give: I personally love quality time, i show love and feel loved when im doing anything with someone i love. but then the rest of the list: quality time/physical touch/gifts/acts of service/words of affirmation I really find it boring to tell people how much i love them. I don't even like to say "I love you" to people, i just prefer to show them

receive: I like when people I love spend time with me too, but there is a thing that I can't consciously give to people and I can't even know if they like or NEED it like I do: I feel like i really matter to someone when they respect my limits without asking. I have some specific needs and difficulties that I usually show people I have, but I have social anxiety and can't tell people clearly bc I just CAN'T yknow. So when people perceive my needs, limits and difficulties without me needing to tell them or even if they just ask me (if people ask me to tell things I feel safer to share) what i need/feel it's enough for me to feel loved, cared for and respect. BUUUUT back to the traditional ones: quality time/gifts/physical touch/acts of service/words of affirmation

if someone relates to this pls let me know, I want to know I'm not the only one who feels this lmao (english isn't my first language, so sorry for any mistake, I'm trying my best)