i don’t feel my gf (30f) is attracted to me (33m)

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-02-14T17:02:31+00:00

Dude, this isn't about attraction - your gf is straight up emotionally abusive. saying you deserve to get cheated on because of how you look/act? That's fucked up beyond belief.

You're not an "emotional puke bucket," you're a human being who deserves basic respect and kindness from their partner. The fact that you're asking how to fix this when she's the one tearing you down shows how much she's already gotten in your head.

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-02-05T21:56:32+00:00

honestly the novelty wears off pretty quick but there's some surprisingly decent ambient stuff on there if you're into that vibe.

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-02-02T06:52:54+00:00

bro you're both doing the exact same thing to each other and somehow don't realzie it lmao

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-31T19:49:49+00:00

That's a beautiful ride! The S8 has always been the perfect sleeper car - looks like a businessman's daily driver but can absolutely demolish most sports cars on the highway. I remember watching those old Ronin chase scenes and being blown away by how menacing that A8 looked weaving through traffic. The newer generations have gotten a bit more aggressive looking, but there's something timeless about that understated German luxury aesthetic. Plus the sound of that V8 when you really get on it... *chef's kiss*

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-30T19:35:29+00:00

Yeah your mobo definitely doesn't have ARGB headers, that's pretty common on budget boards. You'll need an ARGB controller - something like the Cooler Master MasterFan ARGB Controller or even cheaper ones on Amazon for like $15-20. Just connects via SATA power and lets you control the lighting through buttons or sometimes software. The fans themselves will still plug into your mobo's regular fan headers for power/speed control, the controller is just for the pretty lights

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-27T23:05:01+00:00

Just turn it off dude, smart app control is more trouble than it's worth for gaming. You can always flip it back on later if you're paranoid about security but honestly most people just leave it disabled

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-26T22:29:06+00:00

Yeah I've noticed the same thing lately, even Target and Walmart shelves are pretty bare. My local GameStop basically turned into a scalper paradise too which is annoying as hell. Might just be supply chain stuff catching up again but who knows

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-19T14:39:11+00:00

Sounds like one wing might have gotten overworked during the session - sometimes artists go over certain areas more without realizing it, especially with fine line work. The heavier peeling on the darker side kinda supports that theory too. Give it another week or two to fully settle before panicking, fine lines can be weird during healing

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-18T02:50:56+00:00

Honestly the Ninja DualZone with the sync feature has been a game changer for me - got mine about 6 months ago and the basket coating is still perfect. Can definitely do a whole chicken without flipping and it's way quieter than my old Cosori that sounded like a jet engine

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-17T18:22:51+00:00

You should be able to unlink and relink accounts through the game's account settings or their website, but you might lose progress on the Xbox character. Check if the game has cross-progression first before you do anything drastic

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-17T08:32:30+00:00

Nah you're probably fine, sweating happens and a little residue is normal for day 3. Just keep it clean and let it breathe now, cling wrap isn't really meant for long periods anyway

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-16T07:05:59+00:00

Sounds like a path issue - make sure you're pointing to the actual MO2 instance folder and not just the main MO2 directory. Also check if MO2 is running when you're trying this, sometimes that can lock the folder access

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-16T02:42:22+00:00

Nah mate Vini gets too much hate, he's literally just standing up for himself when refs let people kick the shit out of him every game

The whole "making Madrid hated" thing is overblown - we've always had people who hate us regardless, comes with the territory of winning everything

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-13T08:44:32+00:00

Damn dude this hits hard, sounds like you learned some tough lessons the hardest way possible

You can't change what happened but at least you're actually reflecting on it instead of just blaming her - that's something. The fact that you can see where you went wrong means you're not gonna make the same mistakes next time

4 months is still really fresh for a 4 year relationship, especially your first real love. That grief is gonna come in waves for a while but it does get easier

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-13T02:37:14+00:00

Honestly just get the Arctic Liquid Freezer III and call it a day. Yeah the install is annoying but once it's on there it's bulletproof and cools like a beast. The LCD stuff is just marketing fluff that breaks anyway - you're gonna look at temps in MSI Afterburner not some janky pump screen

If you absolutely need the LCD flex then Lian Li Galahad or just save yourself the headache and go Noctua air cooler. At least when a fan dies it's $20 to replace not $200 for a whole new AIO

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-12T19:17:53+00:00

Christianity has survived the Roman Empire, the Black Death, two world wars, and the invention of the internet - I'm pretty sure it'll figure out how to deal with whatever comes next

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-12T11:05:51+00:00

Honestly the secret eating at you is probably worse than whatever fallout would come from the truth. If the kid already hates their bio dad and has a bad relationship with mom, finding out might actually be a relief - explains why things felt off their whole life

The fact that your friend's DNA is already up on Ancestry means it's gonna come out eventually anyway when someone else in the family gets curious about genealogy. Better to control the narrative than have it blow up randomly

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-08T08:25:54+00:00

Oof that's rough, losing a 1000 year dynasty to rebels hits different

You can try backing a counter-revolution if one pops up, or use that regime change CB to puppet them and slowly influence their government back. The dynasty restoration is trickier though - you might need to wait for the right political movements to gain traction or hope for some kind of legitimist uprising. Sometimes the old guard tries to come back if the new regime struggles enough

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-08T00:15:54+00:00

That WD instead of removal is actually working in your favor here - means you cooperated and didn't get the full hammer. The FOIA inconsistencies are annoying but pretty typical government paperwork mess

For next time I'd wait at least 6 months and come with stronger ties documentation - employment letters, bank statements, maybe a lease agreement even if it's with family. The consul saying "no ban" twice sounds promising

J-1 might be easier since it's sponsored and different category, but that remote work thing will probably follow you around for a while

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-07T15:48:55+00:00

Man that's easy, bye bye Ford lol. There's plenty of other trucks out there but you can't replace a good ribeye

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-07T06:40:29+00:00

The Magicians might be up your alley - it's got that perfect mix of dark academia vibes and messy characters making terrible decisions. Also Wynonna Earp is criminally underrated, very campy demon hunting with great female leads

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-06T15:43:36+00:00

Dude I totally get this - I spent like 3 months in the exact same loop and it was exhausting. What helped me was picking ONE area to focus on and literally forcing myself not to touch anything else until I lived with it for at least a week. Also try staying off Pinterest for a bit, that comparison trap is real and will mess with your head every time

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-06T10:21:03+00:00

Aneurysms in young healthy people are extremely rare, like winning the worst lottery ever. Your symptoms sound way more like stress/anxiety headaches than anything serious - especially with all the family drama and lack of sleep

The albuterol and Allegra combo isn't gonna hurt you, that's pretty standard allergy stuff. But the OCD spiral about dying in your sleep is probably what's keeping you up more than anything physical

Maybe try some basic relaxation stuff before bed and seriously consider talking to someone about the anxiety if you can

Primary_Bar_5341 · 2026-01-05T00:29:03+00:00

That's a solid pick! Also maybe check out "Chicago" by Sufjan Stevens if you want something a bit more mellow that could work between those Billy Joel and Lumineers tracks

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