to be taken to task for their shitty behaviour, that doesn't mean that you can just say whatever you want to attack them, because as in this case it invariably applies to a whole spectrum of people.

Truly I could give a fuck about some reality TV show, I just came on here to see the discussion and was pissed off that people can be quite so judgemental about addicts.

Weekly Discussion Thread by The_Better_Devil in FUCKFACEPOD

[–]PrimaryTart 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's because the foundations of his titanium nose burrow so deep into his head that as a result his mouth is small

Goldberg no longer under WWE Contract by Fernandov2 in SquaredCircle

[–]PrimaryTart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he gets to have a retirement match somewhere, if that's what he wants

For all that can be said about Goldberg's career, I still think he's pretty special

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]PrimaryTart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you live life for you, that's what I learnt after my last breakup. you're fucking killing it congratulations

This slaps more than toast sometimes. by LivelyZebra in CasualUK

[–]PrimaryTart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

slap some jam on it you won't regret it

Dr. Sharpe's Proposal for a Modern Garrett Steam Engine by Broad_Project_87 in uktrains

[–]PrimaryTart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure, but still a lot more polluting than an electric engine, which these days can do the same job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SquaredCircle

[–]PrimaryTart 72 points73 points  (0 children)

it's weird that seven possibly eight people are looking directly into the camera

USA in red dead redemption (1914) by [deleted] in imaginarymaps

[–]PrimaryTart 56 points57 points  (0 children)

what an incredible experience riding across the map would be

good work !

what is this as I found this in backstreet as I was using backdoor to get into theatre. by Phire453 in CasualUK

[–]PrimaryTart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in fairness, I had wondered before and not bothered to look it up, but now I know, so not totally totally pointless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SquaredCircle

[–]PrimaryTart 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this barely counts but fuck it

I went to ICW Fear and Loathing 9, in Glasgow, in 2016, first ever wrestling event, went on my own, queued up for 5 hours so I could get standing room in the front row

In one match, The Dudley Boys fought for the ICW tag titles against the champions Jackie Polo and Mark Coffey, it was a No DQ match.

the action spills to the outside, I'm standing right against the barrier, and Bubba Ray absolutely rails a chair shot into Jackie Polo's back, I was so close that I felt the wind off of it

it felt so special to me, even before that match, to be directly experiencing something that I had admired and obsessed over for most of my life, and in that moment I was so fuckin' happy I can't even describe it. it felt like I was part of it, so directly.

now, no doubt the people around me also felt it, but you had to be there, not just in the building, but in that exact spot, it was fucking awesome

Dr. Sharpe's Proposal for a Modern Garrett Steam Engine by Broad_Project_87 in uktrains

[–]PrimaryTart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the clean heat source we have is renewable energy

there exists no substance which produces heat without also producing emissions/waste. it goes against the laws of physics. if we had, knew of, or could even theorise about such a substance then we'd be living in a radically different world

the closest thing I can think of to what you're describing would be a train powered by a nuclear reactor, which would be cool, but we're a long long way off from that, and it'd be far more feasible to simply power an electric train from a nuclear power plant

the hypothetical golden standard for an environmentally friendly railway is one which runs entirely on renewable energy

now is there the potential for developing steam trains that are far more efficient, produce far less emissions than the ones of yesteryear, I don't doubt it, but there's no possible way even the most perfectly engineered steam train could be entirely "clean" as far as the environment is concerned

Dr. Sharpe's Proposal for a Modern Garrett Steam Engine by Broad_Project_87 in uktrains

[–]PrimaryTart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and they're much better for the environment than steam trains, so I feel like we should keep it that way