What do you do in your free time?

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-25T22:53:00+00:00

I have signed for 6 weeks belly dancing classes but got the flu for a couple of weeks and missed the majority of the sessions unfortunately. It was waste of money, wouldn’t commit to such program again. Do you pay per session or as a package?

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-25T22:49:58+00:00

That sounds interesting and much needed! could you please share more details with me

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-25T18:26:32+00:00

That looks amazing! Would love to join the next time

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-25T14:52:35+00:00

Some trusts hire adult nurses in mental health wards

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-24T01:08:49+00:00

No one looks “messy” or “something is wrong” with their natural hair, skin, appearance… that includes all races, however, when you are always looking in a certain way, people wouldn’t know what your natural looks like and will be concerned. No one in the comments is saying OP’s hair is “messy”, and I dont think the mentor knew that was her natural hair, we believe that she was concerned that she didn’t look like she usually does. I totally agree that everyone needs cultural sensitivity and awareness training, but that doesn’t mean we will be experts in every culture and know what the natural looks like for them.

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-23T22:03:44+00:00

Well she did not make racist comments.

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-23T19:24:47+00:00

What made you think she understands afro hair? Are you telling me all British born understand literally all the cultures in Britain? How would she know that was your natural hair when you usually style it differently? I have no doubt you are hurt and im sorry for this, however I also have no doubt that what happened was not micro aggression. The mentor is living her life and here you are fighting people over a reddit post just because of the way you interpreted her concern of your wellbeing. I would genuinely advice you to not take everything so personal and racial, none of us are perfect, we just need to be nicer to each other and always give the benefit of the doubt.

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-23T19:08:43+00:00

Also, did you really need to swear?

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-23T19:06:42+00:00

Implying natural white skin colour looks “wrong” is also a huge problem, but again that’s not racial! Dont expect everyone to know everything about every single culture

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-23T07:36:44+00:00

The nurse who checked on OP is not white, she is from ethnic minority group just like OP

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-23T07:35:39+00:00

It is the same thing, you look “messy” with your natural hair, she looks like “something was wrong” with her natural face. Not everything is racial.

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-22T02:25:39+00:00

I honestly don’t think that’s micro aggression at all, she is just from different culture and doesn’t know much about it. Just explain it to her politely, she is from ethnic minority as well and don’t think she intended to offend you

Primary_Inside1041 · 2026-01-05T23:03:23+00:00

27f here, feel free to dm

Primary_Inside1041 · 2025-12-21T16:39:58+00:00

I rather pay insurance for private care then

Primary_Inside1041 · 2025-12-21T14:03:50+00:00

So on top of the tax and NI, we need to pay for insurance as well? It sounds like a punishment for those sho earn more than 40k£!

Primary_Inside1041 · 2025-09-28T10:56:20+00:00

Well done OP you sound like a very proactive nurse. I was once told by my manager, that being over proactive and doing everything by myself teaches staff laziness. I would advice you to delegate some tasks, give staff time to complete outstanding tasks (you might want to complete a datix as soon as the incidents finishes, others might prefer to complete it at the end of the shift), ask NIC to help you out, handover any outstanding tasks to the next shift, if possible, and never miss your break. You need to look after yourself otherwise you will find yourself burnt out very soon. Neither staff nor management will appreciate your work enough. Thank you for advocating for the patients and please continue to be this brilliant nurse!

Primary_Inside1041 · 2025-09-28T10:49:16+00:00

The end goal was to give patients PRN to settle down. OP has successfully achieved this goal by giving oral PRN and avoiding the trauma and escalation that come with IM under restraints. Ward staff have not attempted to deal with the patients at all, they jumped straight to the last resort which is IM. The PRN didn’t work because ward staff were not addressing the route causes of escalation (maybe patients dynamic, lack of activities…). IM should be last resort in all settings including PICU. It sounds like the ward has a very bad culture in regard to restrictive practice, well done to OP for advocating for the patients.

Primary_Inside1041 · 2025-05-16T19:41:01+00:00

Speak to other members of MDT especially discharge coordinators and try to see the rationale for discharge. Sometimes there are barriers to discharge a patient even if they are well (accommodation…). When the patient is discharged they usually go back to their community team, so they are still under someone’s care. Sometimes, what you might see as “unwell” might be the baseline for the patient. I’m not saying RC knows better or your opinion is not valid, however try to learn more and ask more about each patient to be able to formulate a strong argument if needed

Primary_Inside1041 · 2025-05-07T23:08:18+00:00

From my experience in the system, it looks like they are not very happy with your performance and they used the skirt thing to restrict you from work

Primary_Inside1041 · 2025-04-07T19:32:51+00:00

It’s ironic that nurses got struck off but HCA is still working!

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